| 3/2/2008 7:32:07 AM |
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chivatree
Athens, GA
age: 56
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Kila,
You are right in avoiding men that talk about sex or want it after the 1st,2nd, or 3rd date. First of all, rule #1 with me in chatting with a lady, I don't start a subject about sex unless the lady starts the subject. Normally she might ask me a question, and I will answer, but... I normally don't follow it with another about sex unless it is a related subject. As far as sex on the 1st date. Normally not "my cup of tea" I like to get to know someone before I jump into bed. Too much STD.
Have I turned sex down, the answer is affirmative. Example: Washington DC is a wild town first of all, and it was the first town where some years ago, I was dancing and having drinks with a lady and the lady asked me to bed after just meeting. I was somewhat taken back and actually thought the lady might be a "lady of the night". She wasn't and I saw her a few times on other visits to the place, and eventually we made love.
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| 3/4/2008 6:23:42 AM |
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kila14
Lawrenceville, GA
age: 29
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Hey everyone. Thanks for all the posts. I like to hear what everyone thinks on this subject. Keep the posts coming.
Kila
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| 3/8/2008 10:39:23 AM |
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needanicefellow
Chatsworth, GA
age: 61
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no sweepea, the "men" out there think they are some "young hunks" i guess they don't look in the mirror...(lol) you are right, any girl who dates a man twice her age is only looking for money, and any guy who dates younger women usually has it, so there you go, these people don't know how to face reality and get over themselves... keep looking the right guy snd the right age will find you, don't worry. as i tell my daughter, 'This time YOU pick HIM, CAUSE EVERY TIME he picks YOU, he's the wrong one !!! good luck sweetie...
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| 3/8/2008 1:39:32 PM |
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stardot
Jonesboro, GA
age: 49
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Kila I think you're right on track... tell gramps to come and go hike with me... lol... and on the other end of the spectrum...
Kathy, I love your response. As a fabulous woman of 49 I find it rather humorous that 18 yo's would contact me. Personally, "sup" is not in my vocabulary except with the suffix "per." I'm not opposed to dating someone younger, say 5-6 years but I really like having something in common without feeling motherly... smiles... I usually tell them they have to meet my 30 yo son... they usually don't reply back to that either, Kathy. As a 49 and fabulous female I'm very active and enjoy the fact that I don't have to prove anything to anyone. I like my men that way too, secure, confident and mature...
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| 6/9/2008 6:58:48 PM |
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32761mickey
Austell, GA
age: 47 online now!
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I think some people just reach out and see what bites...you never know..some young woman might be into that sort of thing and they will get lucky. I am like you though kila, I want someone closer to my age.
Gotta agree with this young fella
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| 6/9/2008 9:27:46 PM |
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lori21204
Commerce, GA
age: 24
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I think some people just reach out and see what bites...you never know..some young woman might be into that sort of thing and they will get lucky. I am like you though kila, I want someone closer to my age.
Gotta agree with this young fella
He is a smart man!!
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| 6/10/2008 5:11:34 AM |
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32761mickey
Austell, GA
age: 47 online now!
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thank you sweet lori
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