8/16/2010 8:25:13 AM |
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arbedsamoht
Indianapolis, IN
age: 52
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I keep getting guys who want to know if I have yahoo messenger and was wondering if you have any thoughts on the subject. I did do that on another site and all they wanted to do was talk about sex once you went to messenger.
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8/16/2010 8:53:46 AM |
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pilgrimlass
Deridder, LA
age: 64
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yes I have given out my e-mail and got alot of stupid mails back about sex. Like the men who sent them were in the 5th grade.
so now i ask them for theirs, funny that alot of them won't give out their info.
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8/16/2010 9:13:44 AM |
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jennyann71
Clarksville, AR
age: 69
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I run from them """"""as It is not worth my time"""""" I have found that out so?
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8/16/2010 10:13:35 AM |
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phina1
Walton, KY
age: 49
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I keep getting guys who want to know if I have yahoo messenger and was wondering if you have any thoughts on the subject. I did do that on another site and all they wanted to do was talk about sex once you went to messenger.
They want you to go to a different site so that they can't be tracked.
If you read the directions for DH they make it quite clear what to and not to do.
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8/16/2010 10:22:34 AM |
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qnofmycstle
Tempe, AZ
age: 36
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I tell them they'd have better luck keeping contact with me here....which is true, I'm rarely on my yahoo messenger....so if they want to chat, it's easier and more convenient here.... If they're pushy about it....you're better off avoiding that person all together....they have a hidden agenda....jmo...
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8/16/2010 11:01:49 AM |
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utahgal1
Ogden, UT
age: 51
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I keep getting guys who want to know if I have yahoo messenger and was wondering if you have any thoughts on the subject. I did do that on another site and all they wanted to do was talk about sex once you went to messenger.
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First if hes a zillion miles from me or no where close, I simply say,
Thanks for youre interest but youre too far to date.
Good luck in your search.
HOWEVER, if they come back with:
Thanks for answering so fast, I would love to get to know you better, I believe we could be soul mates and someone Ive been searching for forever....blah blah, you get the drift
I simply write back and give him the following yahoo address...
Sux2Bu@yahoo
I dont understand why I dont hear from them any more.
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8/16/2010 3:15:15 PM |
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arbedsamoht
Indianapolis, IN
age: 52
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utahgal1 that is too funny! I will remember that! Thanks ladies for the feedback that's pretty much what I was thinking too, but I am so suspecious about these sites I just wanted to make sure I wasn't over-reacting!
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8/16/2010 6:23:57 PM |
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utahgal1
Ogden, UT
age: 51
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Thanks, Arb.......I copied and pasted from FishingMom. She's a fantastic person to interact with about scammers. Don't be shy........chat with her anytime.
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8/20/2010 4:50:51 PM |
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fisherwoman2010
Loretto, KY
age: 57
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I opened a hotmail messenger and email box to talk and email men from this datehookup site. I have a yahoo email with messenger, but only use it for personal. But...let me warn you about two things about giving out your email address if you use yahoo. I had made the mistake of giving a guy my yahoo email address. Next morning, I found out that he could send me instant messages as I was checking my email inbox and always knew when I was on that site. I never knew about this feature. I had to block him from my inbox and my yahoo messenger because he was a creep. Also...if you use yahoo messenger and have a facebook account, they will be able to access that by putting in your yahoo email address. I didn't know that either. If you do have a facebook account I would encourage you to make it so that only friends can view it.
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8/21/2010 6:49:09 PM |
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arbedsamoht
Indianapolis, IN
age: 52
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OMG I guess I broke my cherry...I've been on here a week today and the nuts are all falling out of the trees....lol Why would I put you on my friend list when we have not exchanged 1 email??
Thanks ladies for all the support that I find in here. It is so nice the way you all look out for one another and have made me feel so welcome, not to mention the great advise I have gotten. I am not giving anyone my personal email or phone number until I feel comfortable with them.
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8/23/2010 3:19:43 PM |
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catiefaye
Troy, MI
age: 52
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It's a good idea to use a throw-away email address for places like this for just that reason. I made up a new gmail account that doesn't show my real name. But unless I had an alternate Yahoo ID, I would never chat on messenger with someone from here.
I have some friends who are police detectives and one who is a computer tech and they continually remind me to be extremely cautious online. Never put your correct birthdate nor show your last name. Also do not give out your location - like maybe the biggest nearby city. One detective said that Internet crimes are the hardest to solve - like only about 1% of the criminals are ever found. So be smart; be careful, ladies!!!
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8/23/2010 3:45:25 PM |
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phina1
Walton, KY
age: 49
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OMG I guess I broke my cherry...I've been on here a week today and the nuts are all falling out of the trees....lol Why would I put you on my friend list when we have not exchanged 1 email??
My thought's exactly !
I'm the same way with my FB friends, if I don't know you or we haven't gotten to know each other then you're not a friend !
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10/9/2010 8:58:11 PM |
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calildy
Bradenton, FL
age: 59
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I keep getting guys who want to know if I have yahoo messenger and was wondering if you have any thoughts on the subject. I did do that on another site and all they wanted to do was talk about sex once you went to messenger.
I get asked that question lots. So, after contact and lots of messaging back and forth on here, if they give me their email address I give them one of mine. It's one I have that I don't use much. It's not my main one that all my friends have. This way should he start sending things to me I don't like I can cancel the account and make up another username and get another email address.
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10/11/2010 9:43:43 PM |
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april_the_1_2_c
Richmond, VA
age: 47
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Ive come across the same thing but I simply decline. Because they want to talk
sex sex sex and that gets so boring after about 10 minutes. I keep the chat
strickly here, and for the select few that Ive given my phone number too, well
when I hear the conversation going in that direction I either change the subject
or politely end the call. And they usually dont call back after a few
times---men arent as brain dead as we think they get the message and move on
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10/11/2010 10:49:35 PM |
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jasmi
Latrobe, PA
age: 54
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Well, I have given out my messenger name before and luckily nothing bad happened. But I was unaware of them being able to actually track you thru that somehow. I am not going to do that anymore!!
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10/12/2010 7:40:13 AM |
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justmysay
Wichita, KS
age: 40
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When they ask for a Yahoo Messanger acct... I run, they are just wanting to see some pix's or show you theirs... OMG.. I seen a couple and after that I was like oh, Hell NO... (when I was a newbie) chit.. that was a wake-up..
If they can't talk to you here then somethings up...
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10/12/2010 8:00:22 AM |
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cutencuddlyme
Newtown, PA
age: 36
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When they ask for a Yahoo Messanger acct... I run, they are just wanting to see some pix's or show you theirs... OMG.. I seen a couple and after that I was like oh, Hell NO... (when I was a newbie) chit.. that was a wake-up..
If they can't talk to you here then somethings up...
I agree 100%....I tell them I dont have the others here at work....I dont have them here at work but Id still say that even I did...lol
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10/12/2010 10:20:05 AM |
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phina1
Walton, KY
age: 49
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If they can't talk to you here then somethings up...
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10/12/2010 10:32:37 AM |
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musicdesign
Rocky Hill, CT
age: 49
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When they ask for a Yahoo Messanger acct... I run, they are just wanting to see some pix's or show you theirs... OMG.. I seen a couple and after that I was like oh, Hell NO... (when I was a newbie) chit.. that was a wake-up..
If they can't talk to you here then somethings up...
Yes, I agree. Last guy I let IM me was just into webcams. If you have yahoo, go into your account settings and delete anything of a personal nature. For your name but in just a period, it works.
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10/12/2010 11:02:23 AM |
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luesgirl
Cocoa, FL
age: 53
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I had one that kept putting the pressure on for my yahoo address, he wrote me on here for weeks so finally I gave in. The second day he had it he tried scamming me about his laptop crashing and him not having any cash on him. I gave him a web address to order a new computer and put it on his credit card since he said he was out of the country told him they'd send one to him. He wanted me to buy one for him and mail it to him. Of course he said he'd wire the money into my banking acct. I DON'T THINK SO!! THE IDIOT. I told him since he supposedly owned his own company take some of his escrow money being he had a contract out of the US and use it to buy another computer from his company funds. He then guaranteed me the money in return, I asked how could he do this if he isn't that great of a business man to get himself into a predicament as he said he was in. Two days later he starts IM ing me and another woman he got his woman crossed up, I played for a little while to see where it was going then told him off. Saved all his messages and sent them to DH of course I knew they couldn't do anything about him I knew they couldn't but I just wanted them to know he was trying to scam woman he found on their site. Then two weeks later he shows up on my facebook. My son-in-law requested to be his friend and put him straight.
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10/15/2010 1:49:53 PM |
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deliciouslywkd1
Suwanee, GA
age: 66
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luesgirl, I know what you're talking about and I won't repeat what I told "them", yes more than one and sometimes the same one under a new or different ID. Let's just say I lost my religion.
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10/16/2010 2:14:33 PM |
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softmyst
Lexington, KY
age: 63 online now!
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I simply write back and give him the following yahoo address...
Sux2Bu@yahoo
I dont understand why I dont hear from them any more.
Hi Ladies, I love the above answer, definitely have to remember that one.
I am new to DH and yes I have had a couple guys ask for my Yahoo address. I do not have one, soooo that was that. I have been reading your remarks and want to say thanks for the heads up!
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10/19/2010 2:12:57 PM |
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debbieb33
East Freetown, MA
age: 47
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I simply write back and give him the following yahoo address...
Sux2Bu@yahoo
I dont understand why I dont hear from them any more.[/quot
Thats a riot!!!!
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11/6/2010 1:58:47 PM |
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ladyrose56
New Castle, IN
age: 57
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I keep getting guys who want to know if I have yahoo messenger and was wondering if you have any thoughts on the subject. I did do that on another site and all they wanted to do was talk about sex once you went to messenger. Scammers also like to work offsite and take you directly to yahoo. Once they woo you (and, some can), they fish for all the info they can get from you - including photos to create new fake profiles on other sites, etc. Be careful. And true, some just want to go there to talk trash. They'll invite you to photo share, and before you know it, you're getting dirty-pecker-pics
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