| 1/28/2008 6:23:39 AM |
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sidman
Grand Junction, CO
age: 30
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I been reading alot of the post her and realize alot of poeple are so desperate for poeple to love them that within a month or or 2 weeks they think they know their life time partner and than if you do end up getting married after only 2-3 month of dating? than what your partner changes you say, but maybe he didn't change and you where so blinded by your love you never noticed it... Well thats not love thats lust wait until you can see through the shroud of lust and infacuration and maybe you will see it before you put your heart on the line. I dated this girl exclusively for 2 1/2 years and by the end of the first year there was no sign of any problems we got along so well. Now the end of the second year was just fine, but as we started talking more serrious about our relationship she started to display traits that where counter productive to the relationship after 2 years. It was a mix between a spoiled brat and some traits I think she learned to pick up from her mom at a young age. With a different twist. I had her over to my place ot play games and her mom did trust me as I was that kind of guy that wants to wait til marrage before sex. Well anyways she comes over to the apartment and shes been over before, we ussually have to play board games and than I can kiss her alittle bit, but I was bored of doing that so I decided that i wanted to do it in reverse she was ok with it til she started crying out of the blue she than told me that kiss scared her, well I finally found out that it didn't have nothing to do with the way I kissed her. The kiss scared her because she did not trust me enough to allow time for us to play board games. So she started crying until I called her mom to come pick her up and she got exactly what she wanted her mom saved her yet again. So then we broke up I was devestated as I had my whole heart into this relationship. and it was all because she wanted her way and she was only gonna accept her way as right.
So  take your time for your  Sake
so you won't end up like this 
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| 1/28/2008 6:26:13 AM |
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crowdog3
Ponca City, OK
age: 34
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Dude welcome too the world of dating women101
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| 1/28/2008 6:35:45 AM |
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anniebrown57
Warrington, PA
age: 50 online now!
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sweety both husbands I lived with a considerable amount of time before marrying. Something changes in the first 6 months of marriage. Cant put my finger on it but have never found anyone able to come back and say after 6 months it didnt
Even had friends lived together 15yrs befor marring and they could not say it doent happen either.
The problem with marriages now a days is ppl dont stick it out for better or worse they dont try to resolve issues. It is easier to walk away than to work at something
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| 1/28/2008 6:38:14 AM |
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lovesillusion11
Moab, UT
age: 24
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my hubby was fine till i had our son.... then he became jealous or something.... but things were great till then.... i am not sure what happend.... oh well!
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| 1/28/2008 6:45:24 AM |
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sidman
Grand Junction, CO
age: 30
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or the why the heck should I comment to someone because I am getting what I most deserve and want. Men now days don't have to comment to women if sex is already aviable to them why ruin the fun? Its the sad truth. The man has everything to gain and nothing to loose by not marrying her. However me I want the woman I like to chellage me and tell I can't have stuff untilI go through hops for her and I believe one is the engagement hope, and the other is the wedding hops. Than after he does that for you make shure you give it too him or the marraige won't work. most cheaters start out because they don't get what they want from their relationship they got to go find it someplace else.
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| 1/28/2008 6:53:10 AM |
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yunvs
Columbus, OH
age: 34
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well i dont know i f this belongs in this thread, but my mom was dating this guy for alil over 10 yrs and they were engaged at one point but she didnt want to marry and give him his ring back to beat it off he went and got married to someone else and my mom had to find out from someone else
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| 1/28/2008 6:56:34 AM |
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anniebrown57
Warrington, PA
age: 50 online now!
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I really am not up to getting into it but my ex's didnt cheat cause the weren't getting it at home. You know the greener grasses saying. Well the'll find that grass browns there too when not watered.
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| 1/28/2008 9:44:47 AM |
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truckerjohn2008
Palm Springs, CA
age: 49
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I alway drove a truck for a living, while gone my wife had parties, and boyfriend on the side. One night I decided not to call to let her know my ETA home , when I arrived I went to the bedroom ready to jump into bed with her , and there was another man in my bed with wife, your talking hurt. Thats why marraiges to me don't last.
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| 1/28/2008 9:57:31 AM |
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katiescarlett72
Plano, TX
age: 35
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Well anyways she comes over to the apartment and shes been over before, we ussually have to play board games and than I can kiss her alittle bit, but I was bored of doing that so I decided that i wanted to do it in reverse she was ok with it til she started crying out of the blue she than told me that kiss scared her, well I finally found out that it didn't have nothing to do with the way I kissed her. The kiss scared her because she did not trust me enough to allow time for us to play board games. So she started crying until I called her mom to come pick her up and she got exactly what she wanted her mom saved her yet again.
I think you both sound like you're f*cking nuts.
I'm sure I'll get the "wow, what a b*tch" responses again, but how old was this girl, twelve?
Men now days don't have to comment to women if sex is already aviable to them why ruin the fun?
Holy crap what 1960's world are you living in? LOL I would never get into a marriage where I had no idea whether I was sexually compatible with my husband. You do realize that all sex is not created equal, right? We're a little past the whole "why buy the cow" bullshit. I've had relationships where *I* was the one who wouldn't commit - I just really liked having someone around and, well, the sex kinda rocked.
Often marriages don't last because the two people involved have grown and changed, and the directions in which they grew and changed were totally different. Also, sometimes people just bring out the worst in each other over time, rather than the best.
BTW, I'll answer the last question on your profile (just for the fun of it) on behalf of the single moms 'round here.
Why do single mothers expect guys to change there lifes for them.
Because we're kick-ass women, and we're worth it, honey.
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| 1/28/2008 10:00:32 AM |
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drummrboy
Belmont, MA
age: 43
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katie came to play today!  
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| 1/28/2008 10:06:47 AM |
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katiescarlett72
Plano, TX
age: 35
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LOL don't I always???
But seriously, this guy reminds me of a lot of episodes of American Justice where they profile the socially rebellious, quiet loner that no one suspected of anything, until the day they discovered 30 skeletons in his horse pasture.
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| 1/28/2008 10:10:18 AM |
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thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34 online now!
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I will keep this very short, yet very powerful.
Always look deep before you leap. - Judge M
Hence the reason for the high divorce rates, separations, and unhappy marriages.
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| 1/28/2008 2:44:50 PM |
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thepirate1969
Greenville, NC
age: 38 online now!
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katiescarlett72 has a point...
probably more than one...
The sex before marriage is absolutely a must for both genders!!! I mean, I can understand feeling lucky, but a little testing before such a radical commitment would be advisable....
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| 1/28/2008 2:48:27 PM |
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katiescarlett72
Plano, TX
age: 35
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Dang, you're cute.
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| 1/28/2008 3:33:46 PM |
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marc2b4
Michigan, ND
age: 46 online now!
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I think they call that the Jeffrey Dahmer syndrome!
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