| 2/6/2008 8:42:07 PM |
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ethie
Brentwood, NY
age: 39
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Has anyone ever been in a relationship and you felt as if you were repeatedly being convicted based on what an ex did? You're guilty before you even commit a crime?
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| 2/6/2008 8:45:15 PM |
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radarlove28
Florence, AL
age: 28
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its time to get out now dont wait any longer get away matter a fact RUNNNNNNNNNNNNNN
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| 2/6/2008 9:22:34 PM |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 47
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Yah, me being married twice could give men the wrong impression. There are always two sides to a story but they are only hearing one side ... and that would be mine. I would hope that a man could see through that I am a genuine person and what happened in my past is just that ... my past but it is still apart of my life. Made me who I am today and no I don't think I'd want to change that. I can't grow unless I learn from my mistakes.
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| 2/6/2008 9:24:28 PM |
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easy111
Eden Prairie, MN
age: 54 online now!
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From what I understand about your question Ethie is that you were or are going with a bad boy and people are assuming or accusing you of his wrong doings because you're hanging with him. It's sad that people are so mean. I guess you can stay with him but then you'll endure this hurt. I'd get out and get away as fast I could. Hell if I had a gorgeous woman like you on my arm I'd defend the heck out of your honor. Of course I'd make my life worthy for you to be with me.
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| 2/6/2008 9:25:27 PM |
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gabisanic
Pleasant Hill, CA
age: 50 online now!
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that was the story of my marriage and the continuation of my divorce. Can't shake off the fu*^$%g wench. By all means, run, run, run.
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| 2/6/2008 9:26:17 PM |
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classyguy333
West Fargo, ND
age: 57
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Through all of your posts Chopper, anyone that can't see you are genuine, is totally blind. 
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| 2/6/2008 9:29:21 PM |
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vikingbabe0801
Evansville, IN
age: 34
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if we never made mistakes, we wouldnt know what to fix
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| 2/6/2008 9:35:16 PM |
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happen
Lake Junaluska, NC
age: 45 online now!
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Yes.......and it never stopped...I was faithful for 9 yrs...thats kind of why we separated.........trust issues...... I was every bad thing her ex was for too long... it wasnt going to change....
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| 2/6/2008 10:14:45 PM |
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pasqualeeee
Lynbrook, NY
age: 43
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its unfortunate that other pple who dont appreciate the person theyre w/ ruin it for others.trust is a hard thing to come by
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| 2/6/2008 10:53:28 PM |
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oureally812
Dallas, TX
age: 33 online now!
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Ethie
been there,still have to deal with that,We humans are stupid and insecure at times,when it comes to matters of the heart.Do you judge and convict someone by seeing repeated actions that relate to prevous pains of the heart?Scary stuff,I think everyone is scared of being hurt again and this clouds judgement if your with someone who does this,they still have luggage from that past relationship and they need to learn to deal with these old issues ,Hey remind them that your not the EX if you really care for that partner,offer to go to therapy or ask them to seek it out for them selves
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| 2/7/2008 8:03:31 AM |
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ferrari348
Milford, OH
age: 46
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You have no idea how much 
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| 2/7/2008 8:28:02 AM |
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bassman1959
Santa Rosa, CA
age: 48
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I think anyone that has been divorced goes through that. Or, perhaps if you are dating a person that has been or believes that they were abused by the opposite sex. That person blames you for what has happened. I have been through that. So, I won't date women that tend to bash men.
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| 2/7/2008 10:20:49 AM |
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ferrari348
Milford, OH
age: 46
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Yeah, it's when the divorce is the EASY part of the equation when it get's disturbing
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