| 2/6/2010 8:40:07 AM |
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lastthing
Hamilton, OH
age: 38
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Does having sex on the first date say something about who you are with? Me never been that luck or unlucky counts on your mind set  ::: ::
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| 2/6/2010 8:45:42 AM |
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zcech
Grantsburg, WI
age: 39
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If it was felt bothways naturally..without planning to meet just for this reason..then i dont see anything wrong at all..i dont set a time limit on when i will have sex..jmo!!
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| 2/6/2010 8:48:51 AM |
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raen
Sunman, IN
age: 40
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blue how many damn profiles do u have???? 
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| 2/6/2010 9:00:11 AM |
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kinkycapitalist
Atlanta, GA
age: 55
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Increases the probability of a 2nd date exponentially. Probably by a fact of 2, to the 14th power or more
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| 2/6/2010 9:45:38 AM |
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mellowson
Las Vegas, NV
age: 43
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Sex on the first date is lust... What starts fast ends fast. I think there must be a defined goal in what you really want out of a date. Is it to start a friendship or something else? Do you want sex to be an expression of love or a mutually beneficial instant gratification thing. They are very different animals and should be looked at differently. Lust is instant, love takes time and patience.
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| 2/6/2010 9:52:00 AM |
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leftarian
Hermosa Beach, CA
age: 45
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The second person I met here was a sex on the first date experience. We met at a starbucks and talked for an hour. Things were going well so we went for dinner. Things were going better so we went to a club. After a while, we were making out and needed a room.
She drove me back to my car and parked. She sat back in her seat and told me I was ok and I could "have it." We moved to the back of her SUV and "had it."
Oddly enough we lasted about a month together and she got mad because she wanted more from me--more time, committment, etc.
The stereotype is that she's a slut who sleeps with everyone, but it wasn't true. Apparently that was just me.
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| 2/6/2010 11:09:36 AM |
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bbw47reader
Frederick, MD
age: 47
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Not in and of itself.
It can more frequently tell you about the effects of too much alcohol with accuracy.
By the way, in vino veritas is false.
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| 2/6/2010 11:14:53 AM |
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redpruett
Ottumwa, IA
age: 74
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LOTS OF THING HAPPEN IN THE HEAT OF PASSION.
if she wants it and you want it..WHY NOT
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| 2/6/2010 11:36:19 AM |
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garyguitar01
Franklin, NJ
age: 54
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I love sex as much as anyone, but I've got to say that every relationship I've been in that stared out as a sexual one hasn't lasted.
It's tough being single, horny and having morals and values. If you give in to the lust factor, which is very easy to do, then you struggle with the "why did I do that?" thing.
If you don't feed into it, then you're kickinhg yourself in the a** for passing up a potentially great piece of tail.
For me, as long as I'm not smoking pot with a date, I'm a lot more capable of keeping my pecker in my pants. One joint and I'm hornier than a billy goat.
Whoa, is me!!
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| 2/6/2010 11:45:10 AM |
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mellowson
Las Vegas, NV
age: 43
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I love sex as much as anyone, but I've got to say that every relationship I've been in that stared out as a sexual one hasn't lasted.
It's tough being single, horny and having morals and values. If you give in to the lust factor, which is very easy to do, then you struggle with the "why did I do that?" thing.
If you don't feed into it, then you're kickinhg yourself in the a** for passing up a potentially great piece of tail.
For me, as long as I'm not smoking pot with a date, I'm a lot more capable of keeping my pecker in my pants. One joint and I'm hornier than a billy goat.
Whoa, is me!!
You're a riot dude! That was funny and real!
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| 2/6/2010 11:58:27 AM |
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freenow31
Las Vegas, NV
age: 35
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This is a decision that people must make for themselves. What others think about what you do is irrelevant in the grand scheme of things. It is YOUR life and you are the one that has to live with the decisions made.
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| 2/6/2010 12:02:43 PM |
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awakeing
Walled Lake, MI
age: 37
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The second person I met here was a sex on the first date experience. We met at a starbucks and talked for an hour. Things were going well so we went for dinner. Things were going better so we went to a club. After a while, we were making out and needed a room.
She drove me back to my car and parked. She sat back in her seat and told me I was ok and I could "have it." We moved to the back of her SUV and "had it."
Oddly enough we lasted about a month together and she got mad because she wanted more from me--more time, commitment, etc.
The stereotype is that she's a slut who sleeps with everyone, but it wasn't true. Apparently that was just me.
What's really funny about that...I heard the story of YOU from the next guy
she banged in the back of her SUV....guess you weren't that great or special
afterall Left.
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| 2/6/2010 12:18:34 PM |
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doreen1111
Brenham, TX
age: 45
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Sex on the first date is lust... What starts fast ends fast. I think there must be a defined goal in what you really want out of a date. Is it to start a friendship or something else? Do you want sex to be an expression of love or a mutually beneficial instant gratification thing. They are very different animals and should be looked at differently. Lust is instant, love takes time and patience.
Agreed! If I slept with you on the first date, I wouldn't see you again! That's not the way you start a lasting relationship, to me. I want them to respect me and vice versa. When you're invited, you'll be glad you stuck it out... I don't even want to be with a man that wouldn't have an issue with me being a slut ... just a slut with him!!!
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| 2/6/2010 12:26:52 PM |
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leftarian
Hermosa Beach, CA
age: 45
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What's really funny about that...I heard the story of YOU from the next guy
she banged in the back of her SUV....guess you weren't that great or special
afterall Left.::
signlol::
Oh I'm special and pretty great alright, but you won't have to worry about finding that out since you're not my type.
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| 2/6/2010 12:37:07 PM |
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awakeing
Walled Lake, MI
age: 37
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That's true Left I totally respect and understand.
You're not attracted to Conservative, Smart, Sincere,
Pretty women looking for LTR...you only date the sluts
you can bang on the first date.
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| 2/6/2010 12:40:19 PM |
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doctorseuss
Rochester, WA
age: 34
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back in november i met a girl on here, and she is the only girl i have met online that didnt want to have sex at the end of the first date. she was also the only one who had been single for a while, so far i keep ending up bein the rebound guy. i aint complaining, but it would be nice to meet someone who wants to kik it for a while not just get over their ex......
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| 2/6/2010 1:03:39 PM |
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leftarian
Hermosa Beach, CA
age: 45
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That's true Left I totally respect and understand.
You're not attracted to Conservative, Smart, Sincere,
Pretty women looking for LTR...you only date the sluts
you can bang on the first date.
Not sure about all that but definitely not interested in sanctimonious, delusional prigs.
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| 2/6/2010 1:09:15 PM |
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awakeing
Walled Lake, MI
age: 37
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Not sure about all that but definitely not interested in sanctimonious, delusional prigs.
Rofl!!!
Stop looking in the mirror!
Voila, problem solved.
OH see I forgot to mention I solve problems too!
I've got a great work ethic don't ya think?
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| 2/6/2010 1:23:21 PM |
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leftarian
Hermosa Beach, CA
age: 45
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Rofl!!!
Stop looking in the mirror!
Voila, problem solved.
OH see I forgot to mention I solve problems too!
I've got a great work ethic don't ya think?
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| 2/6/2010 1:28:04 PM |
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2rbetterthan1
Nashville, TN
age: 31
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If a guy gets seXXX on the first date....he will be out on his neXXXt adventure, & more than likely won't have a 2nd date...cuz he's already conquered...Girls do NOT need 2 give in to a guy...nope, nope, nope!
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| 2/6/2010 3:54:08 PM |
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gtrman28
Salida, CA
age: 29
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if it's just alittle fun for one night, sure. But if you want to see if it's going to go anywhere than wait for a wile. You can't base a longterm relationship on sex
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| 2/6/2010 4:54:42 PM |
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lulu24
Conway, AR
age: 35
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I had sex with my husband the first night I met him.
Attraction isn't something you put a timeframe on.
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| 2/6/2010 4:57:42 PM |
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sandra49ok
Shelton, WA
age: 50
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not ok for soo many reasons lol
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| 2/6/2010 5:13:09 PM |
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lastthing
Hamilton, OH
age: 38
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No these is a great way to find real people by asking questions people have diffident answers to me never had a one nighter not because wasn't ask I just grow up to respect you and all the lovelly ladies ..I like too rub some poeple the wrong way that's when the truth comes out like you jiving me ccc
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| 2/6/2010 5:34:11 PM |
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rainygirl22
Los Lunas, NM
age: 27
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I love sex as much as anyone, but I've got to say that every relationship I've been in that stared out as a sexual one hasn't lasted.
It's tough being single, horny and having morals and values. If you give in to the lust factor, which is very easy to do, then you struggle with the "why did I do that?" thing.
I agree here. It is true 90% of relationships that start out with sex will not last long...The problem is to not give in to those fellings.....
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| 2/6/2010 5:40:24 PM |
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countrybumpkins
Peachtree City, GA
age: 23
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well in april of 09 i met a guy off another site and he came over and we talk and say we wait till my mom went on break but he started to kiss me and then next thing we knew we were do it on the living room floor 2 times then we got done and met my mom and we out to lunch and went to walmart and back to the house and did it again then next thing i knew he textt me the next day saying that he went back to his ex bc of his kids so i say no it not a good thing wait till 3rd date to do it
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| 2/6/2010 5:43:21 PM |
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leftarian
Hermosa Beach, CA
age: 45
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If a guy gets seXXX on the first date....he will be out on his neXXXt adventure, & more than likely won't have a 2nd date...cuz he's already conquered...Girls do NOT need 2 give in to a guy...nope, nope, nope!
Great point! Except for the fact that it's not, you know..., true.
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| 2/6/2010 5:50:59 PM |
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lulu24
Conway, AR
age: 35
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No, it's really not.
Yes, some men are just after sex. Be good enough at it and they'll be back, LOL.
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| 2/6/2010 5:53:03 PM |
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rainstorm1615
Wilmington, DE
age: 52
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I say if you do it on the first date, neither know each other, and guess what you will never see each other again. Both will say they are too fast! Slow down! Be patient. When you have feelings it is a lot better.
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| 2/6/2010 6:11:50 PM |
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kinkycapitalist
Atlanta, GA
age: 55
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I am truly troubled by 2rbetterthan1's attitude and the attitude of those who express themselves in similar fashion. Cliche's like, "why buy the cow when the milks free" kind of sums up this attitude.
It seems to me that when women say this they and their mothers must think very little of themselves and women in general. Women in the 21st century shouldn't ever (EVER) "give sex" to a man or "Sell the cow" or allow themselves to be milked. Women, just like men, should take sexual pleasure when and with whom and at whatever time they choose to. Sex can be used to barter but "holding out" is just being a hooker for whatever value one feels marriage or a ring is worth to you.
I have a hell of a lot more respect for a crack wh*re who decides to take an hour off for a smoke than a woman who feels that her vagina is the crack that will enslave the man of her nightmares, if she "plays" him right.
[Edited 2/6/2010 6:12:38 PM PST]
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| 2/6/2010 6:19:37 PM |
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bbw47reader
Frederick, MD
age: 47
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I am truly troubled by 2rbetterthan1's attitude and the attitude of those who express themselves in similar fashion. Cliche's like, "why buy the cow when the milks free" kind of sums up this attitude.
It seems to me that when women say this they and their mothers must think very little of themselves and women in general. Women in the 21st century shouldn't ever (EVER) "give sex" to a man or "Sell the cow" or allow themselves to be milked. Women, just like men, should take sexual pleasure when and with whom and at whatever time they choose to. Sex can be used to barter but "holding out" is just being a hooker for whatever value one feels marriage or a ring is worth to you.
I have a hell of a lot more respect for a crack wh*re who decides to take an hour off for a smoke than a woman who feels that her vagina is the crack that will enslave the man of her nightmares, if she "plays" him right.
P*ssy in exchange for committment. Sounds like a transaction to me.
I hereby resolve to use mine for good, rather than evil.
I can always use the brain for the evil bits.
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| 2/6/2010 6:30:45 PM |
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kinkycapitalist
Atlanta, GA
age: 55
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Thank you Lisa. My work here is done. P*ssy for good. Makes a fine bumper sticker. 50/50 on the royalties.
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| 2/6/2010 6:31:39 PM |
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bbw47reader
Frederick, MD
age: 47
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That's a deal, my kinky friend.
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| 2/6/2010 6:35:11 PM |
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2rbetterthan1
Nashville, TN
age: 31
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If u can find me one SMOKIN' HOT GUY WHO WANTS MORE THAN SEXXX...by all means, send him my way...bcuz all I am finding r the ones...WHO WANT TO HIT IT, THEN FIND the neXXXt pu$$y 2 dump his load in.
ONE PRIME EXAMPLE: I have bcum really good friends with this guy who is a MAJOR PLAYER...Right now, he has 2 girls who he sees...one gives him blow jobs...and the other one gives him sexxx...anytime he gets horny. When I asked him if the 2 girls know about each other....my friend said, "yep, and they don't care"....We do CARE...is what I told him. He isn't having a 3sum...nothing like that...or so he claims...He also says they all go out every now & then...THIS WAS BEYOND ME...he claims it's just friends with benefits... but as we all know: GIRLS R CAT FIGHTY!!!!
I told him he was a selfish pig (he didn't take offense cuz we r friends), and he said, "Yes, I am a selfish pig"....He said...well they don't care, so why should I...It all goes back to respect. A lady MUST RESPECT herself, or she will get played!
Kinky,
I am not saying that the female doesn't get her needs met, too. Since, we all want & desire our sexual needs to be met. However, the majority of the time....the man is just lookin' 4 his needs to be met...and doesn't want commitment or seXXX on a long-term basis.
BTW, I want one man who I can have sexXx with the REST OF MY LIFE, and in return HIM RECIPROCATE...I want the real deal...not some quick cheap thrill.
[Edited 2/6/2010 6:42:41 PM PST]
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| 2/6/2010 6:42:24 PM |
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lulu24
Conway, AR
age: 35
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I'm perfectly capable of having an FWB. I could care less about their other partners, as long as they are careful.
Being female does not automatically equate to having the same outlook.
My vagina is not made of platinum. I don't get a prize for letting it grow cobwebs. I share as I please
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| 2/6/2010 6:44:46 PM |
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2rbetterthan1
Nashville, TN
age: 31
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Well, mine is...and am VERY SELECTIVE...WHO CAN CUM INSIDE....I WILL NEVER BE A CUM DUMPSTER...I DON'T SWING THAT WAY!
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| 2/6/2010 6:44:57 PM |
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bbwgirl
Brookeville, MD
age: 37
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I think it's okay if that is what you both want...and things happen.... but maybe the second date would be better.
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| 2/6/2010 6:49:45 PM |
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zcech
Grantsburg, WI
age: 39
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whats aex Sex...
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| 2/6/2010 6:53:51 PM |
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2rbetterthan1
Nashville, TN
age: 31
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Zcech,
How u doinnn?
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| 2/6/2010 6:53:56 PM |
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leftarian
Hermosa Beach, CA
age: 45
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If u can find me one SMOKIN' HOT GUY WHO WANTS MORE THAN SEXXX...by all means, send him my way...bcuz all I am finding r the ones...WHO WANT TO HIT IT, THEN FIND the neXXXt pu$$y 2 dump his load in.
BTW, I want one man who I can have sexXx with the REST OF MY LIFE, and in return HIM RECIPROCATE...I want the real deal...not some quick cheap thrill.
Well I can only speak for myself. I don't have any sexual hangups and I don't consider having sex with someone I like disrespectful. I'm pretty open about my life and how it operates. I'm not using anyone.
Oddly enough the biggest obstacle I have to a relationship is that I have a young child who lives with me and the time I spend with her is non-negotiable. The women I have met here tell me it's great that I am such a devoted father but then eventually get upset when I don't dump her off with a babysitter or her mother every weekend.
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| 2/6/2010 6:55:30 PM |
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rhodora
Queen Creek, AZ
age: 33
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You sound sincere with your question. If you found a woman who agreed on the first date, you found a prostitute (you need to pay her.....)Women wants to form a relationship when dating. If you got that on the first date, I betcha she's not serious......easy comes easy goes.....You reap what you sow. If it takes time for a man to have a relationship, then, it takes time for a woman to have sex, also.
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| 2/6/2010 6:57:52 PM |
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leftarian
Hermosa Beach, CA
age: 45
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I'm perfectly capable of having an FWB. I could care less about their other partners, as long as they are careful.
Being female does not automatically equate to having the same outlook.
My vagina is not made of platinum. I don't get a prize for letting it grow cobwebs. I share as I please
You really want me to fall in love with you, don't you?
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| 2/6/2010 7:00:43 PM |
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2rbetterthan1
Nashville, TN
age: 31
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Rhodora,
Just like Lulu pointed out to me that there are exceptions to the rule; there are a few women who did have sex on the first date...who wanted something more.
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Lulu,
I hope you don't take offense @ what I said. It wasn't a personal attack against you, or anything of that nature. Personally, I don't wanna have FWB relationship, bcuz I know I will want more.
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| 2/6/2010 7:04:17 PM |
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kinkycapitalist
Atlanta, GA
age: 55
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With all due respect, 2R, you are attracting the wrong men because of your approach to men, your attitude and your maturity level. I glanced at your profile and you have seven numbered paragraphs each starting with and listing DONT. You just calle Lulu a cum dumpster without knowing anything about her but what she shooses to proffer in these threads and for all you know, she is pulling all our collective and individual legs.
It is one thing to have standards but an entirely other thing to charachterize others who have different opinions as being cum dumpsters.
You state that virtually all the men you run accross just want to have bjs or sexx (I am too old to understand the difference), so perhaps, your approach isn't attracting what your looking for better than women who aren't so harsh and judgemental. Just a thought.
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| 2/6/2010 7:06:34 PM |
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susiek65
Mukwonago, WI
age: 44
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No...not OK!
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| 2/6/2010 7:06:39 PM |
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hugsnlaughter
McKeesport, PA
age: 49
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Who has sex with a stranger, first time you meet him, you don't really know him so hope, not a good idea.
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| 2/6/2010 7:12:29 PM |
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2rbetterthan1
Nashville, TN
age: 31
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I am tired of the B.S. that boyZ say to get in a gurl'z pants....Even the player who is JUST my friend...told me...that MOST men are out for SEXXX, and that is it. So, Kinky, what is your thoughts on this? Also, what approach should I take...I would like concrete examples...Thanks!
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| 2/6/2010 7:25:37 PM |
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lulu24
Conway, AR
age: 35
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No offense taken. We have different philosophies of life. There's a different relationship dynamic for me, however.
Lefty, I wish you were closer, truly. And I completely understand what you said about your little one, because I feel similarly.
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| 2/6/2010 7:35:38 PM |
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kinkycapitalist
Atlanta, GA
age: 55
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First, give a thought to not writing everything as if it were a text message to you bff. You have a masters degree so, write like you do.
Second you find excellence by being open to all potential callers and take the time and effort to read and listen, then make judgements not on sterotypes but on individuals.
You are an attractive girl who men will want to have sex with. So? That is predictable but not a bad thing. Just because we want something, doesn't mean we get it or get it when we want it. Not you and not me.
Jujitsu is the art of redirecting force away from the attacked and using the attacker's force against him/ The art of being a woman, is the same. To take the direct frontal attack of your beauty and sexuality and redirecting the man's obvious approach back at him so that he has the opportunity to become the rest of who he is. The day that men don't want to bed you in the 1st 5 minutes, is a bad day for you.
Give men a chance to be husband and father material while being propelled by their gonads. It isn't rocket science, girl. Billions of women have ended up with billions of good partners and fathers of their kids by becfoming comfortable with the power they possess to redirect men's energies.
Finally, keep your cynicism and mistrust to yourself. Fore warned is fore armed so there is no need to then fill a profile with suspicion. Any door to door salesman will tell you, the first door he hits is then one that says, "No Soliciting". You don't wont' stop bad guys with yiour Dont Test and you will drive away good guys that don't want to put up with bitterness and anger from the other guys abusing you.
Good luck
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| 2/6/2010 7:37:54 PM |
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leftarian
Hermosa Beach, CA
age: 45
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Lefty, I wish you were closer, truly. And I completely understand what you said about your little one, because I feel similarly.
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| 2/6/2010 11:38:25 PM |
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mustangwriter
Boerne, TX
age: 45
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Having sex on the first DATA???? I perceive a Fruedian slip. You want to have sex immediately with anyone who sends you information. You are an information wh*re; commonly known as an INFO HO.
[Edited 2/6/2010 11:38:53 PM PST]
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| 2/7/2010 7:19:37 AM |
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adameve
Lacombe, LA
age: 48
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Why would you want too have sex on first date? check your spirit..
But there is some thing better then sex on the first date, and its is as easy as holding hands!!!!!
What would you want from your daughter?
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| 2/7/2010 8:58:09 AM |
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lulu24
Conway, AR
age: 35
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Why would you want too have sex on first date? check your spirit..
But there is some thing better then sex on the first date, and its is as easy as holding hands!!!!!
What would you want from your daughter?
my daughter sometimes has sex on the first date, too...
i want my daughter to feel completely comfortable. i wanted her to wait until sex was right for her, until she was ready for the emotional and mental consequences. she is, and she's one smart cookie.
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| 2/7/2010 11:55:42 AM |
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adameve
Lacombe, LA
age: 48
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my daughter sometimes has sex on the first date, too...
i want my daughter to feel completely comfortable. i wanted her to wait until sex was right for her, until she was ready for the emotional and mental consequences. she is, and she's one smart cookie.
ok Thats  with me
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| 2/8/2010 6:16:53 AM |
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crazydevil
Short Hills, NJ
age: 27
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Sex on the first date is lust... What starts fast ends fast. I think there must be a defined goal in what you really want out of a date. Is it to start a friendship or something else? Do you want sex to be an expression of love or a mutually beneficial instant gratification thing. They are very different animals and should be looked at differently. Lust is instant, love takes time and patience.
I'm agree!
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| 2/8/2010 6:18:26 AM |
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xxfaux_punkxx
Belton, TX
age: 21
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It all depens on the moment. Never expect and NEVER ask for it. Just let it happen and roll with the flow.
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| 2/8/2010 6:23:15 AM |
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msugly2u
Seagrove, NC
age: 27
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Sex on the first date is lust... What starts fast ends fast. I think there must be a defined goal in what you really want out of a date. Is it to start a friendship or something else? Do you want sex to be an expression of love or a mutually beneficial instant gratification thing. They are very different animals and should be looked at differently. Lust is instant, love takes time and patience.
WELL said! Definitely agree with everything you said.
OT: To each their own, and yes, I have had sex on the first date..a couple times. Would I do it again though? No f**king way in hell.
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| 2/8/2010 8:41:59 AM |
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msbevzie
Oregon, OH
age: 46
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I am tired of the B.S. that boyZ say to get in a gurl'z pants....Even the player who is JUST my friend...told me...that MOST men are out for SEXXX, and that is it. So, Kinky, what is your thoughts on this? Also, what approach should I take...I would like concrete examples...Thanks!
I hear ya girlie...been told the same thing by a playerrrrrrrr himself "all men are after sex, the rest they don't give 2 shits about" So I say go hit it, and then go hit the next one I don't care, BUT stay the F*** away from me...
I cannot say yes or no on the first date cause IF I'm really into him I've probably talked to him for a bit anyways so if we hit it off on the first date and do IT then cool, if not then that's no biggie...
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| 2/8/2010 3:42:38 PM |
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pumpkinstar26
Rock Falls, IL
age: 27
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I had sex with my husband the first night I met him.
Attraction isn't something you put a timeframe on.
Your also divorced right? lol
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| 2/8/2010 3:43:43 PM |
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pumpkinstar26
Rock Falls, IL
age: 27
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Having sex on the first date would make me ask the question, How many other first dates is she/he having sex on?
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