| 1/11/2008 4:29:59 AM |
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bdiane30
Tulsa, OK
age: 31
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I met a really great guy, we talked online and on the phone for about 2 weeks, we decided to meet. It was awesome, he is a perfect gentleman. Very affectionate. We hit it off great. Lots of hugs, kisses, affection lets just say. So he has kids and so do I. So we decided to take them to the park to see how things go with them. It went great, they play well together. Even talked on the phone afterwards. So we see each other a few more times. Talk everyday on the phone. Last time i talked to him, me and the kids went to his place. Had a great time, he promises to take my son hunting with his boys. Kids are exstatic. We go home, and he is very honest with me and tells me that he really likes me a lot and sees this going somewhere and forwarns me that he knows he can fall for me quick. So I am thinking everything is going great!!! I get home he calls to make sure I made it home safe. We talk for about an hour everything positive. He tells me he will miss me tomorrow and he will call later that evening as he has lots of things to do after work. So next day comes and i dont hear from him at all, then the next day. nothing, I have called him, no one answers, He does not have caller id so i dont think he is purposely avoiding my calls or else no one will be able to talk to him. He has not been online during this time either and he is always online. So what do you think is the problem, 3 days now and nothing. I am getting a little concerned that maybe something is wrong. I am hoping that it is not a blow off, but i would have never seen it coming. We are truelly great together. So tell me guys what would make you do this to a woman you really liked? And do you think it would be too much to run by his house and leave a note? I dont want to seem stalkish or nothing but I would like to know whats going on and know that he is ok! What do you think I should do?
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| 1/11/2008 4:32:51 AM |
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alkv26
Manotick, ON
age: 35
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he could just be really busy with work I get that way sometimes
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| 1/11/2008 4:37:02 AM |
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holdinpanama
Panama City, FL
age: 44
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go by his house leave a note if you know some of his friends call them see if they know anything keep trying to call but just about everybody i know has an answering machine.not trying to hurt you but he may have played you to get what he wanted and then gone.they are people out there like that you noticed i didn't say men women play the same games i hope i am wrong if he cares about you like he said he did i know i would be calling i hope for the best for you.
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| 1/11/2008 4:39:58 AM |
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truthfulheart
Clarksville, TN
age: 51
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well he could be having peoblems with family , his kids and he mayy be sick. There are a lot of things that coud be going on. I know he should be a man and call one way or another and let u know.Give him a few more days and then if no responce kick it to the curb
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| 1/11/2008 4:40:39 AM |
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bdiane30
Tulsa, OK
age: 31
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Well i have been to his house and I know he does not have an answering machine, he is pretty basic with that stuff, no cell, just plain phone line and internet. but thank you for the advice. I may go by this weekend to check. I just dont want to seem stalkish or anything.
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| 1/11/2008 4:44:51 AM |
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striker29527
London, KY
age: 45
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your concern sounds genuine, to me. I suggest that you DO run by his house just to drop a note or check on him.
for it to seem stalkish would be to do it at all hours day or night all the time. if he happens to be there when you drop by, just be honest and explain that you were concernedand assure him that you aren't trying to pressure him into anything.
tell the truth, that you are developing feelings for him as well (more than just friendship). but you just wanted to make sure that he hadn't fallen off the roof or anything
just take it one step at a time and use the humor of life too.
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| 1/11/2008 4:55:55 AM |
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bdiane30
Tulsa, OK
age: 31
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Yes I think I will do that, He did tell me that I am welcome to come over anytime I want.
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| 1/11/2008 5:07:51 AM |
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striker29527
London, KY
age: 45
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then do so this very afternoon. if nothing else, just drop aff a single rose and note for him saying that you were thinking of him.
with many of us men, we like the "rose for no particular reason" surprises more than some women do.
try it and good luck
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