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atlas5
Cranberry Twp, PA
age: 41 online now!
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i really like this girl who happens to have a bf. she tells me she wants to break up with him, but it's not happening. this has been going on a long time. we've been out a few times here and there. we work together and talk everyday at work. she agrees with me that us being together would be good and awesome, but it's not happening. does this girl have any type of interest in me? i pretty much told her all my feelings for her, but nothing is happening? should i let her go and forget about her? that would be hard since we talk at work everyday. or should i just lay off a little and she what happens?
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| 2/2/2008 3:23:25 PM |
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pwin_here_n_now
Annapolis, MD
age: 38
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Stay friends and see where it goes.... Wouldn't you miss your friendship more?
Food for thought!
P.Win
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| 2/2/2008 3:29:49 PM |
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atlas5
Cranberry Twp, PA
age: 41 online now!
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yes, we are really good friends. she just so happened to tell me a long time ago that her bf isnt for her and at the same time i was interested in her. so we became friends and went out a few times. but she is still with him. just not sure what is on her mind, doesnt tell me much.
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| 2/2/2008 3:59:32 PM |
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michaelcee
Sarasota, FL
age: 51
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Consider this....
She IS with him but going out with you.
Use whatever crayola crayons you want to color the scenario but I would color that cheating on her current boyfriend.
If she's capable of cheating on him.... what makes you think you're exempt?
I'm not passing judgement here.... just giving you something to think about
Michael
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| 2/2/2008 4:01:16 PM |
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bojo7
Debary, FL
age: 56
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I agree with Michael
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| 2/2/2008 4:01:45 PM |
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atlas5
Cranberry Twp, PA
age: 41 online now!
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i understand u fully. but we never even had sex. we just go out for a few drinks, nothing major.
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| 2/2/2008 4:04:37 PM |
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reenie4
Milwaukee, WI
age: 50 online now!
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She's playing you like a piano.... let her go and find someone who is serious about being in a healthy relationship! JMO 
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| 2/2/2008 4:18:15 PM |
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origsyn2
Great Falls, MT
age: 47
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She is using you. Keeping you in the wings in case her current relationship doesn't work she has somewhere to go. But she will keep looking and drop you like a hot potato when the next one comes by. Stay her friend but don't look for anything more. JMO
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| 2/2/2008 4:44:14 PM |
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electriclady
Saint Georges, DE
age: 48
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Heres your answer....she is still with the BF. I agree with some of the others she is playing you and no one deserves that.
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| 2/2/2008 4:49:05 PM |
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catbob
Ocala, FL
age: 33
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She has a bf so you shouldn't be trying to go out with her. What if you were dating someone and a guy was trying to get w/ your gf?
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| 2/2/2008 4:50:14 PM |
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michaelcee
Sarasota, FL
age: 51
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Let's not be too ready to judge.....
FIRST question is.... does the boyfriend know she's been out with you.
Give me a single word answer..... and then use that word for my opinion of whether you should continue seeing her.
Simple enuff..... right??
Michael
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| 2/2/2008 6:08:54 PM |
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atlas5
Cranberry Twp, PA
age: 41 online now!
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not sure if he knows. possibly yes. its not like we are dating. we are co-workers and friends. we talk a lot at work everyday and thats it. maybe an occassional text or short friendly chat on the phone. we've been out together probably 2 or 3 times, but just develeoped a close friendly relationship from work. it's kinda idiotic to just flat out blow her off and not speak to her again since we see each other and talk to each other at work. that would make me look like an idiotic jerk. my question is, should i just lay low, dont ask her to do anything anymore, dont do any nice things for her anymore, dont compliment her anymore? pull back so to speak. if i just completely ignore her, thats not being a true friend. i may have not explained it fully, its not like we went on dates, they were just a few friendly drinks and we kissed. thats it. no sex.
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| 2/2/2008 6:13:29 PM |
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freeagain17
Port Saint Lucie, FL
age: 46
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If you kissed than it wasn't "just friends". I say back off. You wouldn't want it done to you if you were the boyfriend and she was "just friends" with another guy.
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| 2/2/2008 6:14:08 PM |
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atlas5
Cranberry Twp, PA
age: 41 online now!
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i dont think she is gonna break up with him to be with me. she will break up with him for other reasons. she's been wanting to break up with him for as long as i've known her, and at the same time i so happened to be interested in her. we do a lot of talking abt things, things that u would only talk with a bf.
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| 2/2/2008 6:17:55 PM |
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horsedreamer101
Watertown, SD
age: 45
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what is is you really want in a relationship? are you willing to wait for her/?? seems like she is playing you. Good friends could be all there is, she needs to figure out what she wants. But be secure in what you want and what price you are willing to pay.
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