What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen

12/9/2009 2:33:04 PM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
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12/9/2009 3:08:21 PM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
danosan40 Lakeland, FL age: 49	Thats not a very fair question.. Plus it would be different for each guy..And why should we give you women any more AMMO! than God already gave you Seeyaa!! Dan [Edited 12/9/2009 3:09:19 PM PST]
12/9/2009 3:29:44 PM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
jsf_npr New Port Richey, FL age: 46	OK....against Dan's probable advice, I am gonna give it my shot here. It would be easier to say what makes a woman MORE approachable. A smile, a laugh, a glance, a simple Hello. Any number of signs can be used to let us guys know you are interested. Everyone is afraid to be rejected but, for us guys it seems to be that much harder. The rule of thumb is that the guy should make the first move. Who made up this rule anyway? Who says two people can't have a conversation and see if things have a spark from there? As to who starts it...does it really matter? It's obvious that when someone approaches someone else of the opposite sex, there is some sort of interest there. That doesn't mean every guy is just looking to get you into bed. Keep that in mind when we do approach you. I know I am a very outgoing guy and I sometimes strike up a conversation with a woman just to talk. Being less approachable is when you have a frown on your face, look down all the time, etc. No man or woman wants to be with someone that brings them down. Also, don't give the look that you are better than us. WE ALREADY KNOW THAT! For some reason, women still are attracted to us guys. If you want to be approached, make us want to approach you. Not with skimpy outfits and a filthy mouth but, with true APPEAL!
12/9/2009 4:36:02 PM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
knightonafrog Fort Lauderdale, FL age: 52	It's the unapproachable ones that are often the easiest to get to as that facade is usually easily broken. Extremely pretty women use it all the time to keep the guys with low self esteem from bugging them. Quote from jsf_npr: No man or woman wants to be with someone that brings them down! Then there are the ones that are just plain downers... The trick is in figuring out who has the facade up and who is just a miserable wretch.
12/9/2009 4:46:09 PM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
jsf_npr New Port Richey, FL age: 46	OK.....still dont know how to drag a response from one person to here so.....KINGHT...you are a man of much wisdom and I am but a grasshopper! As for the facades or miserable wretches...either one is too much work! Give me someone that doesn't play reindeer games!
12/9/2009 4:56:03 PM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
knightonafrog Fort Lauderdale, FL age: 52	Done right, its no more effort to break a facade than to start a conversation with a woman smiling at you and giving you all the signals... after all, its just a facade.
12/9/2009 4:56:18 PM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
sugarpy71 Tampa, FL age: 38	I too would love to know the answer to this question. I am new to the whole dating scene and have been told that I am unapproachable. This of course makes me even more self concious. I am a very outgoing, energetic person who will talk to anyone, but am shy at first. So I can use all the help i can get!
12/9/2009 5:00:27 PM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
sugarpy71 Tampa, FL age: 38	Good advice. Thanks
12/9/2009 5:08:13 PM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
mypleasure4u Jacksonville, FL age: 28	Quote from jsf_npr: OK....against Dan's probable advice, I am gonna give it my shot here. It would be easier to say what makes a woman MORE approachable. A smile, a laugh, a glance, a simple Hello. Any number of signs can be used to let us guys know you are interested. Everyone is afraid to be rejected but, for us guys it seems to be that much harder. The rule of thumb is that the guy should make the first move. Who made up this rule anyway? Who says two people can't have a conversation and see if things have a spark from there? As to who starts it...does it really matter? It's obvious that when someone approaches someone else of the opposite sex, there is some sort of interest there. That doesn't mean every guy is just looking to get you into bed. Keep that in mind when we do approach you. I know I am a very outgoing guy and I sometimes strike up a conversation with a woman just to talk. Being less approachable is when you have a frown on your face, look down all the time, etc. No man or woman wants to be with someone that brings them down. Also, don't give the look that you are better than us. WE ALREADY KNOW THAT! For some reason, women still are attracted to us guys. If you want to be approached, make us want to approach you. Not with skimpy outfits and a filthy mouth but, with true APPEAL! Yeah, what he said
12/9/2009 5:17:40 PM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
sacredmagic Port Richey, FL age: 46	A wedding ring.
12/9/2009 5:20:55 PM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
wanna_dance Boca Raton, FL age: 65	A while ago I read a book regarding communication and the author recommends what he called the SOFTEN approach. Smile - so you seem friendly Open posture - so you seem open to contact, not defensive Forward lean - so you seem ready/eager to engage in conversation Touch - make physical contact on their hand/arm so there isn't only a verbal connection Eye contact - makes them feel like you are truly interested in them and no one else Nod - so you seem interested in what they are saying/doing so FWIW, that was one author's opinion about how to be approachable/engaging [Edited 12/9/2009 5:22:26 PM PST]
12/9/2009 5:23:09 PM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
purian West Palm Beach, FL age: 50	Quote from jsf_npr: OK....against Dan's probable advice, I am gonna give it my shot here. It would be easier to say what makes a woman MORE approachable. A smile, a laugh, a glance, a simple Hello. Any number of signs can be used to let us guys know you are interested. Everyone is afraid to be rejected but, for us guys it seems to be that much harder. The rule of thumb is that the guy should make the first move. Who made up this rule anyway? Who says two people can't have a conversation and see if things have a spark from there? As to who starts it...does it really matter? It's obvious that when someone approaches someone else of the opposite sex, there is some sort of interest there. That doesn't mean every guy is just looking to get you into bed. Keep that in mind when we do approach you. I know I am a very outgoing guy and I sometimes strike up a conversation with a woman just to talk. Being less approachable is when you have a frown on your face, look down all the time, etc. No man or woman wants to be with someone that brings them down. Also, don't give the look that you are better than us. WE ALREADY KNOW THAT! For some reason, women still are attracted to us guys. If you want to be approached, make us want to approach you. Not with skimpy outfits and a filthy mouth but, with true APPEAL! I think you hit 'em all except for the sloppy drunk loudmouth part.
12/9/2009 5:41:59 PM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
friendsfirstpls Riverview, FL age: 38	Quote from wanna_dance: A while ago I read a book regarding communication and the author recommends what he called the SOFTEN approach. Smile - so you seem friendly Open posture - so you seem open to contact, not defensive Forward lean - so you seem ready/eager to engage in conversation Touch - make physical contact on their hand/arm so there isn't only a verbal connection Eye contact - makes them feel like you are truly interested in them and no one else Nod - so you seem interested in what they are saying/doing so FWIW, that was one author's opinion about how to be approachable/engaging All true. If she has her arms crossed, isn't smiling, and is barely paying attention to whomever she is with, then she is not approachable. Most women don't want every Tom, D*ck, and Harry to walk up to them and hit on them. A polite smile towards the guy the DO want to approach them will always work. The guys that are telling you that you aren't approachable are normally the guys you don't want to be approached by. Live by that and you'll be fine. In this day and age, the woman can approach the guy anyway. Guy's egos go bonkers for that kind of stuff!
12/9/2009 5:47:24 PM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
jsf_npr New Port Richey, FL age: 46	KNIGHT...Thanks for the advice to my email. I tried to reply but it said I was blocked. Since I am rather outgoing and far from shy, I typically don't have a problem approaching a woman and starting a conversation. Just a little tip here too. Ladies, sometimes when a man DOES APPROACH you...that doesn't mean he is interested in dating you. Many times, I have struck up a conversation just to make conversation and be nice. Us guys are rather transparent. We will definitely give you the signals to let you know! Most of us aren't real subtle either!
12/9/2009 6:21:07 PM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
amazingpatience Port Richey, FL age: 48	Quote from danosan40: Thats not a very fair question.. Plus it would be different for each guy..And why should we give you women any more AMMO! than God already gave you Seeyaa!! Dan indeed it is a fair question DAN and btw, i dont consider myself unaproachable, i rarely go out without a smile, and i talk to everyone i meet and if i havent talked to someone its cause i havent met them yet do i need more ammo ?????
12/9/2009 6:29:33 PM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
leona813 Palm Beach, FL age: 56	OP Amazing, I was going to say, your profile picture is a perfect example of approachable, with your arms behind your head. You look open and receptive yet at the same time confident and strong.
12/9/2009 6:54:19 PM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
amazingpatience Port Richey, FL age: 48	Quote from sacredmagic: A wedding ring. well now, that goes without saying !!!!! i dont date married or seperated , hell i havent dated much at all
12/9/2009 6:56:04 PM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
danosan40 Lakeland, FL age: 49	OK since iv'e been called out..Somthing that would make a women unapprochable to me..I guess that would qualify as a turn off.. It have to be a mean spirit..someone who because of there status believe themseleves better..and they treat all of those around them with contempt.. Seeyaa!! Dan P.S. Young lady you need no more AMMO!! [Edited 12/9/2009 6:56:59 PM PST]
12/9/2009 6:58:59 PM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
amazingpatience Port Richey, FL age: 48	Quote from leona813: OP Amazing, I was going to say, your profile picture is a perfect example of approachable, with your arms behind your head. You look open and receptive yet at the same time confident and strong. thanks leona im pretty easy going and very approachable
12/9/2009 7:17:56 PM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
mrkink2009 Saint Cloud, FL age: 57	You guys are over thinking it.......Women who are more approachable are simply easier... M.
12/9/2009 7:24:17 PM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
wanna_dance Boca Raton, FL age: 65	^^^^^^^^^^Silly me, I thought Mother Teresa was quite approachable. Was she a slut too?
12/9/2009 7:25:17 PM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
leona813 Palm Beach, FL age: 56	Mr.Kink, you didn't answer the question, which is what makes a woman LESS approachable? Of course if someone is approachable they are EASIER to talk to. If easier to talk to then easier to move on to a date, or WHATEVER, but that wasn't the question. What do you consider "roadblocks?" [Edited 12/9/2009 7:26:20 PM PST]
12/9/2009 9:30:48 PM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
slaffa Tampa, FL age: 57	Pretty simple really, Eye contact. People can and do send mixed signals with their body language, most of which is mostly unconscious and goes back to our caveman/woman days before we had language. But IF a woman is unwilling to make EYE contact or MAINTAIN it for more than the briefest of glances, I consider her closed to any type of contact. Even a "shy" woman should learn to muster a slight or silly grin if she is open to a conversation. It need not be a killer smile. You would be surprised at the number of women who resolutely refuse to make ANY eye contact whatsoever as if to do so would give a man the go ahead to "have his way" with her. I always wonder just what it is that is eating them.
12/9/2009 10:06:40 PM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
skh8447 Spring Hill, FL age: 50	I won't go into it all right now,'HOWEVER',I have had men tell me (after getting to know me) they 'actually' thought I was 'unapproachable,imagine that'!!! I think I scared them!!! Before 'YOU' comment on my post,"SHUT UP DAN",nobody yanked your chain!!! That goes for you too Leslie!!! [Edited 12/9/2009 10:08:34 PM PST]
12/10/2009 3:18:53 AM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
knightonafrog Fort Lauderdale, FL age: 52	^^^^^ I have no basis for comment... other than rumor and innuendo and there has been a TON of that! You would be surprised at the number of women who resolutely refuse to make ANY eye contact whatsoever as if to do so would give a man the go ahead to "have his way" with her. I always wonder just what it is that is eating them. It's a facade... I bet most of those women who never make eye contact with anyone are in the top 10%. I hear it can be hard for the very good looking, when every glance is misconstrued as interest and an invitation... they learn not to make glances.
12/10/2009 3:28:42 AM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
danosan40 Lakeland, FL age: 49	"WHAT" All i was going to say is you just need a sign that says ( JUST ADD WATER ) Seeyaa!! Dan
12/10/2009 4:13:19 AM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
amazingpatience Port Richey, FL age: 48	Quote from danosan40: "WHAT" All i was going to say is you just need a sign that says ( JUST ADD WATER ) Seeyaa!! Dan DAN your cracking me up here .. what a great way to start my day, laughing you are too funny ! and thanks for calling me a YOUNG lady if you only knew
12/10/2009 8:18:47 AM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
lemiangel Miami Beach, FL age: 47	Seeing she is more comfortable with other women that a man
12/10/2009 9:07:28 AM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
skh8447 Spring Hill, FL age: 50	Quote from danosan40: "WHAT" All i was going to say is you just need a sign that says ( JUST ADD WATER ) Seeyaa!! Dan Dan...... ^^^^^ I have no basis for comment... other than rumor and innuendo and there has been a TON of that! Rumors,without them some people would be very 'BORED',wouldn't they?
12/10/2009 9:11:46 AM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
sacredmagic Port Richey, FL age: 46	Me either, hel last date I had was a decade ago!!!
12/10/2009 5:13:46 PM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
amazingpatience Port Richey, FL age: 48	Quote from skh8447: Rumors,without them some people would be very 'BORED',wouldn't they? DAN would that be HOT water ? last i heard women are like tea bags, the hotter the water , the stronger they are !!!!!!!!!!
12/10/2009 6:25:16 PM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
naughtical Winter Haven, FL age: 50	I have a question for you men...keeping within the topic of approachability: Would you find a woman with many tattoos and piercings approachable? Would you have a preconceived notion of what she "must" be like? (just curious...tattoo and piercing free, myself...but you never know, that could change) 10 to go
12/10/2009 6:47:03 PM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
amazingpatience Port Richey, FL age: 48	miss naughtical no peircings ? no tatoos ? me either i just design them for others, come on you can do it 9 more to go
12/11/2009 12:09:46 AM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
just_ct Rome, GA age: 50	It's all in the attitude. If a woman is available or interested then its not hard to tell so. If she's unavailable then that is also apparent. Not a matter of posturing or eye contact. Is simply a matter of mindset. As far as tattoos. i've dated lady's with and without. Have no preconceived notions because they have all been unique and one of a kind. [Edited 12/11/2009 12:11:22 AM PST]
12/11/2009 1:16:50 PM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
swtblueyedangel Savannah, GA age: 27	A lot of men do not realize that some women hold their head down because they do not feel they are worth more...as for not wanting someone with work!! lmao maybe that is an issue you need to look further into..... Truth is that EVERYONE man or women needs work...and everyone who is seeking a real relationship will always have to put in work...weather it be by bringing the joy out of someone or working to make something last....Everything in life unfortunately is work and people are no different.
12/11/2009 1:18:09 PM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
swtblueyedangel Savannah, GA age: 27	Quote from jsf_npr: OK.....still dont know how to drag a response from one person to here so.....KINGHT...you are a man of much wisdom and I am but a grasshopper! As for the facades or miserable wretches...either one is too much work!
12/11/2009 2:52:32 PM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
knightonafrog Fort Lauderdale, FL age: 52	A lot of men do not realize that some women hold their head down because they do not feel they are worth more...as for not wanting someone with work!! lmao maybe that is an issue you need to look further into..... Truth is that EVERYONE man or women needs work...and everyone who is seeking a real relationship will always have to put in work...weather it be by bringing the joy out of someone or working to make something last....Everything in life unfortunately is work and people are no different. Smart Lady! Makes me wonder. How is it we can have some young people so smart about relationships and some of us old people can be so stupid about them!
12/14/2009 3:56:35 AM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
olddi Daytona Beach, FL age: 52	Quote from naughtical: I have a question for you men...keeping within the topic of approachability: Would you find a woman with many tattoos and piercings approachable? Would you have a preconceived notion of what she "must" be like? (just curious...tattoo and piercing free, myself...but you never know, that could change) 10 to go Hey, hey I have tattoo's and piercing's Why must You bring that up they didn't say anything abot that NOW they will . LoL ........... di
12/14/2009 8:48:11 AM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
knightonafrog Fort Lauderdale, FL age: 52	Would you find a woman with many tattoos and piercings approachable? Wouldnt care how approachable she was, her decorations dont fit with my lifestyle so its a deal killer before the deal even gets started. Would you have a preconceived notion of what she "must" be like? No, not really but only because the tats are such a deal breaker that I really dont care. I will say this though, in psychological circles they are realizing there is a fine line between body decorations and self mutilation and more than three tats is probably crossing that line.
12/14/2009 8:44:13 PM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
5837brandon Ocala, FL age: 29	A number of things in general. As for me a real tall chick is hard to approach. Also snobby stuck up looking ladies. And id have to say chicks in clicks.
12/15/2009 6:02:50 PM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
leona813 Palm Beach, FL age: 56	Brandon, I don't know about the tall unless you're really short.. but snobby and stuck up and the clique thing I agree with... hard to approach if they give off that vibe.
12/15/2009 6:51:35 PM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
knightonafrog Fort Lauderdale, FL age: 52	Quote from 5837brandon: A number of things in general. As for me a real tall chick is hard to approach. Also snobby stuck up looking ladies. And id have to say chicks in clicks. Brandon, I was shot down this past summer by a woman who was 6'7" - she told me even at 6'2 I was too short! As for the snobby and stuck up, those are just facades put up to keep idiots with low self esteem from hitting on them... mostly its a barrier you can get through in 10 seconds or less if you are so inclined. Most people who can are rarely ever so inclined... or do it for sport.
12/15/2009 7:44:56 PM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
leona813 Palm Beach, FL age: 56	Some people are actually really snobby and stuck-up but if you act like you are too (put on the "facade") they may think you are then worthy of their attention. If someone seems or acts that way, I wouldn't even bother. [Edited 12/15/2009 7:46:45 PM PST]
12/16/2009 4:53:48 AM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
problemfree O Brien, FL age: 57	wow this very complicated for once.But if I have to say one thing it would be PERSONALITY.Lack of one would make anything else well, worthless.With personality comes,sence of humor,witt,smarts,openess,positive outlook in live,sense of fair play,HUMOR ohoh I said that already(oh well)anyhow thats my 3/4 of a cent.....
12/16/2009 5:07:13 AM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
amazingpatience Port Richey, FL age: 48	Quote from problemfree: wow this very complicated for once.But if I have to say one thing it would be PERSONALITY.Lack of one would make anything else well, worthless.With personality comes,sence of humor,witt,smarts,openess,positive outlook in live,sense of fair play,HUMOR ohoh I said that already(oh well)anyhow thats my 3/4 of a cent..... its worth more then that ! i agree, and when it comes to men, well one thing that i would have to say would make someome seem unaproachable is when i guy stands with his arms crossed against his chest, this body language tells me he isnt available or open to concversation or one who never smiles and looks angry, although i gotta say sometimes it just makes me have to approach them ..... a smile goes along way !
12/16/2009 5:12:01 AM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
leona813 Palm Beach, FL age: 56	Quote from problemfree: wow this very complicated for once.But if I have to say one thing it would be PERSONALITY.Lack of one would make anything else well, worthless.With personality comes,sence of humor,witt,smarts,openess,positive outlook in live,sense of fair play,HUMOR ohoh I said that already(oh well)anyhow thats my 3/4 of a cent..... This is SOOOOO true. The most gorgeous of woman without personality, or with a negative one, would lose appeal quite quickly, as well as the handsomest man.
12/16/2009 8:00:05 AM	What makes a woman less approachable ? lets hear from you gentlemen
problemfree O Brien, FL age: 57	you are so right amazingwoman.Just becuse of that,next time I see you I'll make sure I cross my arms and look at you straight and flash a huge smile to you.So nobody knows my head is empty.

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