| 1/16/2008 9:18:11 PM |
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packmother
Hudson, NY
age: 64
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to be the most important quality in a confident?
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| 1/16/2008 9:18:44 PM |
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packmother
Hudson, NY
age: 64
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and with that a good night.
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| 1/17/2008 7:33:57 AM |
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queenofhearts61
Seymour, IN
age: 62
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I says I cannot post on the other thread for chatting. The one about the guy not being intimate with a thiest.
I just want to say Pack that my remarks where just my wise cracks being made with my dry sense of humor. No offense intended.
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| 1/17/2008 7:49:21 AM |
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packmother
Hudson, NY
age: 64
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Queenofhearts
PLEASE.
I took no offense or such. Perhaps we both have senses of humor that we need to get to know. My own many times is funny or clever only to myself. I enjoyed our communication.
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| 1/17/2008 8:12:46 AM |
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blooz2me
Amherst, OH
age: 58
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Hi MOM......I'm not sure what you are asking. Can you rephrase it?
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| 1/17/2008 8:15:40 AM |
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sugahsouth
Lake City, TN
age: 59
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 Larry.....hi handsome
A confidant? I have several. They never have betrayed me nor I them. We can tell each other everything. But.....mustn't tell one about the other's secrets either. Did I answer it?
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| 1/17/2008 8:27:25 AM |
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packmother
Hudson, NY
age: 64
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Good morning son,
I was asking what was the most important quality a person would have to have to become a confident of yours. For me to consider someone a confident the first thing I would need would be to have a history with them. I was just wondering what others thought. To me we have very few confidents in our lives.
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| 1/17/2008 8:29:20 AM |
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blooz2me
Amherst, OH
age: 58
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Damn Sugah...You just make me want to kiss you all ova!
My answer to the question would have to be plain trust. That carries a lot of weight in my book.
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| 1/17/2008 8:30:05 AM |
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tomfreebird
Gurley, AL
age: 54 online now!
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It would take a few years of experience to see if they was totally trust worthy
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| 1/17/2008 8:33:14 AM |
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packmother
Hudson, NY
age: 64
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Kid, I agree with you, trust is way up there.
Tomfreebird, I thought maybe it was just me, but I need time to see if my trust is well placed, as you said
added: I was thinking maybe I had become to careful as I aged.
[Edited 1/17/2008 8:35:04 AM]
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| 1/17/2008 8:34:26 AM |
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burnedonce
Duncan, OK
age: 67
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I consider the most important quality in a confidant is to be able to keep your secrets.
Unfortunately , I learned the hard way never to confide in anyone again .
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| 1/17/2008 8:35:22 AM |
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sorprano
Wayne, NJ
age: 55
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to be the most important quality in a confident?
trust and loyalty--i know what you mean--
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| 1/17/2008 8:36:53 AM |
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butterfly58
Arcadia, MO
age: 58
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I require trust and I'm a very trusting person until someone destroys that trust in which I am wary from then on in the confident category. I would prefer someone to tell me honestly something I wouldn't want to hear than to lie to me about it.
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| 1/17/2008 8:40:30 AM |
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packmother
Hudson, NY
age: 64
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Life experiences do contribute to how we see things. I know what you are saying too. I never want to live my life over, but some of the lessons along the way are not what I wish they had been. The high side is that we become better prepared for the next phase, isn't it?
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| 1/17/2008 8:42:15 AM |
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packmother
Hudson, NY
age: 64
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There was a time I was much more willing to extend trust, now I wait for it to be earned. I am still arguing within myself about it.
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