3/6/2010 2:17:58 PM |
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eviem
West Union, SC
age: 51
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Have you ever felt that you arent good looking enough for the man or woman who viewed you but just passed you by?
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3/6/2010 2:19:38 PM |
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i_am_bill
Astatula, FL
age: 50
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Why?
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3/6/2010 2:21:04 PM |
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arkansasnman
Fayetteville, AR
age: 47
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no
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3/6/2010 2:21:05 PM |
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earthygirl68
Independence, KS
age: 41
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Many times...or rich enough, or young enough, or thin enough...poop happens.
Someone somewhere will love you for exactly who and what you are. Don't settle for anything less.
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3/6/2010 2:25:05 PM |
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littlerandyinfl
Yalaha, FL
age: 30
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Many times...or rich enough, or young enough, or thin enough...poop happens.
Someone somewhere will love you for exactly who and what you are. Don't settle for anything less.
Not true, the older you get the odds of finding someone diminishes rapidly. You might have to settle.
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3/6/2010 2:26:44 PM |
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neenerneener
Beaumont, CA
age: 34
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Nah why would I be interested in someone who isnt interested in me?
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3/6/2010 2:27:43 PM |
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barrydean
Springville, UT
age: 42
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Not true, the older you get the odds of finding someone diminishes rapidly. You might have to settle.
i dont give a shit, i will look at some of there profiles and think good, they passed me by.
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3/6/2010 2:30:52 PM |
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arkansasnman
Fayetteville, AR
age: 47
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Have you ever felt that you arent good looking enough for the man or woman who viewed you but just passed you by?
We are who we are and have no control over others.
If they like us........cool; we might match.
The struggle after rejection is a different chapter.
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3/6/2010 2:32:51 PM |
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earthygirl68
Independence, KS
age: 41
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Then I'll just have to be alone. I'm not settling, I've been in ambivalent relationships before. Made me want to blow my brains out. If I can't have mutual love and passion, I'll just have to deal without any of it. I refuse to give up hope though, damn it!
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3/6/2010 2:33:49 PM |
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mate4uheart
Walhalla, SC
age: 57 online now!
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"Sure", but I don't know why, you women don't reply to emails or anything at all like
you are waiting for the "Perfect" man of your dreams to come along, so we just quit
asking..........!!!
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3/6/2010 2:36:20 PM |
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hardtwist
Crawford, NE
age: 41
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Have you ever felt that you arent good looking enough for the man or woman who viewed you but just passed you by?
Yup. I'm so homely, I once made a BNSF coal train divert.....and take a dirt road
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3/6/2010 2:55:25 PM |
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sherri_
Erlanger, KY
age: 49
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Have you ever felt that you arent good looking enough for the man or woman who viewed you but just passed you by?
Sure. My gold standard in everything is perfection and I am always full aware of my place relative that (which is not at all to say that I *expect* perfection in any area).
What I think you're really asking is, "did I *care*"?
No. Why would I care what some guy I don't even know and may never be interested in romantically thinks about my appearance? I plainly see *his* position relative perfection, too.
As long as my relationship partner makes me aware that *he* thinks I'm sexy, it's all good. Better than good. Folks *can* be intensely physically attractive to their partners in spite of their imperfections (and sometimes because of them).
In SMV Theory (sexual market value), when a guy or gal does what you're talking abou and have *plainly* priced themselves over their true market value, it cracks me up. A lot
(translation: think they're all that and a bag of chips and *want* all that, a bag of chips and dessert....when really, they're only a half-that with no chips)
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3/6/2010 3:03:53 PM |
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lightning47
North Battleford, SK
age: 52
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Have you ever felt that you arent good looking enough for the man or woman who viewed you but just passed you by?
It may not have anything to do with looks. Maybe just not a match in their eyes.
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3/6/2010 3:04:56 PM |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
age: 51
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No, never thought that. People browse through profiles, they may never have had any intention of emailing, they're just looking to see what's out there. Or maybe something caught their eye, but it was just momentary.
I just don't worry about it. I do the same thing. It has nothing to do with thinking they're not good looking enough.
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3/6/2010 3:13:38 PM |
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josh_p
Los Angeles, CA
age: 23
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I feel like that ALL the time.
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3/6/2010 3:20:25 PM |
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ilovemyjob
Frankfort, KY
age: 56
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I feel like that alot. Granted I'm no raving beauty but I've been told that I'm a goodlooking woman. I don' post my pic in case my ex comes in here but I've sent my pics to a couple of guys. One said I was attractive and wholesome. #2 never responded at all. It's OK if I'm not the "type" a guy is looking for but come on some kind of reply would have been nice.
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3/6/2010 4:05:58 PM |
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ladybugbp
Pittsburgh, PA
age: 51
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I am not a beauty queen but no, I don't feel I'm not good looking enough.
Many times...or rich enough, or young enough, or thin enough...poop happens.
Someone somewhere will love you for exactly who and what you are. Don't settle for anything less.
No matter how "pretty" someone is, how "rich" someone is, how "young" someone is, how "funny" someone is, etc. There will always be someone who is prettier, richer, younger, or funnier ..... and that's okay, that's life.
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3/6/2010 4:31:04 PM |
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suann29
Miami, FL
age: 49
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Hi Op
Maybe I am wrong but I think when you wrote this thread you were just asking a question. It didn't mean you felt that way or whatever...but to answer your question...
I have not felt that I was not good looking enough for someone but I have wondered why people "view my profile" but do not say anything.
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3/6/2010 4:32:09 PM |
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east25
Boston, MA
age: 32
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No. Perhaps they aren't interested in dating at the current moment and are just seeing what's out there. Or they weren't interested for some other reason. Age, distance etc
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3/6/2010 4:33:15 PM |
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torisdad
Louisville, KY
age: 42
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On a moonless night, I look damned good!!
[Edited 3/6/2010 4:33:40 PM PST]
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3/6/2010 4:48:37 PM |
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3dchocolate
Jonesboro, AR
age: 44
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i dont give a shit, i will look at some of there profiles and think good, they passed me by.
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3/6/2010 5:11:00 PM |
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moon2010
Whittier, CA
age: 48
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You tell me, I feel great for being old.
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3/6/2010 5:49:37 PM |
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elprimo41
Paterson, NJ
age: 42
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Well,when I glance threw the profiles I see huge selection of beautiful women. The problem is they're too far to reach.
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3/6/2010 6:18:01 PM |
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bbw47reader
Frederick, MD
age: 47
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It's possible. It's also possible that they are not interested because I'm too tall, I smoke, have no car, don't make enough money, use too many big words, don't like country music, etc.
Even if I know it's my appearance - I got over feeling bad about that a looooooong time ago. It helps to know beyond a shadow of a doubt that there are very attractive men out there that are very attracted to me.
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3/6/2010 6:29:42 PM |
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mobarter
Chicago, IL
age: 26
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I am not what you would call a handsome man. The good Lord did not choose to bless me with good looks, charm, athletic ability, or a fully functional brain, but i get by.
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3/6/2010 6:36:40 PM |
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awiata
Monroe, NC
age: 36
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It's possible. It's also possible that they are not interested because I'm too tall, I smoke, have no car, don't make enough money, use too many big words, don't like country music, etc.
Even if I know it's my appearance - I got over feeling bad about that a looooooong time ago. It helps to know beyond a shadow of a doubt that there are very attractive men out there that are very attracted to me.
i think i love you. i like tall women.
i also love smokers breath.
i have pleanty of cars.
i dont need any money, hell i burn mine so i dont have to chop wood.
i dont care about the big words because im not listening anyway.
i hate country music, enough said you won me over right there!
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3/6/2010 6:41:47 PM |
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snobirdok
Mulberry, AR
age: 48
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How good I look depends on how good you look!
Lots of times I will look at a profile and it will say, no smokers please, I party every night, ect. I just move on.
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3/6/2010 6:50:54 PM |
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bbw47reader
Frederick, MD
age: 47
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i think i love you. i like tall women.
i also love smokers breath.
i have pleanty of cars.
i dont need any money, hell i burn mine so i dont have to chop wood.
i dont care about the big words because im not listening anyway.
i hate country music, enough said you won me over right there!
Come and get me, baby!
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3/6/2010 6:56:08 PM |
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navygirl1xx
Calgary, AB
age: 49
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"Have you ever felt that you arent good looking enough for the man or woman who viewed you but just passed you by?"
Yes I have felt that I wasn't good looking enough for the person that passed me by. However, I try not to let it bother me as we all have different tastes in what we are looking for.
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3/6/2010 6:58:53 PM |
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awiata
Monroe, NC
age: 36
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where do i take the left?
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3/6/2010 7:02:46 PM |
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bbw47reader
Frederick, MD
age: 47
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where do i take the left?
Just start heading north. I'll flag you down!
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3/6/2010 7:03:52 PM |
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leftarian
Hermosa Beach, CA
age: 46
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Nope. Jessica Alba hasn't perved me yet.
[Edited 3/6/2010 7:04:40 PM PST]
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3/6/2010 7:36:32 PM |
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cinthianna01
Goshen, IN
age: 90
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Yes, I cry myself to sleep every night, fighting to slash my face with a broken piece of mirror because of all the profile rejections.
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3/6/2010 7:46:34 PM |
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akasha__
Sparrows Point, MD
age: 23
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I use to wonder that but not any more .If a guy dont like me the way I look an the way I am,,,then I dont want nothin to do with him
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3/6/2010 7:56:11 PM |
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openhart
Salt Lake City, UT
age: 46
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I got no charger, no crown and my lance is only average. Nope I am not anyones prince charming.
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3/6/2010 7:59:34 PM |
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cowboyupphx
Prescott, AZ
age: 44
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Well on a scale 1-too-1000 somewhere in the teens And on a good day
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3/6/2010 8:18:34 PM |
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bellashartbeat
Longmont, CO
age: 45
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Not true, the older you get the odds of finding someone diminishes rapidly. You might have to settle.
I don't think so...The older I get, The more fantastic and breathtaking I am...and the much much more I want.
And that's not even counting my gorgeous face and flowing full hair, and killer curves.
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3/6/2010 8:21:38 PM |
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leftarian
Hermosa Beach, CA
age: 46
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Pretty^^^^
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3/6/2010 8:24:19 PM |
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sasha_flows
Bronx, NY
age: 28
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you look good girl
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3/6/2010 8:26:07 PM |
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josh_p
Los Angeles, CA
age: 23
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How good do I look? I look like shit.
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3/6/2010 8:30:21 PM |
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bellashartbeat
Longmont, CO
age: 45
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Awwww...thanks...just trying to get Little to eat his words....LOL...that's all.
(getting compliments didn't hurt, either)
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3/6/2010 8:30:57 PM |
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cinthianna01
Goshen, IN
age: 90
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Woot! Woot!
Go Bella Go! You're totally hot!
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3/6/2010 8:35:46 PM |
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bellashartbeat
Longmont, CO
age: 45
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Woot! Woot!
Go Bella Go! You're totally hot!
Thanks Baby...all for you, sweetum. I had to doll up and take pics so you guys still remember I exist, in spit of my on and off absences.
But babe...I can't EVER compete with you...My Cin Rocks!!!!! All the way!!!...All the time!!!
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3/6/2010 9:01:38 PM |
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cinthianna01
Goshen, IN
age: 90
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Hahah...whatever! I can't hold a candle to that EXOTIC look your rockin'...
I gotta work the farm girl angle,..and pray, they don't know anything about what some of those chicks really do, or Totally hot, goes to totally akward, ain't freakin' happening, in no time!
But, I do love women who go all out for me,...It makes me want to scream sweet nothings from the rafters.
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3/6/2010 9:14:06 PM |
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lightning47
North Battleford, SK
age: 52
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Hahah...whatever! I can't hold a candle to that EXOTIC look your rockin'...
I gotta work the farm girl angle,..and pray, they don't know anything about what some of those chicks really do, or Totally hot, goes to totally akward, ain't freakin' happening, in no time!
But, I do love women who go all out for me,...It makes me want to scream sweet nothings from the rafters.
Nice pic cin. Crap, I think I got something happening down there. Great! Now what?
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3/6/2010 9:15:57 PM |
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garyguitar01
Franklin, NJ
age: 54
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No, what I lack in looks, I make up for in charm.
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3/6/2010 9:17:57 PM |
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garyguitar01
Franklin, NJ
age: 54
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Looking good there, Cin.
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3/6/2010 9:18:33 PM |
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crzyblubttrfly
Fort Smith, AR
age: 51
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Better than some worse than others!!
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3/6/2010 9:20:26 PM |
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awiata
Monroe, NC
age: 36
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Better than some worse than others!!
as good as any there honey
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3/6/2010 9:25:28 PM |
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cinthianna01
Goshen, IN
age: 90
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Better than some worse than others!!
Only few could ever compete....not win, just compete, i'm ever envious of the natural curls!
Thanks Lightening and Gary!
And lightening, I hear if you use the left hand, with a lot of effort, it's just like.....
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3/6/2010 9:27:46 PM |
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ladyvirtue1955
Magalia, CA
age: 54
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Have you ever felt that you arent good looking enough for the man or woman who viewed you but just passed you by?
Nope..I'm not concerned about that what so ever..curiosity in looking at a profile doesn't always imply interest..
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3/6/2010 10:07:13 PM |
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bellashartbeat
Longmont, CO
age: 45
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But, I do love women who go all out for me,...It makes me want to scream sweet nothings from the rafters.
Baby...I am salivating now...who are you calling Hot?...You are the crown holder of our kingdom here...Any man (or woman) who is not madly in love with that beautiful, amazing, uniquely awe striking, woman that you are, must be blind and dumb....(oh yeah, of course that beautiful face and those lucsious curves of yours don't hurt either).
I am so honored to have you as a friend.
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3/6/2010 10:11:23 PM |
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crzyblubttrfly
Fort Smith, AR
age: 51
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@ Awiata and Cin. I like this being sweet to the elderly. Thanks you guys!!
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3/6/2010 10:17:43 PM |
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zipperlynn
Porterville, CA
age: 39
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If I know someone kicked me to the curb because of how I looked (my halloween date), I figure I'm lucky because I don't want anyone that superficial in my life anyhow!
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3/6/2010 10:19:42 PM |
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hugsnlaughter
McKeesport, PA
age: 49
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Yeah I feel like that a lot but I can't expect someone to contact me if they are not intereted so oh well.
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3/7/2010 5:08:54 AM |
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eviem
West Union, SC
age: 51
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I liked your answer, I sometimes feel the same way ty for your in put
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3/7/2010 5:11:08 AM |
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honestami
Ravenna, OH
age: 54
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All The Time,,why?
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3/7/2010 8:47:56 AM |
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dghorn
Assiniboia, SK
age: 46
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No just to far away
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3/7/2010 11:12:02 AM |
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peaches1963
Marshalltown, IA
age: 46
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I don't think that that's the case. I think that for the most part, people are looking for someone who has simialar intrests, and sound like they have something in common. you cant chat with everyone on here ( unfortunately, not enough hours in the day for that! LOL!)
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3/7/2010 11:16:52 AM |
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dinkasu48
Henderson, TX
age: 49
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Have you ever felt that you arent good looking enough for the man or woman who viewed you but just passed you by?
all the time...
or skinny enough
or athletic enough
but mainly not young looking enough
I know when I was younger, I was considered..lol.. HOT
but now that I am older.. I am a "not"
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