| 1/14/2008 9:44:00 AM |
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theman19
New Hartford, IA
age: 18
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i dont really get it im a nice sweet gentleman and for some reason i just cant seem to find someone to stay with me for more then like a month can anyone answer why plz?
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| 1/14/2008 9:52:38 AM |
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girlwithdog
Antioch, IL
age: 44
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Sweetie, you are only 18 years old, you have your whole life ahead of you to find the right one. Date around and have fun with no expectations. That is the way it should be when you're a teenager...
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| 1/14/2008 10:02:49 AM |
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wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 36
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exactly.before you know it you'll be all grown up with a girlwithdog and then.....puppies
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| 1/14/2008 12:20:17 PM |
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bigeasy741
Bay, AR
age: 45
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I will let you in on a secret. No matter what age you are we all have that problem. And it does not get any better. You'll find that most are for the money, drugs, gifts they can squeeze out of you then they move on to the next sucker. Be patient and do not drop your standards, there are some wonderful women out there. Remember they play us like most guys play them.
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| 1/14/2008 2:16:54 PM |
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lawrence084
Honolulu, HI
age: 40
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Your first problem is your attitude.
Once you start realizing that any woman who doesn't want to be with you, is not worth the time, you'll start realizing that women will want to know why you are not staying with them long-term.
At 18 it is about attitude, and you don't have the right attitute. Study and learn from your friends who women are attracted too. My guess they have the right attitude. Women are trying to prove to them that they are worthy. Instead of the other way around.
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| 1/14/2008 2:24:32 PM |
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sarabella
Anderson, SC
age: 19
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you need to just be your self and stop worrying when the right one will come. cause when you go out trying to find the one you think is the one, you miss the one that is meant for you. and dont listen to that other guy....no not all girls are after money and giftes. some like me are just looking for the right one. the one that can prove that not all guys are the same. and the others are right your still young.
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| 1/14/2008 2:30:55 PM |
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thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34
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it would be hard to answer that. we don't know your pros and cons. maybe you are doing something to drive them away all the time. only you can really look at yourself in the mirror, be honest, and make the necessary adjustments.
you are still young. you will have many bruises at this age with the games they play at this stage. chalk it up as a learning experience and learn from it.
i will say this, you cannot be too nice and come across ass soft. women will eat you up, walk all over and spit you out without a second thought.
be nice, but have great balance in many other areas.
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| 1/14/2008 2:56:54 PM |
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true_q1111
Elma, NY
age: 41
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theman19 wrote:
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i dont really get it im a nice sweet gentleman and for some reason i just cant seem to find someone to stay with me for more then like a month can anyone answer why plz?
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You're a "nice guy". You need to learn the rules:
Rule number 1: Nice guys finish last.
Rule number 2: First learn rule number 1.
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| 1/14/2008 3:10:45 PM |
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dixiethelovebug
Auburn, GA
age: 43
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I agree with bestman. If you are to soft they will walk on you take what they want and go. At your age you may wish and hope for a long term relationship but I would suggest to date awhile first. Although sometimes it is hard, dont jump right into a relationship just because you want someone by your side. Work on yourself first and when you have self cofidence it will attract the person you are meant to be with..No one wants to be with someone if they can walk on them because after they get what they want, whats left?
JMO
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| 1/14/2008 3:29:30 PM |
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thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34
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@ dixie 
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| 1/14/2008 4:19:05 PM |
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healthologist
Page, AZ
age: 60
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Women want Men
Men take charge
Women don't want woosy boys
Kill the boy - become a Man
If you want your date to dump you
become a woosy boy again
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