| 3/5/2010 4:58:43 PM |
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redmanz
Raleigh, NC
age: 27
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Why is that the women I been running into, prefer a man thats already taken....Riddle me on this because i talked to a few women, and they said thats its convient for them...
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| 3/5/2010 5:18:44 PM |
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satinsky2
Charlotte, NC
age: 61
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Not Me!
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| 3/5/2010 8:59:23 PM |
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silver454
Hickory, NC
age: 55
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Not me. I don't like to share.
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| 3/5/2010 10:20:05 PM |
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robin39
Winston Salem, NC
age: 45
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I prefer the man I talk to be only with me I do not share my man with anyone if he is with someone else and will cheat on her with me then he will cheat on me thats how I see it plus I do not think if you are with someone you should have to compete with other women for his affection or his attention that game would get old really fast...
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| 3/6/2010 5:14:11 AM |
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msugly2u
Seagrove, NC
age: 27
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Me either. VERY selfish b**** who doesn't share well with others.
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| 3/6/2010 6:34:33 AM |
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redmanz
Raleigh, NC
age: 27
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Its good to hear that a few women dont see it like that..But believe it or not, there are woman like that around, more than you would would think..Keep it positive ladies...
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| 3/6/2010 9:53:09 AM |
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califgirl1
Martinsville, VA
age: 64
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I am sure there are men and women like that...
But I for one do not share.........
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| 3/6/2010 1:34:03 PM |
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bones01
Orange, CA
age: 61
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I'm in 100% agreement with Silver, Robin, Msugly, and Califgirl on this one!
Add another one to this list!  I call BS on it!
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| 3/6/2010 1:57:21 PM |
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newlady2
Goldsboro, NC
age: 73
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Whoaaaa add another to that list..
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| 3/6/2010 6:17:49 PM |
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onlyone1542
Hickory, NC
age: 68
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I for one will not share with another lady .
I was raised in the old school .
so I guess that is why i am still single after being a widow for almost 18 years.
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| 3/6/2010 6:36:25 PM |
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bones01
Orange, CA
age: 61
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I for one will not share with another lady .
I was raised in the old school .
so I guess that is why i am still single after being a widow for almost 18 years.
A good man won't share either!
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| 3/6/2010 6:40:01 PM |
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uxcobra
Clayton, NC
age: 33
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 AND WHATS WRONG WITH THAT
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| 3/7/2010 6:14:43 AM |
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onlyone1542
Hickory, NC
age: 68
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Thank you Bones and Seagate for your comments.
Both of you seem to be honest in your posts. 
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| 3/7/2010 7:03:59 AM |
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diane7003
Hickory, NC
age: 50
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I am a "one man woman" and I expect the same "RESPECT" in return. To me it is respect for yourself as well as womankind. 
My motto is;
"I am not settling for anything less than everything......even if it means I get nothing...............
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| 3/7/2010 9:44:34 PM |
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lady_leo6
Chase City, VA
age: 24
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i'm 1 of those that dont like to share. however i do have a girlfriend that prefers a man that is taken.  she says she's attracted to them because they are taken. she said its like their qualities have already been pre-screened and since they are taken they must be good men. i'd rather go find my own
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| 3/7/2010 10:33:20 PM |
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azfrog
Charlotte, NC
age: 63
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Add another to that list also..
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| 3/9/2010 3:30:23 PM |
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drumsrockitman
Boone, NC
age: 50
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it seems your rite on.i either have too many or none at all.i prefer ONE.i dont get it
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| 3/12/2010 1:37:58 PM |
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thats9194785503
Sanford, NC
age: 20
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its totally because most women like the trill of the "hunt" so to speak. personally, i have done it and it is pointless because they guy always goes back to the other girl.  <-- this banana kicks ass.
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| 3/12/2010 4:44:33 PM |
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hogluver55
Statesville, NC
age: 54
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My point is the woman is looling for what she is not getting at home .(just sex)!(better for the romance) Tell her she is beautiful, how sweet she is, thank her for the small things in life she does foryou, bring,her flowers (just because), cook her dinner while she relaxes in a nice wark bubble bath, and I don't think she will want to be seeking another man. Excuse me LIDIES BUT IF IS IS LOOKING FOR, DOWN HERE ITH THE SOUTH WE REFER THAT AS A HOE  
TO ALL YOU BEAUTIFUL LADIES 
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| 3/18/2010 8:42:51 PM |
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snugglyangel
Midway Park, NC
age: 57
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I agree I'll share alot of things but........my man isn't one of them!!!!!!
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| 3/21/2010 6:45:38 PM |
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ncdude84
Seagrove, NC
age: 26
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There are plenty of women who believe in monogamy and don't want to hurt anyone else's relationship. However, there are some like you say. For those, I've heard people say that they chase taken men because the fact they're taken and desired by someone else makes them seem like more of a catch. There was even an episode of Seinfeld about this in which George put a wedding band on just to attract women.
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| 3/22/2010 3:55:22 AM |
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msugly2u
Seagrove, NC
age: 27
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Ditto, nc.
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| 3/22/2010 10:28:30 AM |
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deeedeee0910
Hendersonville, NC
age: 41
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I don't know who you've been talking to, but as for me, I don't like to share or believe in cheating either. Treat others as you wish to be treated.
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| 3/22/2010 11:20:49 AM |
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msugly2u
Seagrove, NC
age: 27
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Ditto
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| 3/22/2010 7:33:40 PM |
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satinsky2
Charlotte, NC
age: 61
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Amen!
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| 3/23/2010 8:41:18 PM |
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suzuki_guy
New Bern, NC
age: 41
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It's all about the challenge. Women (and men) want what they can't have. Like others have said, when a man is "taken" he is more attractive to other women because they figure he must have his sh!t together. That's why she is with him!
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| 3/24/2010 8:30:53 AM |
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lloydfromutah
Butner, NC
age: 54
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In 1982, within a two months after I married my ex, three of the women I chased unsuccessfully while I was single hit on me...but that's just the way it goes.
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| 3/27/2010 5:51:21 AM |
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cpsmith419
Burnsville, NC
age: 39
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Not all women are like that, but the several that are do it for the thrill of the hunt. Just like when they talk about a man who has all this drama/ problems. They want to be the one to save him from himself. That would explain why women who attract "losers" end up staying with them for so long.
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| 3/27/2010 7:56:27 AM |
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sweetsmart
Greensboro, NC
age: 44
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guess they are home wrecken b...tches!!! i meet men who have women and lie cause they want what i got!!!all of them are losers
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| 3/27/2010 1:24:57 PM |
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usmc062387
Camp Lejeune, NC
age: 23
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maybe its just that if someone didn't really look at you in that way before, and see a woman having a great time with you, they start asking themselves maybe they could have been that woman. I have had some female friends turn out to be that way, but I don't run that way, it can be hard enough to keep a healthy working relationship much less try to keep more than one.
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| 3/27/2010 1:39:06 PM |
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iam2980
Jamestown, NC
age: 49
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I found the responses to this post funny when a man ends up being married to his job and a woman ends up being married to the job of raising the kids. Its not wonder there is a 50% divorce rate 
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| 3/31/2010 5:18:08 PM |
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rotsaruck
Holly Springs, NC
age: 50
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Hell, after my divorce i continued to wear my wedding band to the bars ... i was amazed at how many women would approach me!
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| 3/31/2010 5:20:25 PM |
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newlady2
Goldsboro, NC
age: 73
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Appears the women in bars were just as good/ bad as you then...
Takes one to know one ?..
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| 3/31/2010 5:33:10 PM |
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rotsaruck
Holly Springs, NC
age: 50
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Appears the women in bars were just as good/ bad as you then...
Takes one to know one ?..
I don't understand your statement.
I was newly divorced and figured the ring would keep them away. Instead, the ring seemed to entice a lot of women.
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| 3/31/2010 8:25:25 PM |
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hardrider7
Holly Springs, NC
age: 52
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Many do but for different reasons. Does keep life interesting.
I found that the wedding ring drew them in like flies when I was in my thirties when traveling alone. I stopped wearing mine then so I would be left alone. The down side to that is then the ones that don't approach married men, would approach me. I would try to work into the conversation something about my wife and they would usually get the message, sometimes getting mad but either way they would leave. LOL Can't have it both ways I guess.
Now that I am fifties the ring doesn't seam to matter as much but I do find they are even more interested when they find out I am married. Especially the younger women in their twenties and thirties. Guess that meets the basic criteria for the Sugar Daddy catch.
Just my experience.
Hardrider7
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| 4/2/2010 8:14:57 PM |
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cortezh
Simpson, NC
age: 67
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Sharing - you don't know what good things you might be missing! Sharing is not necessarily cheating.
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| 4/28/2010 9:07:22 PM |
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rider1999
Winston Salem, NC
age: 70
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Seems that most of the women on this topic don't want to share a man with another women BUT the fact is that at least 40% of married women cheat. Go figure
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| 4/29/2010 12:01:49 AM |
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altje
Kernersville, NC
age: 70
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Don't mess with married men nor have I ever cheated on a partner, but I do wonder where you get your statistics and what the percentage for men might be?
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| 4/29/2010 4:32:06 AM |
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helenkitty
Asheboro, NC
age: 60
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Any woman who dates a married man will wind up on the short end of the stick.He's always going home to his wife.and who want me play second fiddle. Not me. I date'd a guy who said he was single & found out later he was married & a player.So have found trust must be earned.Not going there again
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| 5/1/2010 1:37:01 PM |
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hollowrat
Winston Salem, NC
age: 67
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Seems that no lady has ever cheated on her partner. THAT IS A LOT OF BS. I have been all over the world. Seen everything there is to see and believe me women Want and Demand SEX AS MUCH OR MORE than men.
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| 5/1/2010 6:34:56 PM |
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helenkitty
Asheboro, NC
age: 60
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Well its takes 2 to tango thats for sure.I was just saying dont lie.Men or woman
to get what you want.the truth will come out in the end. why hurt someone by telling a lie
there are plenty of women out there who will go with a married man .So stop all the bull shit & just say your married. and get on with your life and this goes for women as well as men. BE HONEST OK.
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| 5/1/2010 7:34:50 PM |
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chazz78
Wilmington, NC
age: 65
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she must be a eskimo
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| 5/1/2010 7:34:55 PM |
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lanky33
Winston Salem, NC
age: 60
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Honesty is definitely needed here. My ex-husband cheated and left me for another woman over twenty years ago. I met a man and did not know tha the was married but he treated me with so much respect and for over 18 years I ran from him because I did not his wife to go through with the hurt and pain that I went thru. However, at a later time in my life we connected, off and on, and the mere fact of the dishonesty to myself and not having him when I really needed him caused me to wake up and to let go. We can wish, hope and dream about life being complete, but truth is truth!
I do not believe that my actions were right, morally; however, I wanted it to be loved and appreciated as well.
Accepting the wrongs that we have done in our life will cause us more pain than being happy for a short period of time.
Stay true to yourself and continue to look for that one, eligible, available person! But, most of all continue to believe in Yourself!
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| 5/2/2010 1:46:54 AM |
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mikey_31
Nebo, NC
age: 31
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I have been in that situation before when I was married. I kindly declined the offer because I am a one woman kind of guy. I guess its like a challenge I suppose. *shrug*
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| 5/2/2010 12:09:12 PM |
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hollowrat
Winston Salem, NC
age: 67
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I was in the same place as you: My BEST FRIENDS wife made it abundently clear that she wanted me in bed with her. I would have died before I betrayed my friend in such a way. His wife actually stopped speaking to me after that unless he and I were together. SAD SITUATION to be in
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| 5/2/2010 1:09:40 PM |
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hollowrat
Winston Salem, NC
age: 67
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I have looked back on some of the women who ABSOLUTELY would not share a man with another woman and have found that several of them are DIVORCED. Wonder why that is.................Guess their husbands cheated with SINGLE WOMEN ONLY and they were TOTALLY TRUE. 
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| 5/2/2010 3:21:32 PM |
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adanceintherain
Jacksonville, NC
age: 57
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When I am in a committed relationship I DO NOT share, but if I have not made that promise, I consider dating ok. However, I will not move in on someone else's man. I don't want to be with anyone who wants to be with someone else. I don't like drama so its best to stay away from someone who is taken.
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| 5/4/2010 2:00:38 PM |
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jyoho12
Richlands, NC
age: 53
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I just as soon the drama stay on TNT they do it pretty good. I am a one women man and like to keep it that way. Don't mind conversations a pat on the back those sort of things but as far as bed room time NOPE I got one an like it.
Now what I have seen while in the service many of the younger women would go after the more senior officers or SNCO. The sugar daddy thing, yes some of then guys went along with and I know a few of them and there other half sometimes found out. So that ended in some cases a marriage maybe made out of convenience I don't no. By he time I got up there they were staying with in there own age group so left out in the cold once again. Along the way I found who I wanted and have had s good life. Yes it has had it bad spots and some great ones as well but we will get through them you bet. 
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| 5/4/2010 2:40:08 PM |
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newlady2
Goldsboro, NC
age: 73
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I am Always reading of Relationships.. Dang.. I was married twice and that was happiness for me. while they lived..
And people running around are not just miliary affiliated !!..
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| 5/5/2010 9:40:07 AM |
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lanky33
Winston Salem, NC
age: 60
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Okay, I have just accepted that it is NOT okay to be in a relationship with someone else's man.
Willing to wait on my one and only!
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| 5/5/2010 9:43:38 PM |
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april4u
Raleigh, NC
age: 50
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Thats because if you're taken honey they don't have to worry about committment and you trippin on them. Especially if they want to see other people and are not ready to settle down. In a way it makes them feel safe, like they don't have to be worried about the responsibility of a relationship
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| 5/5/2010 9:47:01 PM |
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april4u
Raleigh, NC
age: 50
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Some people prefer someone who is taken because its a challange to them to see if they can take away what you got sounds crazy but hey thats how they put it out there. Me I prefer one man only and he has to be single
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| 5/9/2010 9:39:26 AM |
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itsalreadtaken
Bladenboro, NC
age: 36
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its because most women are just b*tches who dont know how to leave other womens men along trouble maker theres a name for them homewreckers and theres a few of on this site to but i want give no names they know who they are
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| 5/18/2010 6:19:35 PM |
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michaelb4562
Salemburg, NC
age: 49 online now!
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My wife had an affair with my sisters husband that lasted for around five years. I wonder if people think about all the family and friends thats gonna get hurt due to these affairs.
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| 5/19/2010 2:45:54 PM |
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lookin4funinnc
Jacksonville, NC
age: 31
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Because women like to try to get what they cant have. And all who say they are a one man woman means they will take a man that is already taken........right away from who he is with
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| 5/31/2010 8:14:59 AM |
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jim173
Raleigh, NC
age: 45
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One of the 1st things I learned about this area when I came down here over 15 years ago was Married don't mean crap.....
It was so bad I had to stop wearing my wedding ring, it was crazy.
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| 5/31/2010 2:16:14 PM |
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jubilee32
Charlotte, NC
age: 32
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I dont like to share...and he wouldnt have the time...he gonna be busy...lol..im jokin..not.
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| 5/31/2010 2:31:06 PM |
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tazzzzzzzzz
Newport, NC
age: 46
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sex is not the only determinant of whether or not a woman will stray. She may be running low on the emotional quotient side, and she may be lacking in reassurances from her spouse. Very few men realize that a woman needs to be wooed – courted – charmed – frequently. All the sweet nothings you used to whisper in her ear can’t stop after you put the wedding band on her finger. You see, she may be your wife on the marriage certificate, but emotionally, she’s a gonner. You should be aware of where her mind wanders.Love her more today than you did yesterday.
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| 5/31/2010 4:28:37 PM |
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1cowgirl_4_u
Largo, FL
age: 42
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sex is not the only determinant of whether or not a woman will stray. She may be running low on the emotional quotient side, and she may be lacking in reassurances from her spouse. Very few men realize that a woman needs to be wooed – courted – charmed – frequently. All the sweet nothings you used to whisper in her ear can’t stop after you put the wedding band on her finger. You see, she may be your wife on the marriage certificate, but emotionally, she’s a gonner. You should be aware of where her mind wanders.Love her more today than you did yesterday.
GEEZ TAZ! You do listen! WOW! What was your X thinking?
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| 5/31/2010 10:07:44 PM |
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jim173
Raleigh, NC
age: 45
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Because they are screwed up in the head and always think the grass is greener on the other side of the fence. 
They think they are bored and listen too much to their screwed up friends, watch way too much reality TV and buy into all that BS in those women's magazines.
If they would stop for 10 seconds and think about something other than themselves and what they want and consider what someone else might think or want they might be better off.
They seem to have the misconception that it's all about them and the world revolves around them....
They are wrong...
[Edited 5/31/2010 10:09:43 PM ]
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