6/15/2010 4:06:41 PM |
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hart24
Syracuse, NY
age: 35
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6/15/2010 4:10:41 PM |
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75scott
Parker, CO
age: 35
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What?
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6/15/2010 4:19:57 PM |
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awakeing
Walled Lake, MI
age: 38
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Actually there ARE.
True they maybe rare, but those kind of good and
amazingly wonderful men are far and in-between.
Some real men still exist who know the value of
being man enough to be good role models for kids,
a contributing member of society and a real head of
house.
Only selfish people have no room in their life and nothing
to give a woman and children.
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6/15/2010 4:26:17 PM |
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bbw47reader
Frederick, MD
age: 48
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No, they all mind. So that means you're done now.
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6/15/2010 4:27:40 PM |
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theseventhsign
Lorain, OH
age: 33
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No, they all mind. So that means you're done now.
I don't mind. It depends on how many.
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6/15/2010 4:28:23 PM |
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lovinlife41
York, PA
age: 42
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Actually there ARE.
True they maybe rare, but those kind of good and
amazingly wonderful men are far and in-between.
Some real men still exist who know the value of
being man enough to be good role models for kids,
a contributing member of society and a real head of
house.
Out of all the men I have met on here I can only honestly say four of them have been okay with a child. My daughter is young and I find that most men don't want to bother raising another person's child so they just move on....I don't want them anyway since they obviousley have no values....
I don't expect them to raise my child but if they want me she comes with the package~!
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6/15/2010 4:30:24 PM |
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photoartistguy
Minneapolis, MN
age: 41
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I do but
not spoiled brats that think
I'm tring to replace their father
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6/15/2010 4:33:22 PM |
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liberalextinct
Anderson, IN
age: 28
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only kids i want to deal with are the ones i had the fun making.
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6/15/2010 4:35:02 PM |
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wsprs0nthewind
Powell, TN
age: 46
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The world is full of men (and women) that don't want their own, much less someone else's.
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6/15/2010 4:35:17 PM |
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goodman4sum1
Canton, OH
age: 42
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There are a lot of variables that go into the decision to "mind" or not.
It can't be a blanket statement.
For instance, one man may be perfectly open to a relationship with a woman who has one child of any age, but would not consider a relationship with a woman who has 6 kids under the age of 5, say 3 sets of twins.
At the same time, a different woman with 5 kids, but 3 are grown and living on their own might not be an issue.
Then there's the situations with a gaggle of kids from different fathers who still cause drama.
Making a blanket Yes or No statement about being ok with kids is a bit much to ask.
jmho
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6/15/2010 4:38:28 PM |
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nyguitar77
Watertown, NY
age: 33
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I have a daughter, so it would be hypocritical of me to not accept a woman with kids. Just as long as they don't want a replacement father, or there's still some ex drama going on.
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6/15/2010 4:40:18 PM |
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thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 50
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6/15/2010 4:43:03 PM |
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bbw47reader
Frederick, MD
age: 48
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Choices are a b*tch, ain't they?
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6/15/2010 5:11:58 PM |
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laughbythelake
Sturgeon Lake, MN
age: 48
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6/15/2010 5:27:14 PM |
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wise_guy
Brooklyn, NY
age: 31
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I wouldn't mind
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6/15/2010 7:57:40 PM |
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garden617
Washington, DC
age: 29
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It depends on a variety of factors. Such as a man's age, the amount of kids a woman has etc. I think younger men in general ( under 30 ) are less likely to accept a woman with kids. Some men may date a woman with 1 kid. But won't date a woman with multiple kids.
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6/15/2010 7:58:21 PM |
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handsofmagic200
Fort Drum, NY
age: 32
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I don't mind if a woman has kids. No matter how many she has. I have kids myself, my question to you is, does a woman mind if a man is a single father?
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6/15/2010 8:02:01 PM |
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emerye
Monroe, LA
age: 35
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if they are young enough. not a teenager that will say"your not my daddy, i don't have to listen to you". i was a child of devorce, and i was cool with moms bfs. It may be cool with them. In short, i don't mind. Hope the dad puts them through college. That would break me.
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6/15/2010 8:05:29 PM |
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emerye
Monroe, LA
age: 35
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plus, not to many women over 20 that don't have them already. Jees, the good ones are hard to find as it is, y limit that number any more
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6/15/2010 8:16:38 PM |
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noalco
Moberly, MO
age: 49 online now!
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Actually there ARE.
True they maybe rare, but those kind of good and
amazingly wonderful men are far and in-between.
Some real men still exist who know the value of
being man enough to be good role models for kids,
a contributing member of society and a real head of
house.
Only selfish people have no room in their life and nothing
to give a woman and children.
What a crock !!
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6/15/2010 8:34:22 PM |
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rivas01
York, PA
age: 50
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Are your kids respectful? If yes most men don't mind.
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6/15/2010 8:56:10 PM |
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ndfreshstart35m
Syracuse, NY
age: 36
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I have two little girls myself (6 & 4) so to be perfectly honest with you it doesn't matter to me..I meet some one that has three kids(12,8 and a 4month old. great friends so far. no problem for me, I actually enjoy company and family. Its all on whats on the inside and how you feel when you first meet someone..that first gut feeling and the long conversations on the phone..to get to know each other..shouldn't matter about kids their just an added bonus to the already made family..I'm single and recently separated, so not sure if my opinion counts. There are guys out there that aren't stupid..We are a little slow sometimes...though
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6/15/2010 9:01:07 PM |
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east25
Boston, MA
age: 32
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Having kids is NOT an automatic dealbreaker. But I would prefer a woman without kids.
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6/15/2010 11:09:35 PM |
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mikey2k
Miami, FL
age: 45
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I don't mind if a woman has kids. No matter how many she has. I have kids myself, my question to you is, does a woman mind if a man is a single father?
Thats just what I used to wonder sometimes, but after dating a few ladies I now understand that every woman is her own unique individual. And thats why my profile clearly says that I am single father of 2 teens. In short, every man/woman is different.
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6/16/2010 8:42:34 AM |
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rr251
Waterloo, NY
age: 45
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As said, every man is different. I like kids but have none of my own.
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6/16/2010 9:53:48 AM |
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barbaraajo
Reston, VA
age: 54
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Only the worthwile ones DON"T mind if you have kids.
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6/16/2010 10:47:32 AM |
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liberalextinct
Anderson, IN
age: 28
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Only the worthwile ones DON"T mind if you have kids.
i find that false, just cause I do not want to get stuck with someone else's problem dose not mean i am not worthwhile.
maybe someone should have thought before they opened there legs.
if i didn't make it i do not want to deal with it
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6/16/2010 10:56:25 AM |
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nenedeja
Jonesboro, GA
age: 22
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They are it just that its hard to find one.One thing i will tell you dont have kids before marriage.
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6/16/2010 11:05:15 AM |
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billhemoth
Omaha, NE
age: 21
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I'm not going to lie, kids are great!
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6/16/2010 11:07:51 AM |
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sugar1203
Houston, TX
age: 18
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awesome.. and yea i think some guys dont mind kids but most do.. i personally has a 17 month old and a 3 month old. and i think it just depends on the guy.
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6/16/2010 7:22:35 PM |
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igotuume
Conyers, GA
age: 30
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I MIND. The reason is because nowadays kids are born by mistake. that is in my age range and that results in what you call a baby daddy because the relationship doesnt work. now a baby daddy is diff from a baby's father. the baby daddy is still tryin to get with the mom while the baby's father is off doin his own thing but still there for the child and not into gettin with the mom still. but with me starting a relationship kids are a prob because of the time you get to know the person is greatly reduced. ME MYSELF AND I WILL NEVER BE A STEPDAD. EITHER I WILL BE A FATHER OR NO KIDS FOR ME. step parents get a bad rep period. but if u have kids then there will be someone out there who wouldnt mind tho but ive been there and done that and didnt like it so no kids for me unless i am producing them in a marriage and not by accident.
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6/16/2010 8:00:34 PM |
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romanatic1
Memphis, TN
age: 57
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I may be the exception to the rule for several reasons. I grew up in a large family as an oldest child and always had kids around. I was given a lot of responsibility for my brothers and sisters at an early age. Then, later circumstances led me to raise a daughter as a single parent from the age of 5 until she was grown. That was not always easy, but what worthwhile thing is? And as a result I am comfortable around kids. I miss the noise and the energy. And the house is so damn quiet now I can't think. I sometimes seriously go to the park to read because the sound of kids playing in the background helps me concentrate. So ask me if I mind if you have kids.
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6/16/2010 8:07:19 PM |
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jonas35
Dahlonega, GA
age: 37
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I don't mind as long as you give me a bj everyday.
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6/16/2010 8:39:40 PM |
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leggsallover
Bakersfield, CA
age: 52
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i have kids, and if thats a problem for any man, then he can keep walking
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6/16/2010 9:19:06 PM |
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dejay09
Ashland, OH
age: 25
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well thats what im looking for in a woman jsut because i have kids and one of them stays with me full time and i love being a daddy nothing makes me happier and been raising her for two years by myself so i want someone who wants kids as much as i want kids in my life
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6/17/2010 7:52:29 AM |
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izzystradlian12
Tupelo, MS
age: 34
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i don't mind if a woman has kids that wouldn't stop me from dating here
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6/17/2010 8:42:33 AM |
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dreamcatcher78
Plainview, TX
age: 32
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it would have to be a mature individual to take on someone with kids.
You would have to really prove yourself first, no one wants to add another kid to the ones they already have.
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6/17/2010 8:55:08 AM |
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theophilus78
Selden, NY
age: 32
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My uncle once said to me:
You never raises another mans child
harsh? yes.
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6/17/2010 9:02:14 AM |
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spankmybutt
Pittsfield, MA
age: 39
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Men are smarter than you give us credit for, and if we are not dating women with children, perhaps you need to ask yourself, WHY? in my experience, they use them against you. I married a woman with children and am seriously considering never EVER dating a woman with children again...it was a nightmare. She would try to get them all to sleep in our bed all the time, or sleep with them instead of me, unless she wanted sex. she would let them stay up past their bedtime almost everty night until she was too tired to spend quality time with eachother and she would pass out, then tell me I wasn't attracted to her cause we never had sex, if I tried to punish them for doing something wrong she would let them off...make me look like the bad guy...Total nightmare.
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6/17/2010 9:43:37 AM |
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jyoho12
Richlands, NC
age: 54
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Only one man comes to mind that took on another's kids(two)and then married the mother had one of there own. The marriage didn't last and he married another had one that one didn't last as well. I have a great deal of respect and admiration for the one who can deal with such an ordeal. It is not for me, as another poster has pointed put time with each other discipline and a host of other troubles can arise from this.
I should also ask if the shoe is on the other foot so to speak. Does a woman mind if a man is a single father of three? We just had our nephew with his three and even good kids they were still a hand full. I raised my own for the most part until early teens I could not and did not want to raise or be that much of a part in raising three more. It is a real chore, when you get them after they have been influenced by others.
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6/17/2010 9:52:59 AM |
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noalco
Moberly, MO
age: 49 online now!
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Most of this thread is the biggest crock of shit I have seen in a long time!!
Some Women get it, most don't.
I raised my son, and every woman I dated ran as soon as they found out I had a son at home.
I was smart enough to understand that I couldn't put the blame on them.
But almost all women that have kids live by a double standard.
Completely dogging men that don't want an INSTANT FAMILY.
Heres a quote from page 1 "Only selfish people have no room in their life and nothing
to give a woman and children."
I have raised my son, and paid years of support on my other kids, Even though My sons mother was never made to pay one penny.
And now that it is all done with.. I am called selfish because I don't want to start all over again.
A few years ago I got fixed, Knowing that I don't want any more kids, Then some woman has the balls to say I an selfish for not wanting to raise her kids
So as for the quote from page 1- " nothing to give a woman and children."
Maybe that is because Women with attitudes like yours have bled the guys dry!
Take, Take, Take until there is nothing left to take, and then kick him to the curb and move on to the next sucker.
If a guy is already paying outrageous support and decides that he don't want to support even more of someone elses kids,, He is selfish and useless???
I think it is the other way around.
she has kids and is getting child support from the guy(s), and then demands another man to move in and pay her rent and utilities, buy the kids cloths, food and everything else it takes to raise a kid.. I think this makes her the selfish one !
Not all Women with kids are like this.. but many are.
The ones that are.. ruin it for the Good women!
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6/17/2010 10:06:26 AM |
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theophilus78
Selden, NY
age: 32
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Most of this thread is the biggest crock of shit I have seen in a long time!!
Some Women get it, most don't.
I raised my son, and every woman I dated ran as soon as they found out I had a son at home.
I was smart enough to understand that I couldn't put the blame on them.
But almost all women that have kids live by a double standard.
Completely dogging men that don't want an INSTANT FAMILY.
Heres a quote from page 1 "Only selfish people have no room in their life and nothing
to give a woman and children."
I have raised my son, and paid years of support on my other kids, Even though My sons mother was never made to pay one penny.
And now that it is all done with.. I am called selfish because I don't want to start all over again.
A few years ago I got fixed, Knowing that I don't want any more kids, Then some woman has the balls to say I an selfish for not wanting to raise her kids
So as for the quote from page 1- " nothing to give a woman and children."
Maybe that is because Women with attitudes like yours have bled the guys dry!
Take, Take, Take until there is nothing left to take, and then kick him to the curb and move on to the next sucker.
If a guy is already paying outrageous support and decides that he don't want to support even more of someone elses kids,, He is selfish and useless???
I think it is the other way around.
she has kids and is getting child support from the guy(s), and then demands another man to move in and pay her rent and utilities, buy the kids cloths, food and everything else it takes to raise a kid.. I think this makes her the selfish one !
Not all Women with kids are like this.. but many are.
The ones that are.. ruin it for the Good women!
well said my friend!
maybe you can sue for back support? women do it all the time
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6/17/2010 10:13:41 AM |
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noalco
Moberly, MO
age: 49 online now!
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well said my friend!
maybe you can sue for back support? women do it all the time
It's all years past and is history.
I have no desire to revisit it.
I have come out on the other side now,a much stronger person and doing well for myself.
Still won't date a woman with kids, but it is fine if she has grandkids
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6/17/2010 10:18:21 AM |
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thunderroadhemi
Louisville, KY
age: 53
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I do not mind kids. As long as the women that has them is not one also.
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6/17/2010 2:24:19 PM |
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ladyeden
Waynesville, MO
age: 50
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What about the threads where women state they don't want a man raising kids as they've all ready raised thiers and want some "me" time? They weren't painted villians.
Kids are our future, they're wonderful and precious and of course "my" kids come first.
No, most children are ill behaved brats if not outright maladjusted monsters, expensive and it takes a lot of sacrifices to raise them. Young, they can still be molded. Teens? Even if they're yours most want to strangle them at least half the time.
Not everyone wants to be a parent. Not every one can be a good parent. Not everyone wants to raise children not thier own. Geez! What happened to wanting honesty and people being allowed, entitled even to choices and preferences without it making them bad people? Just find someone who's preference you are and stop whining about it!
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6/17/2010 6:17:48 PM |
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ladybugbp
Pittsburgh, PA
age: 52
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Actually there ARE.
True they maybe rare, but those kind of good and
amazingly wonderful men are far and in-between.
Some real men still exist who know the value of
being man enough to be good role models for kids,
a contributing member of society and a real head of
house.
Only selfish people have no room in their life and nothing
to give a woman and children.
As much as I love and care about kids and family I guess you would still find me selfish too. I have been raising, caring for, worrying about, adjusting, sacrificing and putting my life on hold for my own children (and other's) for 27 years. A week ago, my last child graduated from high school. It put me into a different phase of life. I have been looking forward to the thought of "being done" with intensively raising children and the possibility of new experiences for myself (which do not include children 100% of the time).
Doesn't mean I don't love children, or that I don't feel I have a responsibility to be a good role model, care for children, assist children in becoming contributing members of society and healthy adults. It just means I don't want to do it under my roof, at the level I have been doing it for 27 years or use every waking moment considering someone other than my future partner and myself in life. I'm done doing that. I have done my duty.
Doesn't mean I wouldn't welcome children or grandchildren. More the merrier. I look forward to having children in my life--someone else’s children or grandchildren-- Just not every day, day in and day out. I've been there, done that--long enough.
It seems it would be selfish to "expect" someone to raise "your" children and if that was not what they wanted to do with their life to state they were not a man.
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6/18/2010 12:01:39 AM |
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noalco
Moberly, MO
age: 49 online now!
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As much as I love and care about kids and family I guess you would still find me selfish too. I have been raising, caring for, worrying about, adjusting, sacrificing and putting my life on hold for my own children (and other's) for 27 years. A week ago, my last child graduated from high school. It put me into a different phase of life. I have been looking forward to the thought of "being done" with intensively raising children and the possibility of new experiences for myself (which do not include children 100% of the time).
Doesn't mean I don't love children, or that I don't feel I have a responsibility to be a good role model, care for children, assist children in becoming contributing members of society and healthy adults. It just means I don't want to do it under my roof, at the level I have been doing it for 27 years or use every waking moment considering someone other than my future partner and myself in life. I'm done doing that. I have done my duty.
Doesn't mean I wouldn't welcome children or grandchildren. More the merrier. I look forward to having children in my life--someone else’s children or grandchildren-- Just not every day, day in and day out. I've been there, done that--long enough.
It seems it would be selfish to "expect" someone to raise "your" children and if that was not what they wanted to do with their life to state they were not a man.
Yes, The kids are all on their own now.
That means you can come over any time, we can close the blinds and romp wherever we want.
OK...OK... I guess we don't have to close the blinds
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6/18/2010 6:58:20 PM |
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alvisfamilyman1
Elmwood, TN
age: 18
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I don't mind kids at all I stayed with my ex of six years after she had a kid by another guy and treated as if it was mine he called me da and everything. I most certainly would never turn down a woman I found appealing bc she had children. I want kids of my own so why would I judge
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6/18/2010 11:44:05 PM |
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likes2dream
Canyon Country, CA
age: 37
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i agree with awakeing!!! i am one of those men
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6/19/2010 4:23:39 AM |
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gentlemanjim1
Fort Myers, FL
age: 61
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I don't mind kids at all I stayed with my ex of six years after she had a kid by another guy and treated as if it was mine he called me da and everything. I most certainly would never turn down a woman I found appealing bc she had children. I want kids of my own so why would I judge
HUH ???? You stayed with your ex for 6 years? That means you were only 13 when you began a relationship with her? How old is she?
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6/19/2010 3:19:11 PM |
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alvisfamilyman1
Elmwood, TN
age: 18
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She is 20 now
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6/19/2010 3:21:59 PM |
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trueblkmann
Atlanta, GA
age: 56
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Loved my step dad as much as my real dad.
true
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6/19/2010 3:34:10 PM |
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southernteirguy
Holland, NY
age: 33
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I dont see anything wrong with dating a lady with a few kids. No more then 3 because someday I would like to have a kid of my own.
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6/19/2010 3:41:13 PM |
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greeneyezgal
Grand Prairie, TX
age: 30
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i find that false, just cause I do not want to get stuck with someone else's problem dose not mean i am not worthwhile.
maybe someone should have thought before they opened there legs.
if i didn't make it i do not want to deal with it
why does a woman having a kid or kids have to be a PROBLEM? She didnt say anything about looking for a father for her kids or a replcement. Thats the problem with guys (not all of thme) but the ones that make stupid comments like that they think kids are a problem or bothersome. If you meet a woman and fall head over heels in love with her no matter what you say your going to love and accept her children. Some people are very ignorant.
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6/19/2010 4:31:46 PM |
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southernteirguy
Holland, NY
age: 33
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Well put green. If a guy says that kids are a bothersome then he should not have kids of his own or even baby sort them
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6/19/2010 9:25:40 PM |
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waitingnolonger
Elyria, OH
age: 39
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I don't mind the kids, but I have to be attracted to the woman herself.
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6/19/2010 9:50:20 PM |
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masterrich
Appleton, WI
age: 56
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why do you seek to complicate this. Women who place kids first are telling anyman he'll never be the most important part of their life just as you want to be his most important part of life. In simple terms, if he loves you he'll accept you and them. His relationship with your kids however is not based on you it is what your kids and him make their relationship to be.. As to being bad or not because you don't want to deal with a guy or lady who has kids (their problem as one stated here).. I think it just says you seek for self and think love is all about you when you seek a relationship, when love or a relationship isn't about that at all
FOR LOVE IS NOT ABOUT CONVIENCE NEVER HAS BEEN
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6/19/2010 9:58:10 PM |
Are there really Any men thAt dont mind if you have kids |
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masterrich
Appleton, WI
age: 56
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LEGS ALL OVER, MAKES A GOOD POINT. oN THE OTHER HAND ANY LADY WHO SAYS TO A GUIY YOU WANT TO BE WITH ME YOU HAVE TO ACCEPT MY KIDS IS WRONG. He'll do that naturally if he cares for you. If you say that you are a person that in a relationship seeks self and that means your partner always comes second to you and what you want.. Love and marriage is a walk together through life. Side by side equally as equals nothing less. If you don't think so,, can bet you've been divorced or are single
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6/21/2010 12:03:12 AM |
Are there really Any men thAt dont mind if you have kids |
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mysticrose82
Dickinson, ND
age: 28
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i find that false, just cause I do not want to get stuck with someone else's problem dose not mean i am not worthwhile.
maybe someone should have thought before they opened there legs.
if i didn't make it i do not want to deal with it
sorry had to comment on this. NO child is a problem, they are a gift for 1 & for 2 its not just us girls fault for opening our legs! 1 of my teachers said the same thing to me & now im gonna say what i told him. if you took every female in your town & layed them down & spread their legs not a single 1 would get pregnant unless they already were, or a guy had sex with us without being careful in some way. sorry but ignorant ppl tick me off
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6/21/2010 12:08:29 AM |
Are there really Any men thAt dont mind if you have kids |
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mysticrose82
Dickinson, ND
age: 28
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i have 5 kids but only my youngest 2 live with me. i recently dated a man that has soul custody of his son. i took him in as my own. too many ppl now days forget that we should treat each other as we would want to be treated ourselves. i've never asked any1 to take on being a dad to my kids nor would i expect them to. but i do sit down with the guy im with & ask how would u feel if or when my kids started calling him dad. cuz lets face it at some point it's gonna happen if the relationship makes it to that point. & thats a 2 way street there. us females have got to step up too when it comes to guys who actually wanna be a part of their kids lives.
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