| 2/20/2008 10:21:46 AM |
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smallvile2444
Avon, OH
age: 26
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i haven't been here to this site long and i have messaged many people and no replies. i wonder why? i am looking for friendships and maybe down the road something more. but no one in ohio seems to want that from me. why?
i want to find a few female friends is that so wrong? i been told that being friends with women is better then dating them. because you never know if that woman you are friends with will turn out to be your future wife.
i honestly wish that when message people will reply and tell me to either back off or say hello back. i'm not a bad guy, just a lonely guy looking for my future love.
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| 2/20/2008 10:55:49 AM |
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missclassy48
Sedalia, MO
age: 59
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Smallvile, don't give up. you havent been on here long give it some time. maybe you will hear from someone who cares. and want to be your freind. hang in there, your young,there is still time. don't give up.
MISS CLASSY  
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| 2/27/2008 11:55:38 AM |
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smallvile2444
Avon, OH
age: 26
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thank you for your reply. i try not to give up, but women are hard to please. i updated my profile so maybe someone will like who i am and what i am looking for.
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| 2/27/2008 12:09:34 PM |
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brownsugar25
Gainesville, FL
age: 25
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this is what u put in ur profile: "the looks department.
i am looking for a woman with dark hair, 5 feet 0 inchs tall - 5 feet 7 inchs tall. 18-30 years od age, with full lips dark or light eyes and a beautiful smile. soft skin that feels like silk and great legs. oh and a cute nose" and this is why ur probably not recieving any responses. ur to much into looks and woman dont dig that ur future wife as u say might not be the woman u described in ur profile, skin that feel like silk , not possible dont dscribe woman the way u want them to look just let them come and then u chose which one suites u better. Good Luck
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| 2/27/2008 3:17:41 PM |
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pichick712
Brookhaven, PA
age: 49
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You are adorable. Keep posting in the forums and you will meet people and who knows. It does take time.
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| 3/1/2008 8:36:03 AM |
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smallvile2444
Avon, OH
age: 26
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well i am very picky when it comes to women, due to being played time and time again. i rather be picky then to end up with someone i won't even like.
i really didn't post to get opinions from people i don't even know. i didn't ask for people to tell me what i can and can not put into my profile or what i look for in a woman. because i been judged on my looks from countless of women so i have the right to do the same.
sure not all women are the same, and i am very aware that women are not perfect and neither are men. but we all are allowed to have a certain type of woman and man we want to like and or love.
so try not to give me advice on what you think i should go for.
Thank You,
Eddy.
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| 3/1/2008 9:05:15 AM |
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ladychef
Asbury Park, NJ
age: 46
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Hang in there. You will meet the right person when the time is right. Let go and let God, and keep on smiling.
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| 3/1/2008 9:15:24 AM |
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barbilicious
Cleveland, OH
age: 38
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smallvile, maybe youre just alittle nervous, I know I am, joined yesterday and just now posting in the forums, just take your time and have fun.
Smooches
Barbie
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| 3/1/2008 9:24:50 AM |
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temp46
Lake City, TN
age: 46
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Smallville, I agree with Brownsugar, Your too specific. Open it up some and see what happens.
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| 3/1/2008 9:43:38 AM |
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i3uddha
Riverside, CA
age: 30
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well i am very picky when it comes to women, due to being played time and time again. i rather be picky then to end up with someone i won't even like.
i really didn't post to get opinions from people i don't even know. i didn't ask for people to tell me what i can and can not put into my profile or what i look for in a woman. because i been judged on my looks from countless of women so i have the right to do the same.
sure not all women are the same, and i am very aware that women are not perfect and neither are men. but we all are allowed to have a certain type of woman and man we want to like and or love.
so try not to give me advice on what you think i should go for.
Thank You,
Eddy.
you didnt ask for opinions on ur profile - but u asked ppl why u msgd many times &
havent gotten any replies...
they were just being helpful & giving u a heads up.
cant have it both ways.
if u want to be specific & picky (not a bad thing) dont expect lots of replies or hits.
& youre exactly right... since you are being judged on ur looks, u can do the same.
so keep that in mind. all these ladies have a right to not talk to you bec maybe theyre being "picky" and youre not their type.
best to stay patient. good luck to ya.
[Edited 3/1/2008 9:44:21 AM]
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| 3/1/2008 9:49:31 AM |
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eyeswideopened
Huntington Beach, CA
age: 43
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I think your expectations are too high.
You want people to be like you and give you the courtesy of a response. I agree, it is rude not to respond, however, if you are just sending winks and not emails, then I will tell you now they are just deleted (in my case at least). If they are emails and you are not getting any responses, that shows their character so be thankful you don't have to deal with them.
Also, don't expect to put a profile up and be married next month. This is the internet....it takes time and you have to do a lot of fishing to catch that one special fish.
Good luck and love yourself....being single is a beautiful thing!
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| 3/1/2008 10:03:09 AM |
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smilin_bob
Broadway, VA
age: 47 online now!
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Smallvil, Patience my brother.. Patience.
This site, or any other dating site is NOT the cornucopia of the dating world. Do not set up a false expectation that you will find immedidate dates, an immediate match, or that women on this site are desperate for a date / mate.
Remember that when you are on a dating site, there may be thousands of women's profiles that catch your eye. Also remember that THEY also see thousands of men's profiles that catch their eye.
It is competitive. You have put yourself into a pool of thousands of other men. You may have great qualities as a person. You may have excellent and honorable intentions. You know what YOU want, and that is half the battle.
I have found that the forums are a great way to get to know people, see how they think, let them know how you think, and let them understand what you are all about.
Some people (men and women) have been here a long time because they KNOW what they are looking for. They will search long and hard. They will take their time. They will show patience. They will be wise in their choices.
Some people come here, look for a quick fix and hook-up, end up being disappointed, then lament about their follies in the forums.
I wish you the best of luck, my brother!
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| 3/1/2008 11:23:15 AM |
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tfortexas
Big Sandy, TX
age: 56
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Smallville maybe your fishing in the wrong pond first try changing the bait and if that doesn't work find another pond
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| 3/1/2008 11:57:24 AM |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 47
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well i am very picky when it comes to women, due to being played time and time again. i rather be picky then to end up with someone i won't even like.
You state that you are picky yet you set your criteria for a woman with dark hair, 5 feet 0 inchs tall - 5 feet 7 inchs tall. 18-30 years od age, with full lips dark or light eyes and a beautiful smile. soft skin that feels like silk and great legs. Do you think that outside this criteria are the only ones that are players???
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| 3/1/2008 12:02:47 PM |
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hotdoggy13
Nazareth, PA
age: 49 online now!
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