| 1/23/2008 6:16:55 PM |
Why does it seem that everyone blames their ex? |
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mina45
Calgary, AB
age: 45
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Yes, I have an ex but I don't hate him. Whats with all the hate out there? Life changes and we change thank you very much. They can't be all that bad, it takes 2 to tango as the saying goes and I'm at just as much fault as he is....lets take responsibility shall we?
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| 1/23/2008 6:21:29 PM |
Why does it seem that everyone blames their ex? |
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faith32
Bedford, IN
age: 48
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People blame others because it is easier than blaming themselves. Sooner or later we get it & realize we are at fault too.
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| 1/23/2008 6:36:25 PM |
Why does it seem that everyone blames their ex? |
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corbinsgaga
Wooster, OH
age: 47
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I don't blame my ex in the least. I blame his crack addiction and his addictive personality. I do say a prayer for him every night. 
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| 1/23/2008 6:55:19 PM |
Why does it seem that everyone blames their ex? |
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drummrboy
Belmont, MA
age: 43
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maybe the x did most of the damage, that's y. but ultimately, each person needs to look at themselves, as a whole, before one can assess the blame damage.
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| 1/23/2008 7:23:07 PM |
Why does it seem that everyone blames their ex? |
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origsyn2
Great Falls, MT
age: 47
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I don't hate my ex. It just wasn't right for us although we tried for 18 years, live and learn then move on.
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| 1/24/2008 6:24:57 PM |
Why does it seem that everyone blames their ex? |
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foxy_woman_49
Omaha, NE
age: 49
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well I can say 100% I blame my X (if you only knew you would understand and you would 100% agree)
so there
Gets a cup of  *cheers*
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| 1/25/2008 8:12:43 AM |
Why does it seem that everyone blames their ex? |
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tinktoo
Pevely, MO
age: 49 online now!
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My x had faults and so did i....i beleive the older you get you just space away from each other...ones blames the other....but the older i am, i have been divorced ten yrs, and i will say it was both of us....it takes two to tango.... 
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| 1/25/2008 9:17:40 AM |
Why does it seem that everyone blames their ex? |
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qween_bee66
Versailles, MO
age: 41
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I do not blame my x, I blame myself 4 being too trusting.
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| 1/25/2008 9:27:00 AM |
Why does it seem that everyone blames their ex? |
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celtcross
Frederick, MD
age: 49
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I don't blame my ex. It was my fault. I know this because she said so.
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| 1/25/2008 11:00:19 AM |
Why does it seem that everyone blames their ex? |
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foxy_woman_49
Omaha, NE
age: 49
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LOL Celt
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| 1/25/2008 9:44:47 PM |
Why does it seem that everyone blames their ex? |
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cherokeebaby60
Calvert City, KY
age: 47 online now!
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Oh Celt your too funny !
I invested 30 years of my life I made sure our home was clean he had food on the table his clothes were washed and ironed the bills were paid and I loved him and forgave him numerous times when he broke down and cried for forgiveness he committed adultery not once, not twice but many times .
Hate him ? no I dont hate anyone , I feel sorry for him he lost the best thing he ever had and yes I pray for him everyday he has to answer to God Not me. We made vows to each other and he broke them . I do blame myself for believing he would change I wish I would have left him many years ago instead of staying and trying to make it work .
it is easier to blame each other but the truth is it takes two and the faults are with both People .
Cherokee Baby
[Edited 1/25/2008 9:46:02 PM]
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| 1/27/2008 8:48:47 AM |
Why does it seem that everyone blames their ex? |
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bree08
Blue Springs, MO
age: 41
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i think once you reach a certain age you have to be an adult and accept your responsibility in the demise of your relationship.. so step up be an adult..grow and accept...and change 
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| 1/27/2008 8:51:06 AM |
Why does it seem that everyone blames their ex? |
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easytouch3
Mount Clemens, MI
age: 46 online now!
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Have you everbeen sucker punched.Its something thats hard to forget
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| 1/27/2008 9:23:17 AM |
Why does it seem that everyone blames their ex? |
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justmehowyabe
Libertyville, IL
age: 49
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Mine would never admit to having affairs .His girlfriends would tell me.Blame him no I blame myself for being nieve.Should have left years ago when I was still concidered pretty.Would have been easier to start over.College and everything.
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| 1/27/2008 9:35:05 AM |
Why does it seem that everyone blames their ex? |
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foxy_woman_49
Omaha, NE
age: 49
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Yep yep takes 2 to tango that would be him and his pc
Tango away now baby. LMAO
Sometimes there are ppl who have done nothing wrong and the blame can not be laid on both.
Thats truth and yes it happens
enjoying my
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