2/4/2008 3:13:18 PM |
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paulette1236
Madison, WI
age: 50
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I need honest talk, Is most of the on-line dating sites just to hook-up with someone for sex or has anyone really meet someone and has or having a relationship.
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2/4/2008 3:14:32 PM |
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gapeach7777
Ball Ground, GA
age: 35
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WEll Paulette, it has been my experience that yes the guys are only wanting to hook up for sex. But you never know. We may meet the love of a lifetime here.
[Edited 2/4/2008 3:21:08 PM]
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2/4/2008 3:31:15 PM |
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alex_192
Sarasota, FL
age: 55
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welcome Paulette
i am sure
most of the gals will say thay are for a serius relationship but guys are are only into sex
most of the guys will say they are looking a serious relationship but gals are too shalow
if you are patiente enought you will find nice guys here, as they are also a few nice ladies too (still hiding)
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2/4/2008 3:32:16 PM |
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magtag
East York, ON
age: 41
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There are a large number of people on dating sites looking for just sex...others looking for online sex or just something to kill the time.
BUT...not everyone out there is doing those things. There are plenty of men/women looking for a relationship online. You just have to sift though everyone to find them.
I have come across a hell of a lot more players and people looking for sex than the ones looking for relationships, but I have met a few over the years that were genuinely looking for a relationship. Hang in there and keep trying, the goods ones will rise to the surface over time!
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2/11/2008 10:21:51 PM |
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smilingatyou007
Roseburg, OR
age: 60
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I have been on and off these dating sites for two years now and have found that most are looking for sex or a playmate. Most were not honest with what they want. The different situations and stories is just amazing. We could write a book, this reminds me of politics. They go in with good intentions, thinking they can do some good, but as time goes on, they learn how to play the game. Then they are just another one that has joined the group of people that have a nice story, but it isn't worth 10cents.
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2/11/2008 11:42:36 PM |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 47
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I put on my profle what I am NOT interested in but a few men I guess haven't taken the time to read that part so I still get the messages
To answer the questions, yes there are quite a few men on here who want a relationship and not just looking for a sexual encounter. I've been on here a year (yes, a year) and I've hooked up with a man who is looking for the same thing as me ... a long term relationship . He's 1,804 miles away but relocating will change that from miles to inches. Don't even go there with the inches part
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2/11/2008 11:48:31 PM |
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446td10q7
Manitowoc, WI
age: 32
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Hay! Waite a minute I’m a guy and I’m not just looking for sex. It would be nice to get some but I want more then that. Don’t just base your opinions on what all guys want.
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2/11/2008 11:59:45 PM |
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eagleeyes7
Fort Myers, FL
age: 60
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This is a good thread, but I just asked "THE QUESTION" for the ladies to answer on one that I just started: First Meeting: What does a lady expect...
Smiling and Babe have a good take on what I have experienced on several other sites, and I suggest that the men who only want sex go to one of them and quit cluttering up this one for some of us that are seeking much more. Some of them are: SexSearch, Mate1, and AdultFriendFinder. THERE, you will get a high probability for a hot night, as I still get way too many ladies sending me pics of them in very near porn poses, with messages that are approaching vulgar. Just a thought guys........
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2/12/2008 2:27:09 AM |
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sarpedion
Southbridge, MA
age: 41
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I am one who is NOT just looking for sex.I can go to a bar and get that anytime.I have 3 kids,and want that special someone to make us a family again.You can have hot,steamy sex with anyone,but if you're just a hunk of meat to this person,what good is that?????It's much more satisfying to have a deeper connection with someone who cares about you.I want to feel her next to me all night long,every night.Not just someone to bring you instant satisfaction,then get out.I never could understand that mentality.
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2/12/2008 2:47:50 AM |
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nab5055
Medford, NJ
age: 43
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Paulette...........I have met quite a few really awesome men dating online. I am dating one now and it is not all just about sex. We are having a great time together.
Good luck in your search and yes, you have to be patient and search!
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2/12/2008 6:15:47 AM |
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smilin_bob
Broadway, VA
age: 47
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I believe this site is only a communications tool to start the "getting to know you" process. If a meeting or first date happens, it is up to the two persons to take it from there.
As for me, I am in this for the 'Long Term Relationship'. I refuse to compromise my integrity by just hooking up or prowl for sex. Neither of those bring honor to myself, or to the other person.
A problem is created when some men or some women SAY they are looking for "something meaningful", when, in reality, they are just prowling for sex. I look at is as them 'pissing my my dating pool.' If a person lies about their intentions, it damages people. That damage creates trepidation, making it harder for everyone to truly enjoy the experience.
Just my two cents.
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2/12/2008 6:28:23 AM |
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scorpion1975
Leitchfield, KY
age: 32
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Honestly....I would love to have sex and move on, but......that is not the entire purpose for being here. A NSA relationship would be an adventure for me, I have always been the "goody-goody" type and have been wondering what the "other side" is like, to be able to have sex and be done with it. I always thought I could try that, now I am not so sure.....but one never knows.
A relationship is actually what someone is willing to make out of it. It may start as just a hook-up then lead to more, it's hard to say ain't it. Basically I am just looking for someone to spend time with and do whatever comes along...if they want sex then that is a BONUS, if not then time together will suffice. My problem is I went from sex every day or every other day to 0...not by choice but by circumstance, nobody to keep me company. I am unable to find anyone to even see a movie with so if someone contacts me and all they want to do is talk then that would be wonderful. I am truly seeking someone to talk with and spend time with and as stated previously sex is not a necessity but a priviledge that would be appreciated.
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