1/26/2008 10:59:14 AM |
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celtcross
Frederick, MD
age: 49 online now!
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I really don't think I go into these situations with any expectations.If things work out...great. If not...life goes on.
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1/26/2008 12:44:46 PM |
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dutchlangley
Fort Worth, TX
age: 43
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I don't expect sex. I wouldn't turn it down either..... I EXPECT nothing more than courtesy and honesty and respect. But I'm probably not your typical man either. After all, I am not only not a sports fan, but I don't even keep up with sports of any kind. So, no, I am not your typical man and never have been.
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1/26/2008 1:29:44 PM |
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workinglaman
Golden Meadow, LA
age: 47
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I expect someone that I can talk to and someone who's a little interested in me,it would be nice if we just clicked. Someone that makes me feel comfortable and I can just be myself.I do want to be able to kiss her at least,a little making out,a girl who would also touch back.A lot of women will allow a man to touch them and even encourage it,but if she were to put her hands on me that would be great.I like em kind of assertive.I had sex on the first date and I married her a year later.We lasted 26 years.
Dutch,I don't like sports on TV either.Thought i was the only one.
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1/26/2008 1:44:53 PM |
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ttmm2112
Arvada, CO
age: 45 online now!
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My expectations are for each person to be themselves.......and is it too much to ask....... limit your cell phone calls to one
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1/26/2008 2:45:41 PM |
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grizz67
Bernville, PA
age: 40
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I agree with dutch and working....we both should go with the flow, if it heats up go with it, if your gut says hold back than hold back.
Hey Dutch... and Working...Great to hear other guys admit to not living for sports. I was involved with sports all through school (football, wrestling & baseball). I have no time for sports on TV and I mostly only watch the Super Bowl for the commercials and to be with my friends.
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1/26/2008 3:27:38 PM |
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donniwho
Walters, OK
age: 44
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I wish I knew; it would help on the first "meetings" while I have been off the market for internet dating (took a break)for a year. I generally like to call them first meetings. If the guy is interested I think He should be the one to iniate the next call to set up a date.
I do not want to feel obligated to be with someone for the entire evening on the first meeting even that way either of us is free to leave when a short meeting is scheduled.
Common Ground is nice for a start and if you want to continue the meeting for longer go for it but this way you have an escape plan ready.
I've also heard many stories from guys who have gone to meet women and found that they used someone elses pic; or their pic was 20 years ago and feel like even if these were fantastic people; they would not consider it because the entire thing was started with being deceitful. So Ladies while men are visual; at least put your best foot forward; yes many men want the twiggies in the world while others look for women who carry themselves well; and present themselves in their true light; so be confident and walk tall and straight!
Humor doesn't hurt either..be up todate ask him questions about what is important to him, have a few questions mentally prepared and
first have some conversations on the phone a few times to see if a mutaul interest exists.
Most of all smile alot; that lets them know you are enjoying yourself; lean into their conversation; shows you are listening...
Then your womanly charm should take over from there if there is a connection....
So why am I still single... Oh yeah...I work too much and have 15 year old that brings all the joys and struggles of being a single parent...
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1/26/2008 3:35:25 PM |
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nickie047
South Amboy, NJ
age: 47
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The lady to like him.
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1/26/2008 3:42:54 PM |
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nickie047
South Amboy, NJ
age: 47
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Hey Icedsnow, It seems that according to you only guys are looking for sex. You ladys want it just as much as the guys so lets get real here.(LOL)
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1/27/2008 8:08:06 AM |
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t_1967
Noblesville, IN
age: 40
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That's good!
Hey drummerboy do you need ice for that burn??
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1/27/2008 8:23:00 AM |
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drummrboy
Belmont, MA
age: 43
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sorry to dissapoint u ice, i don't want sex on the first date. i graduated high school! i want to know the woman a little bit before any sex will occur. that's just me! u don't have to believe me. that's your choice. besides, who says u can't have a great first date without sex? plz enlighten me?
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1/27/2008 8:29:30 AM |
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easytouch3
Mount Clemens, MI
age: 46 online now!
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Lots of smiles.Lots of eye contact.Lots uf fun others need not apply
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1/27/2008 10:18:59 AM |
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marc2b4
Michigan, ND
age: 46
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I like trying to be real. Everything else just seems to follow it's own course as long as I'm upfront and honest. But she better not fart, that would be a major turnoff. OK on the second date, but the first? Come on.....
Mark
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1/27/2008 10:46:12 AM |
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garnetlady
Cincinnati, OH
age: 48 online now!
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Funny reply Mark. LOL
I didn't realize people put so much thought in what to expect on dates. Maybe I walk into fire blinded? lol I don't know... I just go and enjoy the evening with a man. If a lady doesn't want sex on any date, NO is a good word choice, same for men.
Grizz I'm sorry some ladies have not been honest with you. I don't do to another what I wouldn't want done to me. If I didn't want to see a fella again I'd be kind and tell him so. It's happened to me as well though. All I ask is for honesty and that is what I give.
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1/27/2008 3:10:19 PM |
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dtrail
Umatilla, FL
age: 49
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PEOPLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Try this...
BE YOURSELF...
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1/27/2008 5:03:01 PM |
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fleeting
Smithville, TN
age: 48
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That they realize each moment is of its self what we make it. That memories where made through the decisions that were sometimes made by others, and sometimes that we made. We can make the most of them, influence those we can, are simply walk away.
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