Can you be too cautious? 16

1/8/2008 8:38:50 PM	Can you be too cautious?
sweetness1954 Hebron, IN age: 53	I just recieved an email from a 30 year old, wanting me to go out for a drink. I think I will be real cautious and politely refuse, my son is older!
1/8/2008 8:41:47 PM	Can you be too cautious?
trublu5ft2 Columbia, TN age: 51	My brother has always told me my biggest downfall is that I am too mistrusting. I prefer the word cautious. I have always been that way. Is it a good thing? Most of the time, that virtue has saved me heartaches... but it makes me wonder how often it may have been unjustified and what may have been if I weren't.
1/8/2008 8:46:44 PM	Can you be too cautious?
thepkk Springfield, MO age: 53	I agree with the new cute guy! No really what he said is right. And what others have said too. You can't rush things. You have to feel comfortable with this man.. If he didn't like it than to bad. I am always real careful of any man with one kid at our age. There may be those guys but the nigerans all have the same story. Widowed with a kid.
1/8/2008 9:01:31 PM	Can you be too cautious?
jan113 Downingtown, PA age: 51	exlaw~yep your correct, I had a patient who was suppose to be discharged and when he was he went to the doctors office next door and beat up the doctor and his wife, apparently looking for drugs! Everyone was coming to my room to make sure I was ok, but NEVER Told me my patient beat up the doc and his wife and was "still loose". I finally pulled the info out of security and was scared all night. I thought he was going to get me too.
1/8/2008 9:06:42 PM	Can you be too cautious?
bamabob Cullman, AL age: 55	Pitiful thing is that you simply have to be cautious and look for the signs of mistrust. I know several people with a blemished past that I'd trust more than many that I know with a spotless record. It's really bad that many very good people face rejection because of something that happened to them or they were involved in because of circumstances. Those are not the people I am cautious of. If I met a woman online who was anxious to meet me at night then I'd be suspicious and a bit wary. I've met some nuts that I sure wish I had stayed at home rather than wasted my time. Some were down right scarey. I met one girl who told me how her ex was a bad alcoholic and tried to kill her, beat her head into the floor. He was a well respected policeman. She had me scared to death because I became afraid he would use his power as a policeman to arrest me and no telling what would happen if I was in the handcuffs of a jealous drunk with a night stick and a gun....
1/8/2008 9:11:41 PM	Can you be too cautious?
drln1947 Republic, MO age: 60	I get those messages from the young ones too, what are they wanting a mother??? You can't be too cautious.
1/8/2008 9:19:50 PM	Can you be too cautious?
1mauibabe1 Lahaina, HI age: 51	thepkk OMG I didn't say he was widowed but that is just exactly what he had on profile. Maybe you have had to deal with him too?????He could not even give me the same answer to how long ago his wife died.....
1/8/2008 9:21:11 PM	Can you be too cautious?
elfiegirl Venice, FL age: 53	Well..I don't think anyone can be too cautious..."Safety first" I have heard it before and over and over, and still got stung...but not in person, thank God and my gut instinct on that! It will now take "months" before I go and meet with someone. Heck...I knew my friend Drew since last June, and finally had a chance to meet him. I felt totally comfortable...after "months" and it turned out just fine. Like others said...listen to that gut instinct..it will never steer you wrong! Peace out..............................Cindy [Edited 1/8/2008 9:22:23 PM]
1/9/2008 4:31:58 AM	Can you be too cautious?
mrsmiles4444 Culpeper, VA age: 51	and I can vouch for NY taxi drivers not having any patience. Great thing about the internet, is NO ONE, can make you do, what you don't wsnt to. be as careful as you see fit, and take heart to what exlaw has just said. There is a mad, mad, mad, mad, world out there, and the internet is a great cover, for those with ill intentions. The advice given, is from those who care for you.
1/9/2008 4:33:21 AM	Can you be too cautious?
exlaw Sneads Ferry, NC age: 51	I personally work with a direct theory....if it looks like poop, smells like poop, it must be poop, don't step in it, don't feel it and don't taste it....move on and remember where the poop lies to ensure not to encounter again..... Maintain your privacy....do not use a directly personal email address, for example I have 3 yahoo emails, I do not use my personal email for any communications with personals or chatrooms that is taboo, secondly never release your phone number to someone on the net in a personal or chat in haste, your phone number can be traced to your home address on the internet,I am leary of females who say you can call me after only a few communications online....use the yahoo or another program that allows video feed and use a computer camera and microphone.....your IP address will give anyone a city location of your internet connection....and lastly circumstance are results of choice if a person chooses to do it, then they suffer the circumstances And Bob I enjoyed a trip through Cullman, nice town, nice people, and I agree that all with tainted past are not bad people, but after 28 years of dealing with them everyday, well over 200,000 I have met, and having almost been killed in the Prisons over 5 times, I can only say this.....look at thier records and how many times they have been arrested and released before they were sentenced to go to Prison . Turn on the TV today, read the paper today, search the internet today, and I PROMISE YOU, you will read, hear, or see another woman was killed, or raped today by a MAN with a criminal record. Be not niave people, we are not living in the days of our childhoods anymore, the lifestyles of morales and values are deplenished in the American societies and we are not safe against the criminal mind or elements, this is not the 60's. Drugs, Gangs, and violence run the streets in every community in this Nation and Law Enforcement is so extremely short staffed there is no venue of change for society......tax payers do not want to pay higher taxes to hire more Police or Sheriff Deputies but are not told that the average cost, the average cost to keep a man or woman in a Prison for 1 yr is around $38,ooo.oo. The average salary of a Police Officer in $32.ooo.oo a year.....
1/9/2008 4:41:33 AM	Can you be too cautious?
wvpenni Morgantown, WV age: 55	Exlaw, we are in agreement on the safety issue. We have to be so very careful about what we say and to whom we say it . Thank you for your input on this thread. By the way,,I was joking with you with my comments yesterday, I am actually a nice person. Hope you find your dream girl here. I have found someone who just put stars in my eyes and a lilt to my step. GBU buddy
1/9/2008 4:44:36 AM	Can you be too cautious?
exlaw Sneads Ferry, NC age: 51	LOL....you're so kind, and fun....I enjoy reading you posts and your wit...Don't stop
1/9/2008 4:48:23 AM	Can you be too cautious?
wvpenni Morgantown, WV age: 55	OK exlaw, you talked me into it..
1/9/2008 7:13:53 AM	Can you be too cautious?
sugahsouth Lake City, TN age: 60	Such smart folks on here. However, gotta tell you, I am so impressed with Exlaw. All you have to do on here is....never give out any credit card info, never offer to help anyone by accepting money orders and then wiring the money to another, never give out any bank account numbers(equity loan), don't give out physical addresses(they can get them), don't give out last name(they can get them too), make sure all passwords are absolutely crazy, and talk for a long time before meeting or find references. If a man won't give you his phone number or address, beware. If a man won't send you several pictures of himself, beware. If a man never talks about jobs he had or his family, beware. There are just so many signs you can look for before you ever meet a person. No matter how careful you are, there will be some nut that gets through. So, just be sure you have an escape route. Meeting people on here can be very dangerous if you aren't prepared for fight or flight. At least he just wrote you off for not meeting him. I had one get my phone number and address(not from me). Called my house and threatened to come kill me. Guess he didn't make it. I convinced him that he would be sorry. Be careful. PS....go to FBI site. They have an internet scam report with a list of all the latest scams...most pointed at senior women or men. Check it out.

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