2/5/2010 2:04:15 AM |
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clowver2
Lanoka Harbor, NJ
age: 30
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If you told Him you saw yourself marrying them one day and they said "here is the deal If we are Both not married by the time i am (30) we will get married."
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2/5/2010 4:45:29 AM |
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itsclear
Fort Mohave, AZ
age: 48
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If you told Him you saw yourself marrying them one day and they said "here is the deal If we are Both not married by the time i am (30) we will get married."
you cant wait 6 months?
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2/5/2010 5:32:51 AM |
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barrydean
Springville, UT
age: 43
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are you just friends, or have you been dating for a while.
why get married just because your turning 30.
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2/5/2010 5:43:33 AM |
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arkansasnman
Fayetteville, AR
age: 48
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I'm not sure what the gist of the thread is.
OP, are you asking if the getting married at 30 deal is good/bad or are you asking if you should be friends with a guy that offers something like that?
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2/5/2010 5:45:32 AM |
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badger_of_death
Houston, TX
age: 43
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If you told Him you saw yourself marrying them one day and they said "here is the deal If we are Both not married by the time i am (30) we will get married."
What a great reason to get married...
Stupid X stupid = 4 little dirty stupids.
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2/5/2010 5:56:41 AM |
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imrich29
Wessington Springs, SD
age: 61
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is this guy 22 and wants to wait till hes 30????????? if so i would go find someone that wants me rather than use me
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2/5/2010 6:07:37 AM |
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anotherfunnyman
Philadelphia, PA
age: 32
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i dunno. it seems like he is trying to put you on the back burner as a last resort.
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2/5/2010 12:16:36 PM |
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clowver2
Lanoka Harbor, NJ
age: 30
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Well the guy is really 31 and he said if I am not married by the time he is 35 we will get married. But we have been in an on and off relationship for 10 years. I also told him I do not want to stay in this emotional termoial with him anymore and he needs to let me know if we will ever go anywhere and that is when he gave me the whole If we are not married by the time he is 35 then we will get married.......Then he was like that sounds like an ok deal. I guess i am just looking for if this is a good deal or if people think i am wasting my time. I feel as if i am.
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2/5/2010 12:26:10 PM |
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msugly2u
Seagrove, NC
age: 28
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F**k no. You're wasting your time. Why wait around that much longer and continue to put yourself through that "emotional turmoil"?
Move on...never "wait around" for someone to come back to you.
Should be considerably FAR too late by then for that to happen.
<-- somewhat of a hypocrite but I have wisened up..even in just a few mos. time..
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2/5/2010 12:26:55 PM |
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arkansasnman
Fayetteville, AR
age: 48
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OP, that's insane.
I could write a book on all the reasons that's insane.
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2/5/2010 12:28:06 PM |
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122750again
Sioux Falls, SD
age: 60
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So you're gonnna give him 4 MORE years of your life to FIND his Spouse I'd be Gone
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2/5/2010 12:28:19 PM |
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msugly2u
Seagrove, NC
age: 28
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Ditto. Me too.
Lesson learned the hard way and 2 yrs. later, I FINALLY realized I could NEVER be with someone who I "technically" still waited around for, in whatever sense..we always found our way back to each other, but he proved he truly had NEVER changed.
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2/5/2010 12:50:52 PM |
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rockpillow
Grafton, ND
age: 48
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SORRY
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2/5/2010 12:53:14 PM |
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freenow31
Las Vegas, NV
age: 36
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are you just friends, or have you been dating for a while.
why get married just because your turning 30.
Because 30 is the new spinster age......We are old
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2/5/2010 1:41:11 PM |
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lovinlife41
York, PA
age: 42
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Have you lost your mind~! But really, have you~!
I can give you ten reasons why that is insane.......have you no respect for yourself? Does this not sound crazy at ALL to you.....
INDEPENDENCE girl ...... why would anyone want to be strung along like a toy....but it seems to me that you have allowed him to do this for the past ten years so why not four more???
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2/5/2010 1:48:48 PM |
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sandra49ok
Shelton, WA
age: 51
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where is the love in such an offer?
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2/5/2010 2:03:22 PM |
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rondag
Mount Orab, OH
age: 47
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Why is there going to be some big new revelation of something spectacular by 30 that doesn't exist in your 20's?
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2/5/2010 8:35:43 PM |
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clowver2
Lanoka Harbor, NJ
age: 30
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Have you lost your mind~! But really, have you~!
I can give you ten reasons why that is insane.......have you no respect for yourself? Does this not sound crazy at ALL to you.....
INDEPENDENCE girl ...... why would anyone want to be strung along like a toy....but it seems to me that you have allowed him to do this for the past ten years so why not four more???
I love you women.......I just wanted to know if i was insane to think this was messed up. Thanks to all you women i am not wasting anymore time and effort on this so called guy. I just was feeling that i was insane for it. I mean moving on but obviously not.
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2/21/2010 3:47:28 PM |
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southernviking
El Cajon, CA
age: 38
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you haven't shot him yet?
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2/21/2010 4:01:34 PM |
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hugsnlaughter
McKeesport, PA
age: 50
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What he is saying is he has not found anyone else by then, he will settle for you. Have some pride in yourself and say No Thank You!
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2/21/2010 4:18:35 PM |
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southernviking
El Cajon, CA
age: 38
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if she was in San Diego she could have me. sigh distance sucks!!!
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2/21/2010 4:21:50 PM |
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122750again
Sioux Falls, SD
age: 60
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Ha, doubt seriously he plans on Marrying anyone Be friends, yes, be Bed Buddies,NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
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2/21/2010 4:27:26 PM |
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redinnevada
Wadsworth, NV
age: 50
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it's called "hedging your bet".
If someone better doesn't come along then we'll get married to each other at 30 (or 40, 50, 90).
it's also called "settling".
But then again, I don't blithely tell a guy I'm seeing that I could "see myself marrying them someday". I can see myself in a pair of size 12 jeans (again) some day, or riding a motorcycle, or... but not marrying someone. That's a little more serious to me. Maybe that's just me though.
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2/21/2010 5:38:41 PM |
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rhodora
Queen Creek, AZ
age: 34
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I would still be friends with him but wouldn't wait four years to see if he and you are still single by the time he is 35.
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2/21/2010 5:51:38 PM |
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missmmeoftheday
Brooklyn, NY
age: 45
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i am just looking for if this is a good deal or if people think i am wasting my time. I feel as if i am.
If you feel as if you are wasting your time, then you are. Why waste more?
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2/22/2010 1:57:11 AM |
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johnny_tsunamy
Dixon, MO
age: 91
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A mam has got to do what a Man has got to do...
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2/23/2010 3:14:48 PM |
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honestjohn49
Dorothy, NJ
age: 61
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If I knew you and was a little closer, I would slap you up side the head. Then hold you tight and kiss you. Then tickled you 'til you peed. That's reality girl. Get some self worth, you are cute! Get out there and play.
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2/23/2010 5:48:21 PM |
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scornangel
Jackson, TN
age: 47
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What a great reason to get married...
Stupid X stupid = 4 little dirty stupids.
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2/24/2010 2:09:34 PM |
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barbaraajo
Reston, VA
age: 54
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I would never take a deal like that seriously
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2/24/2010 2:48:20 PM |
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jonas35
Dahlonega, GA
age: 37
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Drop this guy and run, before you do have sex with his bestfriend and then tell him about it. Then say how you like me now b*tch.
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2/24/2010 4:00:44 PM |
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lovely4u24evr
Chicago, IL
age: 52
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Nope dont be friends if this is friends what kind of enemies do you have look it is not that he will marry you at 35 if not married he just wants to see if someone better will come along
You are not what he wants to be married to right now and if not now than not later either and by what he said sounds like he would be settling by marring you when he gets 35 so no dont wait and no not worth being a friend either
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2/24/2010 4:24:39 PM |
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nikkilikesit
Bakersfield, CA
age: 34
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Sounds like he is saying you are second best. I dont know about you but Nikki plays second best to know one.......
Hard to give you a true reflections on my thoughts when there is little info to go on.
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