| 2/16/2008 9:16:58 PM |
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greg2468
Arlington, TX
age: 25
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THIS DOES NOT PERTAIN TO ALL THE WOMEN OUT THERE FOR THE RECORD!!!
Well i have to say im really confused and fed up with alot of the bs out there...Women im not putting only you out there, but it seems that almost everyone i have met on here is just completly full of shit...I get the whole yes ive been miss treated and done wrong blah blah blah...example..i got cheated on..hes a sorry ass father to our children..he drinks to much..never shows me attention..always out with his friends...doesnt make me feel important...so on and so forth....
My b*tch is simply this ladies..
I get the ...All i want is a good man..someone to be there for me ect..you get where im going with that..And as soon as you get one that comes along what do you do????SHIT on him...Im not a conceded man although i am good looking man...as far as the inside stuff like morals,values,and that shit i am...because i know what some men are like and are and id like to classify myself as one of the good ones...Im just really fed up with all of this and tired of getting that same ol routien with the women that proclaim that they know what they want and have really no idea what they want..but what they need is a damn therapist to resolve some of those f*cked up emotions and issues in there head...
Just for the record ive been f*cked around on countless times..been done dirty to the highest possible way...But i dont think that all women are the same..However i am beginning to think that u are...
Ive heard the question come out here alot of time..Why arent there anymore good men in this world??
ANSWER:They got tired of being shit on and said the hell with it...
Come clean ladies and just be honest when a man asks what do you want...
Tell him the truth..i want that guy that is going to shit on me and treat me like shit cause im use to it and now have a low selfesteem and dont beleive that i actually can handle when a good man comes along and treats me great.....Because that is the truth..
Flag me or whatever i really could give a damn right now..all ive gotten from this website is drama and confussion....to throw this out there ladies i am a damn good man...i dont drink...dont go to bars..dont do drugs of any kind...never cheated on anyone ive been with ever..and respect women to the fullest...All i want out of life is a family and someone to love me the way i love them..to wake up in the morning and be able to put a smile on her face the way she puts one on mine...to put it simply just be happy...
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| 2/16/2008 9:29:20 PM |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 47
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What would be the difference between online and real life??? None. Yah, I get tired of reading the threads on Are there any decent man/woman??? and yes I comment on those as well. I know there are decent men and women on here for I read the threads. I don't need to post a thread asking that type of question for I already know the answers by reading the threads.
I think some people are in too much of a rush into finding someone that especially in today's world things get done faster than the past that it has been passed on to relationships. Sorry but that just isn't gonna happen in real life nor on a website.
We all have luggage that we carry with us and we tend to open the cases once in awhile to peak in it to remind us of what we went through and hopefully we have learned from it.
Hang in there for not all people are into the drama thing.
[Edited 2/16/2008 9:30:17 PM]
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| 2/16/2008 9:33:26 PM |
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dutchboy4u
Huntington Beach, CA
age: 44
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Time for a time out!
There are good ladies in this world and it's your job to sift through the broken and troubled to find the one that will fit your desires.
I honestly feel what you are saying. Pretty much been there and done that. But I have come to the realization that there are good people out here. You just need to find them.
Sorry, it's just the way of the world we live in.
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| 2/16/2008 9:40:57 PM |
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greg2468
Arlington, TX
age: 25
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thank you chopper....you out of all seem to be nice and im glad that you have met your one and only..although it is very dis heartning to have to crawl through hell to find someone that actually is great...i feel cursed and destined at times to be alone forever.. which really sucks cause i know i have alot to offer...
i agree with you brother but i am at a point where enough is enough...just want some women to come clean and be honest..it isnt a hard thing to do..
[Edited 2/16/2008 9:42:51 PM]
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| 2/16/2008 9:56:07 PM |
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tinkerbell48
Anderson, IN
age: 48
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greg2468-I have met so many young men that feels the same as you do. My son,25, a US Marine, can't find anyone. I wish I could start a dating service just for your age group.Wouldn't have a clue. But it's sad for u young men and women to be so dishearted.In this day and age,imo,you have to shovel thru alot of bs. Don't give up! and don't rush into anything. Where do you go to meet women? I'm kind of new to this,it's probably been done a thousand times. I should start a thread, where do u meet the opposite sex.
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| 2/16/2008 10:00:11 PM |
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greg2468
Arlington, TX
age: 25
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well i dont drink..so dont really go to the bar scene...i usually have met women on here...My sister tells me i need to go to church but just not to sure about going and feeling great about going for one thing and not the other ..if that makes sense..
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| 2/16/2008 10:27:17 PM |
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katiescarlett72
Dallas, TX
age: 35
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Calm down. You're 25.
The whole broken/tortured thing is why I have the rule about not being with people who are separated or newly divorced/broken up. It takes time for adults to get their emotional act back together after a relationship, and if they don't realize that and haven't invested that time, then I don't want to get dragged into the neverending chain where they hop from one miserable relationship to the next.
I guess I'm confused at why you're getting so deeply involved with all these different disturbed women, that it's causing you so much anger and frustration to extricate yourself? Maybe keep a little distance on things for a while with the next one?
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| 2/16/2008 11:44:08 PM |
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greg2468
Arlington, TX
age: 25
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well scarlet..to inform you i am not out of a bad relationship or nor do i get to involved to quick with anyone..i keep my distance because of this very reason...no need to get so offensive about it...like i said i wasnt refering to all women..cap. letters at the top?...it is the deranged ones i am refering to that seem to say i want a sweet guy/good man and when they meet one they really dont appreciate it or know how to treat him in return...25 yes i am still young but my age has nothing to do with the fact there are alot of values and morals missing in alot of women these days....ie younger women
and im calm..just tired of the bullshit thats it...honesty is a hard thing to come by these days???
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| 2/16/2008 11:50:29 PM |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 47
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I see a lot of vows and morals that seem to just mean nothing to a few men and women. But I also see that in real life as well so it's not just an online thing. I guess I must be old fashioned in a lot of ways ... or just stubborn 
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| 2/16/2008 11:54:45 PM |
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radarlove28
Florence, AL
age: 28
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hey i tell you what you need to do if they really want you let them do the talking if they want you bad enough they will stick around for a while. while you say, huh, yeah,thats right, dont give in to much just enough to make them wonder if your coming or going and then they really be writing... and if they want to to meet you tell them were you want to meet them at and make sure the place got a telephone so they can call when they get there... theres alot of ways to catch BS on here. i give you luck... it should work just give it a try....
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| 2/17/2008 12:49:29 AM |
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mzzzwright
El Dorado Hills, CA
age: 38
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Greg,
I feel what you are saying... completely. You know your value, and are not willing to put up with anything less than you deserve, and that says an awful lot right there... Especially for someone your age. Don't lose track of what you expect, and hang in there. There's a girl out there somewhere that is a perfect match for you, and I have a feeling you will make someone really happy some day.
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| 2/17/2008 4:40:08 AM |
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angelsart
O Fallon, IL
age: 38
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Unfortunately the dating world isn't any different from any OTHER part of the world! There will always be ppl who only care about getting what THEY want and who are willing to say and do anything to get it, HENCE the BS!! lol
Also, you have to take into account that a lot of ppl really DON'T know exactly what they want. They have never really taken the time to figure out exactly who THEY are, and if you don't really know who you HONESTLY are, deep down in places you don't often talk about, then you cant possibly know what you really want from someone else!? It can be a scary thing to be completely honest with YOURSELF about WHO YOU ARE!!!
After my ex fiance died, I spent 8 years single discovering that very thing (and I highly recommend it!! Well, hopefully it doesn't take YOU that long! LOL)
And I can feel for you on the 'you say you want this, but when you get it?' thing, happens to me all the time! But, unless you want to spend the rest of your life alone the only thing you can do is try desperately not to get too jaded and let it roll off you best you can and move on to the next in line and hope that eventually you'll find the one you're looking for?!
Like they say, its not how hard you fall... its how quickly you get back up!
Good luck and chin up! You're still young! :0)
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| 2/17/2008 5:06:19 AM |
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mefirstplease
Jacksonville, FL
age: 57
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I have found alot on here that just bold face lie! I am in no hurry, but damn, I am tired of being alone!
There was one man on here that I ended up caring alot for, we were together for several months. He didn't live close but we managed, and I thought he cared too, then out of the blue, nothing. He went from calling me 4-5 times a day, to nothing. Wouldn't answer emails, calls ... nothing.
I am so sick of the High School games. Good Lord! I am 57 years old...not going to play the silly games.
I am a great woman, and deserve alot more than what I get, and I am not going to settle.
And I am like most of you on here, don't do the bar scene, and I work every day, this is the only way I know to meet anyone.
Thinking of becomeing a Nun. Nun today, nun tomorrow and nun the next day!
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| 2/17/2008 5:32:24 AM |
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bella2020
Lebanon, OH
age: 47
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I really don't want to shit on anyone including a man .But after you hear all the kiss ass sweet nice stuff that is said on all the dating sites then when you meet or if it takes a while to meet then the truth comes out .They only want in your pants that was all bullshit leading up to .The main issue of talking on the differant dating sites is trying to have sex with u. its all a game. You play the game as far as you want then get out or go all the way which ever one you can live with . Thats my experiance with dating sites.Its all bullshit
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| 2/17/2008 6:20:41 AM |
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cmjanew
Sayre, PA
age: 48 online now!
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Greg meet Bella
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