1/14/2008 1:45:46 AM |
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like_i_need_one
Bishop, CA
age: 39
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what is your perfect idea of someone making the first move?
for friendship, a date, a joke to break the ice? etc.
give us clueless folks a chance.
I don't know what a lifted eyebrow is suppose to mean as a signal.
so maybe what signal would you like to see and why, or what it means to you.
I have to say blunt is best for me.
"are you seeing anybody?" or "would you like to go to dinner?"
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1/14/2008 1:53:18 AM |
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knotreel
Belvidere, NC
age: 35
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i do the caveman..
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1/14/2008 3:01:46 AM |
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dannachanna
Des Moines, IA
age: 57
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Do you offer them a piece of raw meat then? Would that work...
Where you been, out there digging a cave?
If a guy just comes up and gives my butt a good squeezzzzz, that works for me, then that's a pretty good signal, like in the grocery store for example...
[Edited 1/14/2008 3:06:32 AM]
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1/14/2008 6:33:26 AM |
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ucc
Azalea, OR
age: 52
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When a gal squezzzzes my ass it's always a good thing i just never no witch gal hopes im going to do such a thing or is going to let me get away with that .
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1/14/2008 6:54:44 AM |
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sondra1968
Mackey, IN
age: 40
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To you need: First of all the little emicons kinda speak for themselves don't you truely agree. I think the problem there is that sometimes we just are not for sure what to say even after someone sends one. For example: you said the winking eye? would be no different than you sitting across the room from a lady and winking at her. If she turns away and never looks back then what's that tell ya? If she smiles back and maybe a little blushed, what's that tell ya. Come on sir, go over to her and ask if she minds if you sit beside her,then little questions at a time to see if you even click at all before asking her out. A big turn off to me would be "Hey baby, whatta say we go out tonite for dinner" OR there's this one of course "Hey mamma, you look like the meat that's missing in my taco." COME ON MAN!!!! you are not really that naive. I'm not trying to sound harsh but you asked and this is only my opinion of course, probably not all woman i'm sure. Here is a quote my Dad always said: "Use your brain for something besides a hatrack." But think about it
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1/14/2008 11:04:39 AM |
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dannachanna
Des Moines, IA
age: 57
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It would be my best day shopping if you would just quit thinking about it and do it..ucc!
Just smile sweety, most any woman would ask ya why you're smilin' at her, if she likes the looks of ya, then take it from there...
[Edited 1/14/2008 11:05:40 AM]
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1/14/2008 11:10:02 AM |
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happinessnlove
Dade City, FL
age: 40
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I think Danna said it best. Basically if you look good to some woman or man, they are going to find a way to get your attention. The thing I notice is when people are interested they will follow you, not stalk you, but follow you. I get this sometimes at the Supermarket or at bars. They will walk by you, or catch your eye, you move to another part of the store or bar and they suddenly appear there also, and ask you some stupid question, like, "Do you know where the Green Beans are?" when you are in the green bean aisle.
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1/14/2008 1:20:26 PM |
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bigeasy741
Bay, AR
age: 45
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Do not listen to any advise about grabbing if you do not know them. That is only good for getting slapped or worse. Make up a few simple things to say at first conversation, If she is interested or not she'll let you know. It works better to just talk than to try pick-up lines.
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1/14/2008 3:44:23 PM |
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like_i_need_one
Bishop, CA
age: 39
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donna
I have never tried that.. yet. I will let you know if I get arrested. but it sounds like something I would like as a signal from a woman.
sondra
I am really that thick headed, many friends have pointed out some girl 'checking me out'
but I figure it could just be I am a sideshow in her eyes... so I am still guessing at my age
thank you all posters great input.
[Edited 1/14/2008 3:45:44 PM]
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