| 1/17/2008 3:47:30 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 51
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. Alot of people in the forums ( and not just here) seem hesitant to respond to shadow people in forums as well as in emails. What do you think bout people who hide behind sunglasses, huge stuffed animals, in a group photo, etc? Are they hiding something as some think shadow people are? Is just a curious question.
BTW... I don't think nothing of it when people choose to not put a photo online. Their choice and they all have their own reasons. If they are more comfortable without a photo.. is not a problem for me since it's just chatting
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| 1/17/2008 3:56:23 PM |
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richard66214
Overland Park, KS
age: 53
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I agree, but I'll flirt with anyone, on line or in person. The only one that bothers me is when sugah puts up that eyeball shot. I always run away. Big sister is watching.
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| 1/17/2008 3:57:45 PM |
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hodag
Little Suamico, WI
age: 55
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Don't have a strong opinion one way or another, there may be a legitimate reason,
but there always is that element of suspicion.
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| 1/17/2008 3:59:52 PM |
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sweetness1954
Hebron, IN
age: 53
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Tru, I know what you mean, when they put a group picture up, which one is the person with the profile anyway?? and that eyeball thing, I'm with you it's scares the hell out of me!!!! 
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| 1/17/2008 4:07:57 PM |
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louis666
Charlottesville, VA
age: 70
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Actually, the eyeball does not bother me. I remember growing up on the farm where we made head cheese from the hogs that we would butcher, 4 to 6 at a time. Checking a boiling pot of eyeballs was not all that gruesome.
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| 1/17/2008 4:09:16 PM |
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butterfly58
Arcadia, MO
age: 58
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Well if you're going to show a "body part"....I like the eyeball thingie!!!! Shadow people don't bother me either. I figure they have their reasons and it is just for chatting; I can handle that too. Just call me easy.......
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| 1/17/2008 4:45:59 PM |
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kiddycat
Marion, MI
age: 51
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Hey, it's just me, one of the shadow people. I don't have my picture posted on here yet but I know I should do it. I haven't posted it for a few reasons. One is because I don't know how to put a picture on the computer. I think it was saprono, I'm not sure, but he posted to someone else how to do it and I copied it so I could learn to do it myself. Secondly, I hate getting my picture taken. I could post one I already have but it's not a recent picture of me.
I'll chat with other shadow people. And I try so hard not to judge people period, on here or off line. But some people, if I see their picture or not, I just avoid them. I've had some email me that I'll politely decline if they have a picture or not, because of how they emailed me. Both kinds have given me their number to call, or tell me they like my picture when I haven't posted one yet or they want to know how much money I have, or ask me if I want some hot sex. I have my boundries and I'd rather be alone then be around someone with that kind of personality.
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| 1/17/2008 5:10:11 PM |
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whalemstr
Corning, CA
age: 50
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Personally, I don't care either way.
shadows
are
people
too
?
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?
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right?
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| 1/17/2008 5:14:13 PM |
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nomad2
Falmouth, KY
age: 60
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Shadow person here ,I have tried everything everyone told me to do and couldn,t put picture on here! it will be on here in another week,as soon as my grandson comes to see me ! [ computer illiterate ]I do have a pic on another site , BabyboomerPeoplemeet.com under scruffymf, that's the best I can do for right now,
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| 1/17/2008 5:20:33 PM |
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harriett
Homosassa, FL
age: 61 online now!
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Personally I like Sugah's eyeball pic.
It shows imagination & humor.
I like that in a person.  
I will stay as a shadow person. No reason not to.
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| 1/17/2008 5:23:04 PM |
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sweetness1954
Hebron, IN
age: 53
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But I can you tell who to date? The guys all look the same and so do the women??? 
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| 1/17/2008 5:29:10 PM |
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thepkk
Springfield, MO
age: 53
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The eyeball is big sister. She knows alllllllllll!!
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| 1/17/2008 5:32:34 PM |
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waytogo51
Prairie Grove, AR
age: 51
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I don't have a problem with ppl not posting their photo. That is their choice. Not I do feel that if they e-mail someone that they are interested in then they should attached a photo with it. But just chatting, I don't see a need.
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| 1/17/2008 5:45:39 PM |
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trublu5ft2
Columbia, TN
age: 51
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Now hiding behind a tree is totally different tho 
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| 1/17/2008 5:54:01 PM |
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sorprano
Wayne, NJ
age: 55
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i'm in sales and would never look into someone's eyes with my sunglasses on or would i talk with someone wearing them in business--people here are hiding something: looks or just hiding who they are because it's a free site in many cases happens heer i would think as a pic sure does make some of us fast decision makers here but where's that 2nd chance for some to mention their hearts here----but if you're talking age 50 here everyone is not just 50 and may be intimidated by others here as if there is a beauty pageant going on here or maybe just not comfee in their own skin too----i do think posting a pic is an option but the viewer has options too
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