| 12/14/2009 6:35:51 AM |
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emyo81
Meeker, OK
age: 28
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Do you risk a chance at a relationship to develop by playing the headgames and saying what you need to say to get who you want then be open and honest or are you yourself and open and honest to begin with?
Just wondering...
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| 12/14/2009 6:37:20 AM |
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horace_schitt
Wausau, WI
age: 42
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I don't bullshit anybody. I say what I say, and do what I do. This is me, take it or leave it. Makes no nevermind to me.
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| 12/14/2009 6:42:08 AM |
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claudius5
Petaluma, CA
age: 60
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Open and honest to begin with, nothing is really gained by playing head games. To thine own self be true. Being who you are is much more attractive and sustaining.
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| 12/14/2009 6:44:26 AM |
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emyo81
Meeker, OK
age: 28
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I agree because I know that I wouldn't want a relationship built on lies just not understanding why people would wanna start on a lie just so they can retract the whole relationship when they decide the next level of the relationship.
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| 12/14/2009 6:49:36 AM |
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badger_of_death
Houston, TX
age: 42
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Everyone plays head games on some level. Those that say they don't..just don't realize they do.
[Edited 12/14/2009 6:50:00 AM PST]
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| 12/14/2009 7:52:51 AM |
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arkansasnman
Fayetteville, AR
age: 47
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Everyone plays head games on some level. Those that say they don't..just don't realize they do.
Somebody had to say it......
Thank you.
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| 12/14/2009 7:57:01 AM |
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snowbird02s
Florence
Italy
age: 46
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NO Mind games.. I am brutally Honest, and demand the same in return. Even if the Truth is
painful.
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| 12/14/2009 7:59:14 AM |
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trsmith22
Carrollton, TX
age: 39
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I agree with Snow!
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| 12/14/2009 8:00:17 AM |
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snowbird02s
Florence
Italy
age: 46
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Everyone plays head games on some level. Those that say they don't..just don't realize they do.
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There is a Huge difference between Lying, and teasing.. Why is it so difficult to
understand that ? Not everYone play mind games, my love. 
** And, There is NO age limit ** 
[Edited 12/14/2009 8:06:37 AM PST]
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| 12/14/2009 8:06:05 AM |
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dghorn
Assiniboia, SK
age: 46
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I do not play games or BS anyone here or in real life ,it does not always get me in the good books but at least they know where I stand.
But trust me when I say I have been played and one does not know until you have invested time and feeling for that one that played you.
So be careful as what you think maybe happening is in fact just a game at your expense.
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| 12/14/2009 8:06:28 AM |
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yourfriendbob
Fayette, OH
age: 55
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Everyone plays head games on some level. Those that say they don't..just don't realize they do.
OMG!.....I never realized that I did that!
Thanks beanz.......you've changed my life...
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| 12/14/2009 8:07:12 AM |
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badger_of_death
Houston, TX
age: 42
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OMG!.....I never realized that I did that!
Thanks beanz.......you've changed my life...
(I refer you to the lying thread)
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| 12/14/2009 8:10:44 AM |
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arkansasnman
Fayetteville, AR
age: 47
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There is a Huge difference between Lying, and teasing.. Why is it so difficult to
understand that ? Not everYone play mind games, my love.
Teasing's not a mind-game?
I think you're screwin' with me.
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| 12/14/2009 8:12:07 AM |
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phina1
Walton, KY
age: 49
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Do you risk a chance at a relationship to develop by playing the headgames and saying what
you need to say to get who you want then be open and honest or are
you yourself and open and honest to begin with?
Honest from the get go ~ denial/headgames only lead to deception and betrayal.
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| 12/14/2009 8:38:38 AM |
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xpamela_leighx
Springville, UT
age: 36
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I like to mess with Steve's head. 
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| 12/14/2009 8:42:15 AM |
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badger_of_death
Houston, TX
age: 42
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I like to mess with Steve's head.
Both would appreciate it.
It takes a certain type of person to enjoy a good head game...those people are rare and when you find one you should hold on to them.
Nothing better than 2 people screwing around with each others heads so much you don't know what is up and what is down.
It adds excitement and challenge to a relationship...talking about the weather or how much milk is at Walmart this week really doesn't cut it for me.....disappearing for 4 days straight and showing up with a camel does.
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| 12/14/2009 8:47:44 AM |
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yourfriendbob
Fayette, OH
age: 55
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...talking about the weather or how much milk is at Walmart this week really doesn't cut it for me.....disappearing for 4 days straight and showing up with a camel does.
Or when you haven't seen them for a week, sending flowers with a card that says, "Sweetheart, thanks so much for the other night. You were incredible!"
(that always makes them wonder)
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| 12/14/2009 8:58:28 AM |
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mudclean
Warren, MI
age: 29
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I guess saying the right things works better than saying the wrong things but that doesn't mean I'm playing head games. Would you rather have a guy walk up to you and say... "your hair is a mess... wanna go out with me?"  right?
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| 12/14/2009 11:16:28 AM |
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nunbttr
Middletown, OH
age: 63
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Playing bait and switch seldom works. WYSIWYG (What You See Is What You Get)
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| 12/14/2009 11:18:25 AM |
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ironmuscle
Santa Cruz, CA
age: 34
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Do you risk a chance at a relationship to develop by playing the headgames and saying what you need to say to get who you want then be open and honest or are you yourself and open and honest to begin with?
Just wondering...
No need to lie when there are plenty of women who'll let you have your cake and eat it too.
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| 12/14/2009 11:19:41 AM |
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hsprin
Savannah, MO
age: 34
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Why be anything your not from the beginning
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| 12/14/2009 11:21:21 AM |
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phina1
Walton, KY
age: 49
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Playing bait and switch seldom works. WYSIWYG (What You See Is What You Get)
Some also believe in TANSTAAFL = There Ain't No Such Thing As A Free Lunch.
 There's actually a company in Chicago with the name !
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| 12/14/2009 11:35:57 AM |
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yourfriendbob
Fayette, OH
age: 55
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Some also believe in TANSTAAFL = There Ain't No Such Thing As A Free Lunch.
There's actually a company in Chicago with the name !
And at least one guy in Ohio with that tattoo'd on his arm...
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| 12/14/2009 11:44:20 AM |
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snowbird02s
Florence
Italy
age: 46
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** Arkansasnman 
Quote from snowbird02s:
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There is a Huge difference between Lying, and teasing.. Why is it so difficult to
understand that ? Not everYone play mind games, my love.
,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
ArkM ::
Teasing's not a mind-game? ----------------> It is a GAME... I make sure the person will know that.
I think you're screwin' with me. ----------------------> Nope 
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| 12/14/2009 11:48:03 AM |
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icuddle
Salem, OR
age: 57
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I don't play head games, or associate for long with those who do. I don't have time to waste jerking others around, or being jerked around by others. I am what I am,and that's all that I am. Those who don't like it had better move on.
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| 12/14/2009 11:51:14 AM |
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icuddle
Salem, OR
age: 57
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xpam - you like to play with Steve's head? His big head, or his little head?
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| 12/14/2009 11:54:53 AM |
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dateable1
Berea, KY
age: 45
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I never pretend to be someone or something that I'm not in order to get someone. If you have to do that, you probably don't need them anyway.
If you begin a relationship based on lies or something less than the truth, you have nothing left to build on - nowhere to go.
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| 12/14/2009 11:59:33 AM |
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settee_for_2
Flower Mound, TX
age: 56
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It adds excitement and challenge to a relationship...talking about the weather or how much milk is at Walmart this week really doesn't cut it for me.....disappearing for 4 days straight and showing up with a camel does.
You are kidding, of course, but there is some truth to what you say. Mind games that are played without malice or harm but with respect and playfulness can be very stimulating.
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| 12/14/2009 12:00:31 PM |
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alexkava
Plymouth, WI
age: 38 online now!
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most people who lie are afraid of others finding out the trueth, then rejection. I happen to think no matter how bad being honest may seem to be, the out come latter is far worse, then you have lost face with the other person. only players lie.
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| 12/14/2009 12:00:58 PM |
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arkansasnman
Fayetteville, AR
age: 47
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Acting disingenuous is a head game. Saying what people think you should say solely for the purposes of having you think they agree with you is a head game. Doling out selective "brutal honesty" is a head game. Feigning righteous indignation at deceit is a head game.
My head game meter has been pegged for awhile now.
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| 12/14/2009 12:51:08 PM |
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noswal09
Havertown, PA
age: 20
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a woman under 30 is in no position to ask this question. women under 30 are the biggest game players around, to the point where a man can be sick to his stomach.
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| 12/14/2009 1:35:22 PM |
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phina1
Walton, KY
age: 49
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a woman under 30 is in no position to ask this question. women under 30 are the biggest game players around, to the point where a man can be sick to his stomach.
And at the wwwwwwwweeeeeeeeeeee age of 19 your wise to this information 
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| 12/14/2009 1:48:35 PM |
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judit0606
Big Stone Gap, VA
age: 52
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I don't know how to me anyone else but ME!
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| 12/15/2009 2:34:06 PM |
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dinkasu48
Henderson, TX
age: 49
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I shoot straight
head games are for young people
or people with an agenda "beyond" just enjoying
quality time with a singular person
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| 12/15/2009 4:18:04 PM |
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emyo81
Meeker, OK
age: 28
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a woman under 30 is in no position to ask this question. women under 30 are the biggest game players around, to the point where a man can be sick to his stomach.
LOL a 19 yo male or female has no need in telling me I'm a game player. I don't have time for games but thanks.
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| 12/15/2009 4:30:45 PM |
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hockeychick7
North Sioux City, SD
age: 41
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i prefer no games...rather know the person as they are so i can determine if we are compatible...
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| 12/15/2009 4:31:10 PM |
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silvereagle55
Ashland, OH
age: 54
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I agree with horrace.. U can't build a house on shaky ground.. u can build a relationship on shaky conditions..but ppl do it anyway. or at least try to..i don't have an ego so B/S is not included..I'm just me..
[Edited 12/15/2009 4:34:48 PM PST]
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| 12/15/2009 4:31:53 PM |
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waterloo_sunset
Coram, NY
age: 51
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I don't bullshit anybody. I say what I say, and do what I do. This is me, take it or leave it. Makes no nevermind to me.
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| 12/15/2009 4:34:02 PM |
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silvereagle55
Ashland, OH
age: 54
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Yes dear At 19 he knows it all..just like we did at 19... then someone changeged the questions,,,
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| 12/15/2009 4:57:57 PM |
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bbw47reader
Frederick, MD
age: 47
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If I did that, by now I'd have at least three or four old wedding rings to pawn, now wouldn't I?
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| 12/15/2009 5:18:41 PM |
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leftarian
Hermosa Beach, CA
age: 45
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I'm up for just about any head games...wait, this isn't the "sex & dating" forum? Never mind.
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