2/16/2008 10:52:40 AM |
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doyouwanttoo
Morganton, NC
age: 51
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Dont understand some people This is a dating site and seems like when you send people a email they dont even have the courtesy to answer you back . So if thats you why are you here ? You should always answer someone back if they take the time to email you whether its a interested or not And if you dont want to meet and go out why you on a dating site I mean even if you meet someone and it dont work out The worst thing that could happen is that you make a friend !!
[Edited 2/16/2008 11:20:36 AM]
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2/16/2008 12:26:15 PM |
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goldangel
Hickory, NC
age: 55
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Hi Morganton you are just above me,
well maybe they have not sean your e-mail yet go to inbox and to send
see if it had been read or deleted, remember they are looking for the
same as you the best not less,give it time.
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2/17/2008 7:11:04 AM |
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gotcha1234
Waxhaw, NC
age: 47
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I do understand exactly where you are coming from. The first thing to remember is we all have preferences of what we are looking for. If someone does not feel you fit thier preferences, one would hope that they at least have the courtesy to "just say no thanks". I also find alot of women, and I guess men also, are just using this site as a gab site. They have nothing to do at work, why not talk to strangers they have no intention on meeting. Passes the time for some. Just hang in there, as there are plenty of good, honest, attractive, your preference type women just waiting for you to wink at them or send an email to. Dont give up!!!
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2/17/2008 8:47:23 AM |
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doyouwanttoo
Morganton, NC
age: 51
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See thats exactly what Im talking about Glad Im not by myself in my thinking This is a dating site not a gab site lol
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2/17/2008 8:48:47 AM |
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doyouwanttoo
Morganton, NC
age: 51
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Yes I check my mail and they said read but no reply Been doing this a while so yep I know how to use the site
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2/17/2008 9:44:40 AM |
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guymeister
Balsam Grove, NC
age: 60
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The question about not being courtious in email and internet is just people to me. Some nicer than others. Some out to give others to get and others still simply obseving in ways.
I get Little feed back cause I live deep in the national forest in WNC and most gals are not quite ready to do the sticks and trout steams every day. We all get set in our ways so much, I am really surprized when I hear someone say the good thing happened over cyber world.
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2/17/2008 10:48:35 AM |
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gotcha1234
Waxhaw, NC
age: 47
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Also, you have to remember that competition is tough here. You are in with the country, half of which are exaggarating on their profiles. Women are a strange species, never know what they are going to do. I find a tell tale sign of what they are really interested in is to look at the bottom of their profile and check out the friends they have saved. Tells me if I even want to bother wasting my time. You may see a 40 yr old women with a 22 year old body builder on her list, so she is really not looking for a relationship now is she................
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2/17/2008 11:21:30 AM |
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rich101
Lillington, NC
age: 52
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That buddy list you can’t always go by, I have a range of fokes on mine. I look at what they have posted in other post. Are they consistent with their mannerism of posting, or highly contradictive. Woman are doing the same thing we are, sorting out, and yes competition is tuff. You may want to come out from the bushes also.
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2/17/2008 11:32:15 AM |
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goldangel
Hickory, NC
age: 55
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Yes Morganton come on out no used to hide, the friends list
on mine are just people I e-mail or talk to by phone and some have ladies
they are going to marry. I have no one yet just friends.don't send winks,
e-mail them and some will just delete after reading your profile if no instrest .
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2/17/2008 5:49:53 PM |
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spirit139
Apex, NC
age: 50
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I agree that people should respond when they get email or messages. I always read the profile of the sender first, and if it's someone I know I could not 'click' with, I still send back mail thanking them for writing, but letting them know we probably would not match up. I think you'll find people here are the same as outside the internet; some are nice -- some are not.
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2/17/2008 6:15:43 PM |
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jerrylowpro
Raleigh, NC
age: 22
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well hey every body out there. well i would like to say and in some way would like to speak for every body thats out there on the WEB DATEING. that this will one day be the best and eazyst way to meet people. this is the future people thanks for reading
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2/17/2008 7:45:52 PM |
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greeneyedgal57
Goldsboro, NC
age: 50
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im here because i am tired of hearing gosh have i got a guy for you> well i guess i can look for myself>
sorry ya"ll_ my keyboard is toggling along on its own< apparently i held the shift key down too long and its confused good night tina
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2/19/2008 7:31:27 PM |
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heraldsunshine
Huntersville, NC
age: 47
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Do You Want To -- I did reply to your recent Email.
I wonder if your name is turning them off? Quite frankly, women on here get many unsolicited requests for physical activity and when I saw your Email in my box I thought it was another one based on the name. I almost deleted without opening what was a nice compliment on my hair. You may not mean it to mean "Do you want to _________" but that was my initial read.
Just a thought. Best of luck to you in your searching.
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2/19/2008 7:35:32 PM |
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heraldsunshine
Huntersville, NC
age: 47
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I think you are reading too much into the friends section. I have some female friends because as I was looking for love I saw some women with whom I felt a friendship connection as well as some men where the spark was absent but there was a common interest on which to build a friendship. In this world I think most people have become accustomed to multi-tasking and we would miss a great deal if we bypassed friendship on our way to love. Both types of relationships have great value.
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2/20/2008 8:07:25 PM |
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lilbittypretty1
Grifton, NC
age: 47
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Well said sunshine... Hey ya'll....I just learned of this group....glad I found ya'll, could REALLY use some NC friends I, as well, have noticed that I am not replied to, nor do I reply to some. I have an issue with not seeing who I am speaking with. But then, I am hoping it is really them. Too many horror stories online...it is kinda sad, because I feel like this is the "meeting place of the millenium". But hope to make some great, long lasting friendships along the way.
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