A perfect match how do you know?

11/2/2009 8:23:38 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
cctexancowboy West Mifflin, PA age: 46	Not sure what criteria to use when choosing my perfect mate so give some suggestions on how you choose or have chosen your perfect mate.
11/3/2009 3:56:58 AM	A perfect match how do you know?
mowboss54 Springdale, PA age: 62	I don't think there is any set criteria for finding the perfect mate. You can make a list from here to forever of what you want in a person, but if you are expecting all of those requirements to be met, you are kidding yourself. There is no "perfect" match. You have to decide what is most imortant and go with that. YOu might have to give on a few things here and there but all in all you find someone you can feel comfortable with. jmo
11/3/2009 4:51:48 AM	A perfect match how do you know?
stumppy Bath, PA age: 63	I suspect a perfect match is someone that you can sit down with, and make a joint agreement on things, of course there needs to be a basis of sufficient common ground to start with, but overall you need two folks self sufficient enough that they can amicably hammer out an agreement.
11/3/2009 4:59:33 AM	A perfect match how do you know?
harleywidow Johnstown, PA age: 52	Mow, I agree with you. No one is perfect. All of us have flaws, I guess that is what makes us unique & sets us apart feom one another. I have said this before I am not a Barbie. But I haven't found a Ken on here yet either. I too don't think there is such a thing as a perfect match. jmo
11/3/2009 7:06:43 AM	A perfect match how do you know?
rrrsmile York, PA age: 45	too many variables none of which are controlled.... I am looking more for personality traits easygoingness, ability to communicate, ability to compromise, family oriented....etc I use to have them posted on my profile but I scaled that back. Sometimes I find myself easing up on this or that "trait" in lieu of a man's actual personality. Understanding, NO one will completely fill all my expectations. Getting close would be nice.
11/3/2009 9:01:47 AM	A perfect match how do you know?
spunkymissy1 Washington, PA age: 46	every one has flaws...............weigh out the pros and cons.........if pros are a little higher then take a chance and see what happens. this is my motto for meeting an interested/interesting person on here have a great day all
11/3/2009 9:13:24 AM	A perfect match how do you know?
spunkymissy1 Washington, PA age: 46	plus..............everyone has different tastes; so what I like.........you may not we cannot make a list for you/ only you know what you like and don't like in a person.... I guess we could give suggestions............but you see them in profiles of what people are wanting........... Good luck...........take a chance; meet and see what happens then make your own choice I don't fool around for months talking to folks that just want to play online and never meet; but that is just me...........after about month or so if no meeting occurred I just figure not gonna happen.............move on. ( I may be lonely at times, but........not into wasting my time either) jmo
11/4/2009 6:27:12 AM	A perfect match how do you know?
charlot Tyrone, PA age: 53	I don't think we look or don't look for love; the heart is a receptor, always working. In spite of our best efforts to protect or hide it, LOVE looks for us, regardless of how we orient ourselves. No one is perfect. Do you take this bundle of faults over some other bundle of faults? I Do.
11/4/2009 8:50:30 AM	A perfect match how do you know?
kevinbarry Mount Joy, PA age: 65	A perfect match how do you know? I do not believe a perfect match exists. You have to weigh the pros and cons and determine if the plusses are greater than the negatives. Do not look for anyone to be your "everything". Everyone needs both some alone time and also time with others, like relatives and close friends. If the positives about your match are about *major* things and the negatives are *minor*, then you are way ahead of the game. I posted this a couple of months ago, but I believe it is worthy of posting again - specifically in response to this thread: “Notes on Love and Courage” by Hugh Prather. It comes in paperback for $6.95 and might be available at Barnes and Noble or Borders or elsewhere. For sure, it is available at Amazon.com. This book is filled with little blurbs by Mr. Prather dealing with love, relationships, friendships, and self-courage”. It has a lot of white space, sometimes one page has a thought that takes up four lines - giving you a lot of space to make notes or apply Post-it notes. Today at lunch, Joe told me that he and Ann have decided to get married in three weeks. That makes the engagement as long as the courtship. I found myself liking the absurd symmetry of that as much as Joe did. What I didn’t like was what Joe said next. “I’ve never met anyone quite like her; she has everything I could possibly want” He was filling all the blanks. I have seen so many marriages end when the inevitable realization comes that something was left out of the other person. Sometimes nothing more tangible can be cited than the vague feeling that “something was missing.” Usually it can be pinpointed: “She thought sex was a bore” or “He was humorless, totally humorless”. Darleen once said to me, “Jim and I never talk books. If I want to talk books, I visit Aunt Mary because my Aunt Mary reads”. So Simple. It takes five to ten people to make up the one got-it-all friend we are all looking for. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - That last paragraph is worth a million dollars of advice. DO NOT try to find that ONE person to fill ALL your voids, every inch of emptiness in your heart, or every empty minute of your time. Best wishes.........
11/4/2009 10:03:24 AM	A perfect match how do you know?
wileyguy Wilkes Barre, PA age: 38	finding a match takes time.it's about spending time with that person and getting to know the real person rather then what you think they are.we all have dealbreakers.once you get past that its about mutual attraction and how well you click together.sometimes opposites really do match so being open to it is key.you might be surprised.
11/4/2009 11:57:26 AM	A perfect match how do you know?
christineone Rising Sun, MD age: 62	Evidently we dont or we would all be happily married or in a very happy relationship and in no need of this dating site to begin with.Time is the only answer to knowing a person ,the real person, that is........
11/4/2009 4:46:15 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
forever824 Mountville, PA age: 49	To borrow from christine: "Time is the only answer to knowing a person ,the real person, that is........" Unfortunately, we don't always get that luxury. But we must keep searching til we find "the one". Until then, remember: Love takes time! Song by Orleans
11/4/2009 4:55:51 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
kym64 Wilkes Barre, PA age: 45	The match ignites and stays lit.
11/4/2009 5:00:19 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
jerseypillygirl Lumberton, NJ age: 58	Quote from kym64: The match ignites and stays lit. I like this!!! Yes a good match is like fine wine...strong and flavorable but mellowed with age....comfortable like your favorite sweats...
11/4/2009 5:03:02 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
forever824 Mountville, PA age: 49	Quote from kym64: The match ignites and stays lit. Yeah, until you fart and it blows out the flame!
11/4/2009 5:04:07 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
kym64 Wilkes Barre, PA age: 45	Quote from forever824: Yeah, until you fart and it blows out the flame! Or put her head under the covers!!!!!!!!!
11/4/2009 5:05:41 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
forever824 Mountville, PA age: 49	Yep, start fanning the flames with it!
11/4/2009 5:06:46 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
kym64 Wilkes Barre, PA age: 45	I think this thread has been changed to "How do you know when its over?"
11/4/2009 5:09:11 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
forever824 Mountville, PA age: 49	Hmmm......years of experience tells me so. but...............oh nevermind!
11/4/2009 5:09:24 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
jerseypillygirl Lumberton, NJ age: 58	Quote from forever824: Yeah, until you fart and it blows out the flame! Now you've got a good bon fire going!!
11/4/2009 5:12:00 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
forever824 Mountville, PA age: 49	my beans have that effect on women!
11/4/2009 5:23:52 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
christineone Rising Sun, MD age: 62	Quote from forever824: Yeah, until you fart and it blows out the flame! The end............................... [Edited 11/4/2009 5:25:57 PM PST]
11/5/2009 9:50:11 AM	A perfect match how do you know?
rrrsmile York, PA age: 45	Quote from forever824: my beans have that effect on women! Yes they do!....Again, I WILL bring the beano to the Potluck! Freakin' beans But they taste sooo good!
11/5/2009 12:15:46 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
hugsnlaughter McKeesport, PA age: 49	No one is perfect but I look for compatibility and same morals and values plus of course attraction.
11/6/2009 4:54:39 AM	A perfect match how do you know?
stumppy Bath, PA age: 63	Quote from stumppy: I suspect a perfect match is someone that you can sit down with, and make a joint agreement on things, of course there needs to be a basis of sufficient common ground to start with, but overall you need two folks self sufficient enough that they can amicably hammer out an agreement.
11/6/2009 4:59:38 AM	A perfect match how do you know?
scubablue118 Abington, PA age: 54	Quote from kym64: Or put her head under the covers!!!!!!!!! Kym, if you can find someone that you can enjoy torching farts with, then you have transcended beyond match and are more at soulmate
11/6/2009 11:23:53 AM	A perfect match how do you know?
forever824 Mountville, PA age: 49	Quote from christineone: Quote from forever824: Yeah, until you fart and it blows out the flame! The end............................... ............is where it all begins!
11/7/2009 8:51:33 AM	A perfect match how do you know?
matthewsfx2 Bradford, PA age: 51	a" perfect match" highly overrated. sometimes the things that matter most to us in another is the differences. a perfect match would be so boring like a mail order robot
11/7/2009 12:33:18 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
stumppy Bath, PA age: 63	Quote from matthewsfx2: a" perfect match" highly overrated. sometimes the things that matter most to us in another is the differences. a perfect match would be so boring like a mail order robot talk about words of wisdom, that man is a rare prize.
11/7/2009 3:10:57 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
chicklets102 North Wales, PA age: 59	Quote from matthewsfx2: a" perfect match" highly overrated. sometimes the things that matter most to us in another is the differences. a perfect match would be so boring like a mail order robot Oh YES ... bring on the banter and spunk
11/7/2009 3:16:27 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
matthewsfx2 Bradford, PA age: 51	thanks i think chicklet
11/7/2009 4:02:32 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
windyoo1 Enumclaw, WA age: 40	A perfect match always lights on the first strike. I prefer a lighter though sulfer is just nasty Ok actually I'm not sure what a perfect match is. I read alot of stuff that talks about interest matching things in common etc etc. But I believe we dont need to have things in common if I'm truly interested in someone then I will equally be interested in what ever they do.And hopefully vice versa as long as we can do it together it is of interest to me [Edited 11/7/2009 4:06:07 PM PST]
11/7/2009 4:19:44 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
chicklets102 North Wales, PA age: 59	Quote from windyoo1: But I believe we dont need to have things in common if I'm truly interested in someone then I will equally be interested in what ever they do.And hopefully vice versa as long as we can do it together it is of interest to me My calendar for today reads ... "Dwell in the Possibility: Embrace joy, inspire hope, cultivate love, build intimacy, celebrate LIFE !!!" I think that says it all.
11/7/2009 4:29:42 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
windyoo1 Enumclaw, WA age: 40	my calendar does'nt say nothing like that where did you get yours.
11/7/2009 5:24:37 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
chicklets102 North Wales, PA age: 59	in Pennsylvania
11/17/2009 2:43:17 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
stumppy Bath, PA age: 63	I think a perfect match is where both parties fit together emotionally and behaviourly, like two adjacent pieces of a puzzle and still can connect to each others friends about and around the couple
11/17/2009 3:29:45 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
chicklets102 North Wales, PA age: 59	well put there Stump ... how did you get so smart [Edited 11/17/2009 3:30:00 PM PST]
11/17/2009 3:35:03 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
stumppy Bath, PA age: 63	being burned alot, and afterwards thinkin' about what had evolved
11/17/2009 4:39:39 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
scubablue118 Abington, PA age: 54	No one respects the flame as much as those that have been burned by it.
11/17/2009 4:58:13 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
chicklets102 North Wales, PA age: 59	and then there is the moth who is drawn to fly into the flame
11/17/2009 5:05:58 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
stumppy Bath, PA age: 63	I like to think I'm one on the ones 0that just flit around, enjoying the heat, checking out the scene, and see what other pretty moths are hanging around and are being smart enough to avoid the flame, them I like.
11/17/2009 5:15:51 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
mowboss54 Springdale, PA age: 62	But can you avoid that rolled up newspaper that someone is going to swat you with
11/17/2009 5:19:24 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
stumppy Bath, PA age: 63	no sweat lady, ever see the ones cuddled up in a corner that you cant really get into? Well,,,,,,,,,, thatsa me
11/17/2009 5:22:14 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
mowboss54 Springdale, PA age: 62	RAID!!!! psst, psst,psst gotcha
11/17/2009 5:57:36 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
chicklets102 North Wales, PA age: 59	now there's a perfect match ... the flame and the moth
11/17/2009 6:01:28 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
rrrsmile York, PA age: 45	Chic.... The cost comes at a steep price for the moth. The flame cares not.
11/17/2009 6:03:43 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
chicklets102 North Wales, PA age: 59	don't I know all about that ... you'd think at this age I would have learned that by now wouldn't you
11/17/2009 6:48:16 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
scubablue118 Abington, PA age: 54	keep enough distance and it is just a brilliant light
11/17/2009 6:54:35 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
chicklets102 North Wales, PA age: 59	or feel the warmth
11/17/2009 7:01:04 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
scubablue118 Abington, PA age: 54	a perfect match. How do you know? Symbiosis
11/17/2009 7:29:30 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
rrrsmile York, PA age: 45	Hmmm..... All is good when both parties benefit. Problem is symbiotic relationships can also be one sided causing use or neglect of one of the parties. In therory, we humans have such a relationship with all we touch. This includes our interpersonal relationships, the more I need I take to the point of exhausting my partner. A perfect match would be one where by BOTH parties support and push each other to personal fullfilment. That my friend requires a certain amount of maturity and selflessness. Unfortuniately, I don't believe we are wired that way. Sooo.... The chance of a perfect match is impossible. Be happy if you come across someone who is reasonable, humorous, and curious in the sack. Now, that ^^^^^ would be perfect to me
11/17/2009 7:38:26 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
scubablue118 Abington, PA age: 54	Quote from rrrsmile: Hmmm..... All is good when both parties benefit. Problem is symbiotic relationships can also be one sided causing use or neglect of one of the parties. In therory, we humans have such a relationship with all we touch. This includes our interpersonal relationships, the more I need I take to the point of exhausting my partner. A perfect match would be one where by BOTH parties support and push each other to personal fullfilment. That my friend requires a certain amount of maturity and selflessness. Unfortuniately, I don't believe we are wired that way. Sooo.... The chance of a perfect match is impossible. Be happy if you come across someone who is reasonable, humorous, and curious in the sack. Now, that ^^^^^ would be perfect to me And that is where symbiotic becomes parasitic
11/17/2009 8:07:15 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
rrrsmile York, PA age: 45	Unfortuniately Scuba, that seems to be the case more often then not. It is clear on a dating site....so many hurt souls. In the main forums, they lash out at each other cutting in to each other with words. All the time hiding behind their computer. But ya know? We are all adults and should go into a relationship with our eye wide open but enters our silly hearts guming-up the works. :-O well aren't I being a ray of sunshine tonight?
11/18/2009 4:51:38 AM	A perfect match how do you know?
scubablue118 Abington, PA age: 54	I think that ruthless honesty gets swept under far too many rugs. Fret not, rrr, we are awash with your candor.
11/18/2009 4:25:17 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
rrrsmile York, PA age: 45	I was shooting for basking in the glow of my love But hell.....I'll take what I can get
11/18/2009 4:32:21 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
stumppy Bath, PA age: 63	Quote from chicklets102: now there's a perfect match ... the flame and the moth Onto my next reeincarnation, See yas
11/18/2009 5:51:46 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
blindndeaf Wellsville, PA age: 35	Perfection does not exist. period. All you can do is accept someone for their faults, their birthmarks, warped sense of humor, crooked nose, lopsided glasses, etc. You can however, enjoy the company of someone you care deeply for. Enjoy them because you get along, have the same quirky tastes for hawian pizza with anchovies,,(YUCK). I think what you might be asking, or defining as a perfect match, is when two people just enjoy each others company so much that they are willing to goto extremes to protect that joint interest. Ok point is... No one is perfect, no union is perfect, it's only considered perfect because both partners care enough to overlook the imperfections and enjoy the things that matter,,, Like a passionate kiss under the setting sun.... Now go my son,,, find your imperfect match and be happy. But word of warning,,, as long as your looking,,,, you will never find it. quit . Just hang out and when the right one comes along, trust me firewortks will explode, and then you will know.
11/30/2009 5:33:31 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
forever824 Mountville, PA age: 49	Quote from blindndeaf: Perfection does not exist. period. All you can do is accept someone for their faults, their birthmarks, warped sense of humor, crooked nose, lopsided glasses, etc. You can however, enjoy the company of someone you care deeply for. Enjoy them because you get along, have the same quirky tastes for hawian pizza with anchovies,,(YUCK). I think what you might be asking, or defining as a perfect match, is when two people just enjoy each others company so much that they are willing to goto extremes to protect that joint interest. Ok point is... No one is perfect, no union is perfect, it's only considered perfect because both partners care enough to overlook the imperfections and enjoy the things that matter,,, Like a passionate kiss under the setting sun.... Now go my son,,, find your imperfect match and be happy. But word of warning,,, as long as your looking,,,, you will never find it. quit . Just hang out and when the right one comes along, trust me firewortks will explode, and then you will know. Sounds alot like something i said once!
12/2/2009 11:27:54 PM	A perfect match how do you know?
cctexancowboy West Mifflin, PA age: 46	Thanks gang i think that about sums it up noones perfect just be happy you get along and cherish your love for one another

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