| 1/13/2008 6:36:13 PM |
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gammatx
Ennis, TX
age: 48
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I've been sending mail to 2 guys here and kind of interested in both. They both winked first....We have been sending messages back and forth for about 3-4 day's now and it seemed to be going well with both, Just your typical get to know you stuff. The last I sent was a simple just thought I'd say Hi and hows your day going? even sent one a friends request.......never heard back???? I see that both have read the mail and they both have been online..... I didn't think I was being to pushy just being the nice, friendly person that I am.
Should I just blow them off or wait a few days and give them a wink?????
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| 1/13/2008 6:45:13 PM |
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kristykay77
Newnan, GA
age: 30
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It happens to me all the time. I think that they probably meet someone out somewhere. Some get antsy just talking to you on the computer all the time I believe. If they get an opportunity with someone else to go out with them then I guess it is not very interesting just talking to you on the computer.
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| 1/13/2008 6:49:29 PM |
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linuxian
Dunedin, FL
age: 36
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That happens to me all the time too. I haven't had a lot of luck with online dating in general.
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Yes, too. Thanks
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[Edited 1/13/2008 9:50:09 PM]
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| 1/13/2008 6:50:35 PM |
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mrcmore
Peekskill, NY
age: 35
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TOO
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| 1/13/2008 6:51:39 PM |
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slingblade69
Mantua, NJ
age: 37
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thats makes no sense to me kristy! your a good looking girl!
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| 1/13/2008 6:51:56 PM |
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kellyleed
Sumter, SC
age: 35
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Give them a few days to respond
I may read but don't always answer the same day to an email even
with someone I have been chatting with for a few days
Good Luck
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| 1/14/2008 11:25:21 AM |
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bigeasy741
Bay, AR
age: 45
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You are not alone. I find it hard to use online dating or to message people. I've tried being aggressive ant the polite type, Still makes no difference to the people on the other side. 
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| 1/14/2008 11:48:09 AM |
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bluesls53
Chattanooga, TN
age: 54
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Life happens when you've already made plans and sometimes, (because you're curious), you use what little time you have to check your mail, but don't have enough time to answer during the same sitting. Don't sweat it.
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| 1/14/2008 12:35:10 PM |
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gammatx
Ennis, TX
age: 48
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Thanks one and all but I have to wonder what ever happened to a little consideration. I respond to all mail and winks even if Im not interested.
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| 1/14/2008 5:02:25 PM |
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klovet
Sacramento, CA
age: 52
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Not at all. I have had the same thing happen and i started really thinking, wow, this could be it. But like you said, it only lasted maybe three days or so. Don't feel bad, just keep on doing what your doing. I think what it could be is that somebody else caught their attention or sometimes guys just don't have a whole lot to say.
Don't give up!
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| 1/14/2008 5:07:14 PM |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 46
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I wouldn't center my entire time on one guy until he makes it known that he is interested otherwise you might be waiting forever and that's a long time. If I don't get a return correspondence then I keep doing what I've always been doing ... posting in the forums 
[Edited 1/14/2008 5:07:53 PM]
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| 1/14/2008 5:10:47 PM |
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stellablu
Saint Louis, MO
age: 49
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hey chopper.... totally
Keep being yourself, make friends.
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| 1/14/2008 11:52:53 PM |
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mezentiangate
Fairplay, CO
age: 55
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Gamma when you're in for the long haul like i am, i often consider that i'm gonna take a few months, even till summer or fall before i think of going to meet anyone, unless they wanna come here, that's fine, but ive a lot of work to do, especially on my head and on my new career. so as i write to my friends, it sometimes happens there is a flurry of mail, then nothing for a few days
I am paranoid of being 'stalk-ative' so if someone doesn't answer in ten minutes and i know theyve seen it, i log off and go do something useful for a few hours or days, like walking the dog, going to work, fixing my car, going to the natural hot springs up the road and soaking my head in hot water
I dont think winks are useful, ultimatums are probably bad form, and fear in the human male is an unmeasurable quality, ergo, it is their loss, and maybe they saved you some grief in the long run
[Edited 1/14/2008 11:54:58 PM]
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| 1/15/2008 1:30:46 AM |
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collide64
Janesville, WI
age: 43
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Hell I'd just like to get some mail, I'm tired of girls and yes they look like girls from china writing me. 
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| 1/15/2008 9:09:03 AM |
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sharrief
New York, NY
age: 38
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well lets see if you looked and seen they both read the email and didnt respond when it only takes a fraction of A SECOND TO DO JUST THAT , I GUESS YOU CAN LOOK AT IT BOTH WAYS NEGATIVE OR POSITIVE , i on the other hand am quick to throw in the towel , its real simple the time you took to read it is not the same amount of time to respond , but you gotta follow gut instinct , and remember the same ppl you meet on the street are the same ppl here its just more convient
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