1/13/2008 4:37:28 PM |
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shawnraylee
Edmond, OK
age: 37
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LOOKING FOR A DATE OR SOMEONE TO TALK ON THE PHONE WITH
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1/13/2008 4:51:49 PM |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 46
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Do a search. No need to advertise. To some this would sound desparate. Come into the other threads and post your views or comments. This way you get to know others and we get to know you. One way to meet the special woman who you found has the same common views or interest. Go on ... you know you want too
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1/13/2008 7:09:39 PM |
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shawnraylee
Edmond, OK
age: 37
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Well I am verry desprate... Tired of beimg alone with my ugly ass!!!
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1/13/2008 8:00:31 PM |
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that_wd_b_me
Essex Junction, VT
age: 49
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If I were you I would edit all trace of your desperation from this thread and abandon it.Nothing drives women away like desperation.Cb has the right idea,post to the threads and whatnot.Use the search thing and introduce yourself around as well,also.just don't take it to heart when some don't respond.
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1/13/2008 9:07:11 PM |
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optimuspilman
Minneapolis, MN
age: 36
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why is it that everytime that i wink at a women that i would like to get to know the winks are deleted almost right away?
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1/14/2008 11:47:45 AM |
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bigeasy741
Bay, AR
age: 45
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It is hard being single.I find it hard with on line dating, I have only met one person in a 9 month period. It makes me wonder if I am attractive or not, but I do not let it get to me. I would rather be alone than with somebody that does not like me.There are a lot of things I'd like to do but do not like going alone. I get frustrated with women that want to be with you if you are furnishing them drugs, money, gifts or whatever to get them to stay around. You will find very few on the up and up, and I haven't been able to get a good one yet.
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1/14/2008 12:00:46 PM |
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bluesls53
Chattanooga, TN
age: 54
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If you don't feel good about yourself, don't expect to draw a crowd. We're all here looking for positive experiences, no matter how they actually turn out, with the ultimate goal being finding the person we think we can spend the rest of our life with. If you have to be carried from the start.....you will inevitably be dropped on your ass. Work on your attitude about where you are today and where you want to go, then be true to yourself.
As far as winks........if I responded to all the winks I receive, I wouldn't be able to answer the wonderful emails from those who took the time to make a personal introduction. So yes, they get deleted without thought unless you are already someone I correspond with. Then I wink back
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1/14/2008 2:06:44 PM |
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shawnraylee
Edmond, OK
age: 37
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well i am just stright fowerd why beat around the bush and women are the ones that tell me i am ugly so i her it so mumch i belive it
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1/14/2008 4:56:06 PM |
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lawrence084
Honolulu, HI
age: 40
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Do something about it. Go to a gym. Take up a sport. Be more healthly. Dress better. Find a place to frequent regularly so women get to know your personality not your looks.
There are a hundreds of ways to build self esteem, which will make women look and listen to you and by pass looks.
Number 1 rule. Women do not have looks on the top of their list.
I have friends who have very attractive gf/spouse and guys are shocked and often ask me "How in the world did "HE" get that"...It is because they have great personailty and they know a little bit about everything and most of all they can hold a great conversation with just about anyone they meet.
Hint: Creativity goes a long way with online dating. Depression, low self esteem, pressivism, doesn't go far at all.
[Edited 1/14/2008 4:56:55 PM]
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1/14/2008 5:03:09 PM |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 46
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I've been on this site for almost a year but I am not gonna settle just for anyone. I'm not looking for misery. My main purpose is to find a soulmate and if I meet friends along the way of my quest then that is cool too
Good post by the way lawrence084
[Edited 1/14/2008 5:04:14 PM]
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1/15/2008 8:19:55 AM |
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sadiegrace
Santa Fe, NM
age: 57
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Meeting new people, sharing stories and hopefully gaining insight about what I did wrong and what I did right and how to make better choices in the future is what I am hoping to garner from these discussions.
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1/15/2008 8:25:11 AM |
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nashoba_miko
Bethany, OK
age: 38
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Depressing self loathing is NOT the way to get someone to talk to you.
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