1/8/2008 8:47:13 PM |
what does it meen when a woman says friend after 9years? |
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bentailcat
Bakersfield, CA
age: 31
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I had a wife 4 3years and dated for 6,,,,, now all the sudden she said we should just be friends? she has a new job,, so i have an idea! what do you think?
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1/8/2008 8:50:13 PM |
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tomfreebird
Gurley, AL
age: 54
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Impossible to say what women think in general, must less one woman
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1/8/2008 8:50:40 PM |
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moonman1
Spencer, IA
age: 37
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I think it means that they need space for a while, that is my thoughts cause it happen to me today too so i say 
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1/8/2008 8:55:35 PM |
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silver_rain1011
Springfield, VA
age: 22
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She needs space (without you in it). She could believe you've grown apart and now with her new job you aren't Prime Choice anymore, she may think she can do better. It's hard to say without knowing exactly how your situation came about and the exact wording she used, including body language. If you can do that for me, I can give you a more solid opinion.
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1/8/2008 8:55:52 PM |
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dutchboy4u
Huntington Beach, CA
age: 45
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Your idea is probably correct. Hate to say it. New job, new independence, she's the new her. New her may need a new boyfriend. Was that what you were thinking? I see no other reason for her to go to just friends status. I know it hurts, but you asked.
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1/8/2008 9:00:38 PM |
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linuxian
Dunedin, FL
age: 36
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I think you're in for a long difficult time my friend. I've been there...
I wish you the best of luck. Keep your sanity, I nearly lost mine.
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1/8/2008 9:01:33 PM |
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classyguy333
West Fargo, ND
age: 57
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Maybe she suddenly feels you aren't good enough for her. Money does this to some people.
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1/8/2008 9:08:53 PM |
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sondra1968
Mackey, IN
age: 40
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Wow! wasn't aware that woman did that too. you would think that at our age that we would know these answers by now............YES i think we all do, but it does'nt get any easier facing them. expecially after you finally think you have met the love of your life.oh well...that's the way mine was anyway. Finally said sianara a few days ago.
AND LIFE GOES ON!!!! (so they say) Chin up buddy we have to hold out hope otherwise what's left?
OR..............WE COULD JUST EM!
NOPE....NOT WORTH IT!
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1/8/2008 9:29:17 PM |
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bentailcat
Bakersfield, CA
age: 31
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i think duchboy got it! well thats what i think. New job new faces )= im a decent looking guy,, and well you in the sack not bad either! crazzy, just crazzy I will give her all the space she needs buy never calling her again! its been a month and i have not tried to call once! is that a good idea? I think yes. what about you guys?
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1/8/2008 9:33:25 PM |
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bucho154
Lamar, CO
age: 35
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I hope you don't have kids with her my friend, because it does not sound good. It sound like to me she is exploring her options.
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1/8/2008 9:39:09 PM |
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bentailcat
Bakersfield, CA
age: 31
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thats what i think,,,,,,,, No kids with here though! I thought she was shifty the day i met her so i kept my guard up! ,,, doesn`t hurt as bad as i thought it would... im already looking for a woman that i feel is the one!
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1/8/2008 9:46:33 PM |
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dutchboy4u
Huntington Beach, CA
age: 45
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Hey BENT, if it's been a month since SHE has talked to you, Well you know the answer.
You need to get over her and stay positive.
Keep moving forwards in life. Try to meet new friends. Go out and meet new people. Meet some new ladies. Forget about that lady that has deserted you.
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1/8/2008 9:53:44 PM |
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dutchboy4u
Huntington Beach, CA
age: 45
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Bent, Post a photo and come join us in the forums. We all support each other here when things go bad. You may find a good lady here. Maybe... It will definitely help you get back into dating. Look in other places as well. I'm sure you will be able to find the lady of your dreams if you look. Don't give up.
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1/8/2008 9:53:50 PM |
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onlyone4me
Peoria, IL
age: 56
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She is no longer romantically interested in you. She has either already found someone else she is interested romantically in or is looking. Play the field now my friend and leave your options open until you find the one you want. Don't settle for less and/or take the next loser that needs you to build them up so they can move on and find what they really want. All the best, She wasn't worth the time or money you spent on her. Now go out and party.
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1/8/2008 10:37:16 PM |
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bentailcat
Bakersfield, CA
age: 31
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I posted a pic,,,,,, how do i put a pic in this forum?
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