2/9/2008 8:20:45 AM |
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massguy
Brockton, MA
age: 32
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i dont get it, hoping someone could shed some light on this, i have one of the nicest personalities, so im told by other people.females tell me all the time, that they would rather be just friends, am in fine with that, everyone needs friends.
but im at the point that i really just dont kno what to do anymore!! i love to find a girl that would accept me for who an how i am. im wicked outgoin, i enjoy goin out an doin things . the thing that hurts me the most is that i have alot to offer, i care bout people, ive always tried to help. i dont believe in cheating, or lying.
i hate to say this in a forum but my friends an myself have tried blind dates. the outcome of those are one of two things the female either ends up leaving laughin outta control-
or they tell me id have a better chance if i was gay!!!
really i mean what the hell!!!!!! i care more bout whats on the inside, isnt that what REALLY counts?? sorry for my ranting. just looking for some advice thanks.
an just so you know, ive never had a g/f or have never been kissed.
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2/9/2008 8:41:18 AM |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 47
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or they tell me id have a better chance if i was gay!!!
Whoever told you that was very rude and you don't deserve to be talked to this way.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. When looking at a gift, you see the outside wrapping with all the decoration adorning it. Making it quite attractive so that you want to open it. But once open, if it's not what you wanted or it is empty then all you have is the wrapping. Beauty fades and doesn't last forever, so it is very important how the person is on the inside and not what is on the outside.
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2/9/2008 9:35:04 AM |
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lasttime4me
Townsend, MT
age: 63
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Hey mass, they all say they are looking for someone that has a good heart, and is loving and looks don't matter. If you believe that I have some ocean front property in Montana to sell you. Don't give up there is someone that wants nice guy. Good luck my friend.
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2/9/2008 9:45:59 AM |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 47
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Don't place everyone in the same category.
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2/9/2008 9:49:17 AM |
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new_man_45
Ogden, UT
age: 45
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I have run into women that act the same way. I figure it is their loss for not taking the time to find out if I am a nice guy or not. Karma is a b**ch. They will get what they ask for. A pretty boy with a nasty attitude.
Keep looking and don't give up. She is out there somewhere.
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2/9/2008 9:52:43 AM |
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forestrose
Calgary, AB
age: 55
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Chopper said it in her first post.,
Also, make sure that you are doing the same thing - looking at what kind
of person a woman is Inside, not just the packaging.
It sounds like you have run in to some mean women who say awful
things that hurt people, assuming they have a right.
Opinions are like A**hole* - everyone has one.
Don't give up. Be true to yourself, and keep looking for a Nice female
who may be feeling the same experiences you are.
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2/9/2008 10:03:28 AM |
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massguy
Brockton, MA
age: 32
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yea no kidding ive been hearing that same line since i was 16, an its gettin kinda old.
the sad part is, im really getting kinda tired of it. the kind of females im attracted
generally, who i think are down to earth, i dont want a model, just a kind an loving
woman, that has morals an wouldnt mind hold hands in public with me. with the looks dept
thats normal. but what i like is really just on the inside. a female that can relate
to who i am as a person.
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2/9/2008 10:07:19 AM |
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proracer
El Cajon, CA
age: 28
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Go to Nevada with some friends. Vegas has tons of chicks, and if you don't get lucky there, hit up one of the many "legal" brothels in NV. Worse it can do is boost up your confidence. Chicks in New England are head trips from my experience there.
Just my 2 cents
Pr
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2/9/2008 10:11:33 AM |
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massguy
Brockton, MA
age: 32
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nope all set, the way i see it is? if i have to pay for it up front-
with the brothel thing, id rather stay a virgin. no offense
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2/9/2008 10:14:10 AM |
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lasttime4me
Townsend, MT
age: 63
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chopper: sorry you are right, I should have said most all. but being a shadow I am finding that looks must matter.
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2/9/2008 10:23:15 AM |
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massguy
Brockton, MA
age: 32
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this is the reason ive pretty much given up in hopin to find one female, an just like your other post said looks matter! an thats the only reason in alone an single
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2/9/2008 11:03:31 AM |
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zeanah
Clarion, PA
age: 48
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Hey...I think some of us have been rejected because of how we look. I know I have! I rarely even get email or messaged by men on dating sites. It's all a risk and a gamble with how personal you take it. I know who I am and I like who I am. If a man does not find me attractive, the that's okay. I am not that full of myself to think otherwise.
There has to be an initial attraction for everyone and if we say otherwise, we are in denial. I too have to have some attraction physically to a man. There is more to dating someone, but it is our nature to be drawn to a persons look initially. I have been in situations where I was not that attracted to a man and after spending time with him, I liked who he was and he became more attractive.
As for those girls who were nasty to you....good riddens! Even if they were pretty, their heart was ugly for being that way. Be confident in who you are. Show it, be yourself and hold your head high. Show people you like who you are and you may become even more appealing! Confidense, not c*ckiness, is a real turn on to most women.
Hang in there and don't give up, because you only then give up on yourself!
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2/9/2008 11:06:53 AM |
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proracer
El Cajon, CA
age: 28
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Sounds like a case of Superbowlus Patrioticus depression then
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2/9/2008 11:07:24 AM |
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icedsnow
Broken Arrow, OK
age: 44
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We I'd like the answer to the same question for the MEN.....regarding a woman's physical looks
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2/9/2008 11:42:19 AM |
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massguy
Brockton, MA
age: 32
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ummm, no not really. im not into football now hockey thats my sport.
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