12/27/2009 7:12:00 AM |
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dixonwink
Cincinnati, OH
age: 35
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1 Race is all personal prefference when it comes to people although race shouldn't matter it does to some. Those people are generally very close minded individuals. To answer in my own thoughts, no, race doesn't matter at all. When you find that person that is willing to give you a chance and you connect on every level...Nothing matters, be it race color or size.
2 I don't think that race should be an issue for a relationship. The only thing that can be a problem is that different races have different history and customs. I think as long as both people recongize and accept the culture and customs of the other race, both people can be happy together.
3 Seeing a black man with a white female does not bother me at all. People should live happy lives and in this life not every person will find true love/ real love with the opposite sex. So, love has no color, it is a gift from GOD to be able to really love someone. If a black man has found that gift in a white female, then instead of being angry, just celebrate the fact the he's found that special person.
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12/27/2009 7:25:25 AM |
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claudius5
Petaluma, CA
age: 60
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You are new and so do not know that this has been talked about to death. It really depends on the individual preference and should only concern the parties involved. Get ready as you might get some responses you were not expecting. In the future before you post a thread, you might want to put the subject in the search function and see how many threads have been started on the same subject. From experience on DH, people hate redundancy. Good luck.
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12/27/2009 7:36:04 AM |
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msbevzie
Oregon, OH
age: 46
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to each their own I have no problem with different ethnic backgrounds...
I think were ALL human therefore I don't focus so much on race!
BUT here is a tip you might want to read and asked a person the first time you contact them if they are OPEN to all backgrounds...
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12/27/2009 7:40:11 AM |
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wsprs0nthewind
Powell, TN
age: 45
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How many times is topic going to be beat to death? I am attracted to mostly white men. There have been the occasional Arabic or Indian (India) men that I've found attractive.
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12/27/2009 7:46:05 AM |
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latestflame
Germantown, TN
age: 32
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lol This asks if it matters then immediately condemns anyone who answers other than one way. yes it matters usually and there's nothing wrong with that.
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12/27/2009 7:57:19 AM |
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wsprs0nthewind
Powell, TN
age: 45
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lol This asks if it matters then immediately condemns anyone who answers other than one way. yes it matters usually and there's nothing wrong with that.
You know I almost posted that very point that if you answer YES it does matter then you are automatically labeled racist. That's totally not true. Race is a matter of preference just like some don't like short people, brunettes, skinny, heavy, etc. Before anyone says it is racism let me pose this question. I as a white woman am proud to be white just as I've seen blacks and other races proclaim how proud they are to be so. Why then if we are so proud of the race we came from are we so quick and ready to hook up with someone from another race? Things that I care about and am proud of I try to preserve. While I agree that no race should be touted as more important that any other, I think it's a shame that traditions, cultures, and beliefs are being stamped out b/c the lines are being blurred. Why can't everyone just accept what everyone else does and live and let live? If some want to stay w/i their race that's okay and if others want to date outside of it that's okay too. What is not okay is giving someone hell and labeling them for either of the choices they make. JMO
Our preferences/tastes are not something we get to choose the same as we don't get to chose gender, hair color (well kinda), eyes, height, etc. Really, the world would be a boring place if we all chose the same things. Diversity is a wonderful thing.
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12/27/2009 8:04:20 AM |
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movado1
Carpentersville, IL
age: 27
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I dont think race matters atleast in MY world and thats all that matters,is your world let them people look and say things ive dated a few fine black women and i had people say things about it but when i walked up on them and confronted their asses they straigtend up real quick bottom line is this shouldnt even be a question do what you wanna do and fukc everyone else! if i fell in love with a sista or a hispanic women and wanted to marry her trust me we gonna get married even if my family dont approve then thats there problem and so be it!
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12/27/2009 9:08:16 AM |
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wiilnotgiveup
Fort Lauderdale, FL
age: 45
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This is asked so much by you brothers ! lol! Were with you, we dont want to do one either! stay with your own kind. whats wrong with you. you just want a prize ,a trophy ! look i got a white one!
most women that are white that are with a black man are fat, and or a drug addicts. Very few women from proper up bringing will date a black man. nOW I KNOW THERE IS A FINE ASSED BLACK WOMAN IN YOUR FUTURE ! NOW GO FIND HER! no white girl for you!! I know its depressing . but that it life. have a 40 and get over it! Now can all you newbes read this and we get back to the fun stuff!
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12/27/2009 9:09:24 AM |
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green17
Lewisburg, TN
age: 31
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You know I almost posted that very point that if you answer YES it does matter then you are automatically labeled racist. That's totally not true. Race is a matter of preference just like some don't like short people, brunettes, skinny, heavy, etc.
This would depend on the reasons why race matters. Being attracted ( or not attracted ) to a particular race is not racist. However there are some people who may not date a certain race ( whether it's white, black, Asian etc ) due to false and negative generalizations.
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12/27/2009 9:22:42 AM |
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wsprs0nthewind
Powell, TN
age: 45
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This would depend on the reasons why race matters. Being attracted ( or not attracted ) to a particular race is not racist. However there are some people who may not date a certain race ( whether it's white, black, Asian etc ) due to false and negative generalizations.
Your point is true but many are accused of being racist no matter what their reasons are or even whether their reasons are known or not. Even if someone didn't date a specific race or all races other than their own b/c they had a false sense of others as a whole does not necessarily make them racist but uninformed and maybe out of fear. I think the term "racist" is too easily flung out as a generalized label instead of people taking the time to find out why people feel the way they do. It's very easy to assume and most of the time when we assume we are wrong.
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12/27/2009 9:28:34 AM |
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tanzkity
Rancho Cucamonga, CA
age: 36
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I date who I like.............and right now its a blond and blue eyed man..............and so what no one pays my bills but me..............and im going to marry the man too........................
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12/27/2009 9:38:28 AM |
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mendicant
Tulsa, OK
age: 81
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Having a preference...being attracted to one particular race...is NOT racist!
Everyone wants to have the right to their own preferences, but not to anyone else having the same option. When it gets downright ridiculous is when someone has to DEFEND their preferences!!!!
I have a preference. My fiance is a tall, blond, slender, blue-eyed German/Scottish man with broad shoulders and strong muscles. Does that mean if I don't dump him and instead find a short, overweight, dark-haired, dark-eyed, African-American/Hispanic/Eastern Indian/Arabic/Native American man built like a pear and unable to lift himself out of his recliner then I am RACIST?
Give me a break.
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12/27/2009 9:39:35 AM |
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lolsmile
Everett, WA
age: 47
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Race doesn't matter, but culture does. e.g. I wouldn't have anything to do with any guy with britches hanging off his a** no matter what color he was.
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12/27/2009 9:42:17 AM |
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crow09
Ponca City, OK
age: 36
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Funny thing about the story behind guys with britches hanging half way down their ass...
in the old south and in the prison systems..where that actually started...when a guy hung his britches like that, it meant he was gay and liked it in the ass...so in other words he was open for for a good f**king
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12/27/2009 9:45:20 AM |
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sedonaphoto
Sedona, AZ
age: 45
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This is about the 60th time that I have written in a post like this. In Cincinnati Oh or the bronx, it might not matter, in norther arizona rockville IN and quite a few places it does matter. Although we have come leaps and bounds in the past 100 years the fact is people are afraid of what they don't understand. We would love to think that people are tolerant but they are not. A few weeks ago I made someone mad on this site and he called me the N word and then said he was the white boy that my mom told me to fear.
As for relationships, personally the height weight color thing has never been a factor. I date someone based on how they treat me and if there is an attraction. Beauty comes in a lot of different packages, for someone that is looking it is never what you think it's going to be.
As a race of people, once we change our attitude and perceptions we will change our lives.
Good luck young Jedi, I hope that you find what you are looking for
Karl in Sedona
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12/27/2009 9:46:59 AM |
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lookin4love76
Queensland
Australia
age: 33
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I find African American women more sexually attractive than white women,my dream wife is Kelly Rowlands
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12/27/2009 9:48:09 AM |
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sedonaphoto
Sedona, AZ
age: 45
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Funny thing about the story behind guys with britches hanging half way down their ass...
in the old south and in the prison systems..where that actually started...when a guy hung his britches like that, it meant he was gay and liked it in the ass...so in other words he was open for for a good f**king
basically leaving he light on for a potential soother, every time I see a guy wearing clothes like that IILMAO funniest dam thing.
Thanks crow I had forgotten that!
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12/27/2009 9:49:19 AM |
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wsprs0nthewind
Powell, TN
age: 45
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Funny thing about the story behind guys with britches hanging half way down their ass...
in the old south and in the prison systems..where that actually started...when a guy hung his britches like that, it meant he was gay and liked it in the ass...so in other words he was open for for a good f**king
Again, this is new news to me. I had never heard this.
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12/27/2009 9:51:33 AM |
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cheeksgrmi
Grand Rapids, MI
age: 40 online now!
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Our preferences/tastes are not something we get to choose the same as we don't get to chose gender, hair color (well kinda), eyes, height, etc.
I feel just like this. I don't have a problem with interracial relationships. To each his/her own. Personally, I have never found myself attracted to black men. For me it's just a matter of what I find attractive. I have also never found myself attracted to females, red heads, or guys shorter than me. That's just me, so far.
I may be way off base here but my initial thought when I read this post wasn't so much that he wanted to stir up a controversy as much as he wanted to #1) put himself out there to get noticed and #2) to let others know his feelings and preferrences for the sake of perhaps knowing who not to message. Like I said, I may be way off base but the way I'm looking at it now, if a black man, red head, or a guy shorter than 5'4" looks at my profile and is interested enough to see my posts he might see the topic of this one, check out my responce and then probabley move on. Thus saving us both the ever dreaded "thanks for your interest but..." responce.
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12/27/2009 9:52:34 AM |
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mendicant
Tulsa, OK
age: 81
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Funny thing about the story behind guys with britches hanging half way down their ass...
in the old south and in the prison systems..where that actually started...when a guy hung his britches like that, it meant he was gay and liked it in the ass...so in other words he was open for for a good f**king
As my buddy Joe would say, "And whose prison b*tch are you?"
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12/27/2009 9:53:58 AM |
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sedonaphoto
Sedona, AZ
age: 45
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Again, this is new news to me. I had never heard this.
The great thing about this site a free education 24/7 brought to you by a vast amount of poster with very different ethnic backgrounds.
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12/27/2009 9:56:54 AM |
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wsprs0nthewind
Powell, TN
age: 45
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The great thing about this site a free education 24/7 brought to you by a vast amount of poster with very different ethnic backgrounds.
This is true that there are rare times that one can glean some valid knowledge here.
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12/27/2009 9:58:25 AM |
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cheeksgrmi
Grand Rapids, MI
age: 40 online now!
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Race doesn't matter, but culture does. e.g. I wouldn't have anything to do with any guy with britches hanging off his a** no matter what color he was.
AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I just don't get that whole thing at all!
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12/27/2009 11:59:11 AM |
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dixonwink
Cincinnati, OH
age: 35
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thanks
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12/27/2009 11:59:58 AM |
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dixonwink
Cincinnati, OH
age: 35
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Well I think you should be you. If you hate go ahead hate just don't push people no hitting or killing. Your fine I grew up in three cities one in the south one in the west and I was born in live now in the north. Funny in the south 84-89 I lived in all white neighborhood So I think because of the time I started liking white women but then I moved back home dated only black women but I was in a all black neighborhood.
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12/27/2009 12:02:32 PM |
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thebull215
Philadelphia, PA
age: 21
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thats carzy,cus im black in i love white woman thin black woman
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12/27/2009 12:02:47 PM |
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dixonwink
Cincinnati, OH
age: 35
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Well I think you should be you. If you hate go ahead hate just don't push people no hitting or killing. Your fine I grew up in three cities one in the south one in the west and I was born in live now in the north. Funny in the south 84-89 I lived in all white neighborhood So I think because of the time I started liking white women but then I moved back home dated only black women but I was in a all black neighborhood. Then I lived in the west dated a Latino it was cool but believe or not had a man Latino man call me a n I laughed my a** off cause I thought to myself I've heard that before so many times don't even faze me not one bit just don't care. I seem to like women that can speak well dress well work and know about things happening in the world. Most of the time these women are white or Asian. I really hate pushes women that's just much for me. I’m a little picky but when you meet women that have the whole package well most of them it’s hard to go back ward I just need an upgrade. So what does this have to do with race well I'm upset that most of the time I like a white women over black women and most of any race the one I tend to like does not like me. I would love to date a black women but I seem to be different from the ones I like do I just settle for something that will end well I say f that. Still freaking looking….
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12/27/2009 12:05:18 PM |
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dixonwink
Cincinnati, OH
age: 35
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I just love America it's great we can do what we want to a point love it be you.....
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12/27/2009 12:24:07 PM |
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thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 36
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It only matters if one allows it to matter.
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12/27/2009 1:36:00 PM |
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wsprs0nthewind
Powell, TN
age: 45
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Quote from thebull215:thats carzy,cus im black in i love white woman thin black woman
There should be a term for this. There is bi-sexual, bi-lingual,bi-racial...so what it the term for someone who likes partners from two races, bi-attracted?
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12/27/2009 1:52:57 PM |
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movado1
Carpentersville, IL
age: 27
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you people keep going on and on about this WHO GIVES A FCUK!!! i mean really everyone needs to worry about themselves and not others people are gonna date who they wanna date i know i will and if anyones got a problem with it then fcuk you!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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12/27/2009 1:53:05 PM |
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dixonwink
Cincinnati, OH
age: 35
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There should be a term for this. There is bi-sexual, bi-lingual,bi-racial...so what it the term for someone who likes partners from two races, bi-attracted?
funny!!!!!
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12/27/2009 2:07:00 PM |
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wsprs0nthewind
Powell, TN
age: 45
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Quote from dixonwink:There should be a term for this. There is bi-sexual, bi-lingual,bi-racial...so what it the term for someone who likes partners from two races, bi-attracted?
funny!!!!!
I guess my weird sense of humor kicked in there.
Quote from movado1:you people keep going on and on about this WHO GIVES A FCUK!!! i mean really everyone needs to worry about themselves and not others people are gonna date who they wanna date i know i will and if anyones got a problem with it then fcuk you!!!!!!!!!!!!
Because that is what happens on a T H R E A D. People respond and it keeps going. DUH
If you really don't give a "F" then why not post on threads that you do care about? I never get this.
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12/27/2009 2:16:43 PM |
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movado1
Carpentersville, IL
age: 27
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cause you are a bunch of cry babies why do you care what others think do you honestly think i care what you think if i was walking down the street holding a black womens hand you think i would care what you say! and i write on these cause i think its funny how people cry on here
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12/27/2009 2:42:21 PM |
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mschevy
Antioch, TN
age: 47
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if u allow others 2 pick & choose 4 you & allow their judgement of u to take over, then the term will be called ..... bi-your-self.
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12/27/2009 2:43:38 PM |
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dixonwink
Cincinnati, OH
age: 35
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i do care about talk and back and forth just do it
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12/27/2009 2:45:28 PM |
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movado1
Carpentersville, IL
age: 27
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I like mschevys answer
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12/27/2009 2:58:50 PM |
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wsprs0nthewind
Powell, TN
age: 45
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For someone who don't care what others think you sure do keep coming back to this thread. It's not about what anyone things just conversation about a topic. I was looking in the forums for threads that you had posted about things you like to discuss and didn't see any. I'm sure I over looked them. -snicker-
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12/27/2009 3:07:28 PM |
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wsprs0nthewind
Powell, TN
age: 45
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,,,Emotions and actions don't know the difference between colors
Neither do color blind people.
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12/27/2009 3:50:24 PM |
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dixonwink
Cincinnati, OH
age: 35
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Powell, TN your alright with me
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12/27/2009 4:05:33 PM |
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i_am_bill
Astatula, FL
age: 50
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Why do people keep starting these threads? They serve no productive purpose. Not one post is going to improve race relations and these threads bring out idiot after idiot either touting their hate or their hypocritical bullshit about treating everyone the same.
And before anyone defends their hypocrasy, if a person doesn't have any problem or issue with race then there is no need to start a thread like this,,,is there?
Bill
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12/27/2009 5:08:33 PM |
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wsprs0nthewind
Powell, TN
age: 45
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Quote from dixonwinkowell, TN your alright with me
Thanks.
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12/27/2009 5:19:40 PM |
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snhgirl
Orlando, FL
age: 39
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Why do people keep starting these threads? They serve no productive purpose. Not one post is going to improve race relations and these threads bring out idiot after idiot either touting their hate or their hypocritical bullshit about treating everyone the same.
And before anyone defends their hypocrasy, if a person doesn't have any problem or issue with race then there is no need to start a thread like this,,,is there?
Bill
You got that right Bill!
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12/28/2009 11:39:55 AM |
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dixonwink
Cincinnati, OH
age: 35
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Well I ask the ? because I'm new to this and I happen to like all kinds of women I have some friends in my actual life that really get pissed at me about it. White and black it can become a heated talk but it has never stopped our friendship ever. I can't stop loving my friends for what they was taught I think it's really hard to let go of things your family put in your head I never had to go through that. And than I have A lot of black friends mostly women that cannot even stand the ideal and I think that's sad but since my sisters are black I feel the reason I just think you have to move on cause it takes powering your self up than I also get pissed cuzz some of my black femal friend will not date a ups driver or a mail man some one that works in a ware house but they'll date a
f ing drug dealer with not even one legal thing going on in his life I say at least if he was trying to get out I could understand but dam wtf good guy or stable men don't have a fnc ... ok I'm pissed my bad..
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12/28/2009 11:55:19 AM |
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phina1
Walton, KY
age: 48
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So, love has no color, it is a gift from GOD to be able to really love someone.
Yes sight is a gift. And if we had no sight people wouldn't be able to judge someone by the color of their skin.
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12/28/2009 12:00:06 PM |
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leftarian
Hermosa Beach, CA
age: 45
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Yes sight is a gift. And if we had no sight people wouldn't be able to judge someone by the color of their skin.
Don't underestimate people. I'm sure we'd find something else to judge people by.
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12/28/2009 1:16:41 PM |
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uniquebrotha
Lawrenceville, GA
age: 35
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I as a white woman am proud to be white just as I've seen blacks and other races proclaim how proud they are to be so. Why then if we are so proud of the race we came from are we so quick and ready to hook up with someone from another race? Things that I care about and am proud of I try to preserve. While I agree that no race should be touted as more important that any other, I think it's a shame that traditions, cultures, and beliefs are being stamped out b/c the lines are being blurred.
The informed answer to your question would be because, scientifically, we all come form the SAME genetic tree. The CLOSEST living genetic relative to the proverbial "Adam" is a small tribe in Africa. THEY are OUR (white, black, asian, american indian, etc) most distance relatives. Genetically, white and black people are the closest of ALL the races. It's mainly due to geographical location. It takes 20,000 years for black people to turn white and vice versa, based on geographical location.
Culture can only be preserved through an exchange of knowledge. It's not based on what you look like. This is obvious.
Our exteriors are mainly based on our genetic adaptations to our environment. Mixing together means nothing besides strengthening the adaptability of the children born from it. We, basically, all have the same original genetic material.
However, people will hold on to their beliefs, even if they are based on falsehoods.
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/sci/tech/999030.stm
Also, look up "The Real Eve" (a program from Discovery Channel)
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12/28/2009 2:16:54 PM |
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wsprs0nthewind
Powell, TN
age: 45
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OP, you can't take anything personal that's posted on threads you create. There are going to be haters bashing every topic that's created. It's not you personally...it's just how it is.
Our exteriors are mainly based on our genetic adaptations to our environment. Mixing together means nothing besides strengthening the adaptability of the children born from it. We, basically, all have the same original genetic material.Also, look up "The Real Eve" (a program from Discovery Channel)
No matter what our exteriors, no matter our genetic makeup, we still ALL are individuals with individual preferences that we didn't choose. It don't make any of us wrong or right b/c of the preferences we have. It just makes us all different.
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12/28/2009 2:40:43 PM |
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godfearing025
Akron, PA
age: 59
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To make it simple; Who am I to turn down what God has for me?
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12/28/2009 2:52:00 PM |
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silverspn
Manitowoc, WI
age: 56
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Amen, race has never mattered to me. Prejudice and ignorance does, education dispells both of these but it is within a person's mind that these are broken or fed, it all depends on which mindset we feed ourselves, what we choose to believe and make into our own thinking.
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12/28/2009 3:00:44 PM |
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mrfreshprince
Costa Mesa, CA
age: 20
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yes and no.....yes because i know most girls prefer the nice white guy with the nice smile over a guy like me, who is black...but then there are females that prefer other races over others...so then at the same time it doesnt matter since there is most likely someone that loves the race that you are..but what if you are mixed?? im mixed with black, white, peurto rican, italian, nd indian...nd im not bad looking so does my race matter then??
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12/28/2009 3:09:49 PM |
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wsprs0nthewind
Powell, TN
age: 45
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i know most girls prefer the nice white guy with the nice smile over a guy like me, who is black
I don't think that's necessarily true.
Amen, race has never mattered to me. Prejudice and ignorance does, education dispells both of these but it is within a person's mind that these are broken or fed, it all depends on which mindset we feed ourselves, what we choose to believe and make into our own thinking.
So are you saying you would be willing to date someone that was NOT a clown?
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12/28/2009 3:44:37 PM |
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josiemae
Fayetteville, NC
age: 53
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Think about the poem that I learned in elementary school and it may shed some light to your understanding:
Jack Sprat could eat no fat
His wife could eat no lean
And so between them both you see
They lick the platter clean
EACH INDIVIDUAL HAS HIS/HER OWN LIKENESS AND KNOWS EXACTLY WHAT HE/SHE WANTS.
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12/28/2009 5:17:13 PM |
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bigbazborn
Buellton, CA
age: 45
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12/28/2009 5:48:03 PM |
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ironmuscle
Santa Cruz, CA
age: 34
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1 Race is all personal prefference when it comes to people although race shouldn't matter it does to some. Those people are generally very close minded individuals. To answer in my own thoughts, no, race doesn't matter at all. When you find that person that is willing to give you a chance and you connect on every level...Nothing matters, be it race color or size.
2 I don't think that race should be an issue for a relationship. The only thing that can be a problem is that different races have different history and customs. I think as long as both people recongize and accept the culture and customs of the other race, both people can be happy together.
3 Seeing a black man with a white female does not bother me at all. People should live happy lives and in this life not every person will find true love/ real love with the opposite sex. So, love has no color, it is a gift from GOD to be able to really love someone. If a black man has found that gift in a white female, then instead of being angry, just celebrate the fact the he's found that special person.
SO WHAT DO YOU THINK?
To some people race does matter and to some it doesn't. The real question is does it matter to YOU?
Regardless of what everyone else thinks, you're going to have to make the necessary sacrifices if you want to date a white woman.
.....ESPECIALLY IN CINCINNATI!! Cincinnati is like jim crow without the signs. A lot of segregation and racial tension. I lived there for about 10 years (I was in the middle of the 2001 riot when that teenager got shot by a cop- which happened a lot). So I know if you date a white woman in Cincinnati you're going to get grief from the black and white community.
The racial tension in Cincy is one of the reasons why I had to leave.
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12/28/2009 7:39:07 PM |
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lovely4u24evr
Chicago, IL
age: 51
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Race does not matter it is their cultural people may have that they may need to adjust to what I dont like is when a black man feels he has to put down a sister to validate him self for wanting to be with a white women when in all reality he has yet to be with every black women so to say because a sister wont do this or that he cant say that is true
If he wants to be with a white women than fine good that is his choice and let it be at that
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12/29/2009 1:58:03 AM |
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dixonwink
Cincinnati, OH
age: 35
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this place is like talk to a group of great doctors. To all that have spread goodness I thank you. I think the anwser I take from all this, is I love women no matter what the color I just want what I like not what they look like... thanks. problem solved!!!!!!
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12/29/2009 5:29:19 AM |
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simonptkd
Berkshire
United Kingdom
age: 51
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In a nutshell, whilst individually it may be stated it does not matter, I think in the end it does, if this were not the case then we would not have the ethnic enclaves we find we do. This is not always based on colour, but on religion and culture as well. Often what gets labelled as racism is not but xenophobia. All humans have a sense of belonging and many cultures are not willing recipients of outsiders merely because they fear the dilution of their ethnicitity, cultures and traditions. Yes we mave love outside these restraints, but will the relationship be accepted by family, peers and our society, in some cases yes, in others No and that almost remembers one "stateless". You may say people have each other even if their union is not accepted, but what about the children that stem from that union, they are seldom recognized by either side.
Many races frown on relationships outside their society. The Euorpeans are known for it, the African tribes feel the same even when of the same country. You find it within religion too. The expression of birds of feather flock together does not stem from freash air and for the most it is found throughout nature. Lions do not mate with Zebras.
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12/29/2009 5:41:36 AM |
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wsprs0nthewind
Powell, TN
age: 45
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this place is like talk to a group of great doctors.
We will send you our bill.
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12/29/2009 7:45:50 AM |
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sebastian37
Miami, FL
age: 44
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Race should never matter. I would hope people are beyond that by now.
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