2/24/2008 1:40:48 PM |
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countrysweet07
Clifton, CO
age: 47
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ok ladies i know some of you and you men can relate.why is it after the name intro and short life stories the date turns every other word to something sexual. theres more to me then sex...yeah i love sex but what happened to getting to know someone first...and they seem to not care you have kids i come has a package deal,i'm not here for sex or one night stands. where are the real geniune men? i know you guys are out there!!!
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2/24/2008 1:46:23 PM |
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southbuster
Haughton, LA
age: 31 online now!
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Well I guess its my southern charm that I have no control over. I think genuine men are all over but if a woman makes advances toward sexual relations on a first date.....even the BEST man has a hard time controlling himself.
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2/24/2008 1:51:45 PM |
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countrysweet07
Clifton, CO
age: 47
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ok if i was sexually attracted to him it would be a totally different story but no advances from me there...i do have to say a short stay in la i did meet the nicest sweetest men...
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2/24/2008 1:59:28 PM |
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southbuster
Haughton, LA
age: 31 online now!
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they dont grow em anywhere else
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2/24/2008 1:59:53 PM |
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oldeschoolcharm
San Diego, CA
age: 46
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If a woman I just met made advances, I'd think very little of her suitability for me.
I wouldn't necessarily think badly of her -- who am I to judge the morals of those who like one-night stands, or rushing relationships. But, they'd not be compatible with me.
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2/24/2008 2:01:10 PM |
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dutchboy4u
Huntington Beach, CA
age: 44 online now!
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It's all about who you date. Sounds like you need to do a bit more screening before you go out on that date.
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2/24/2008 2:02:28 PM |
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cozzykitten_383
White Cloud, MI
age: 38
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well i was with a man that cold not perform off his cancer 3 years didnt bother me we just were best friends now he has passed on ben 4 years now no sex well i think i need some some time
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2/24/2008 2:03:48 PM |
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countrysweet07
Clifton, CO
age: 47
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yeah i din't think badly of him i actually took it has a complement...i just wish i could find one nice man who kept those remarks to himself until we got to know each other...
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2/24/2008 2:07:15 PM |
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eroticartist
White Plains, NY
age: 49
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maybe because men (or some men) are emotionally immature
I do think first dates should be left sexless unless there's absolute passion involved
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2/24/2008 2:08:29 PM |
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countrysweet07
Clifton, CO
age: 47
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so dutchboy am i suppossed to first ask i he finds me sexually attractive...and if i don't have the same feelings end the date there...? it just gets uncomfortable to always be thought of sexually i just wanted a normal date not to much to ask for.
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2/24/2008 2:26:21 PM |
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mikentenn
Parsons, TN
age: 42
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I think it's the pace you set. We all know how to steer conversation towards sex. try a few topics to talk about you think might intrest him like sports or something
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2/24/2008 2:30:23 PM |
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sitkarains
Sitka, AK
age: 47 online now!
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I hear about this alot. But I have to be the most sexually unappealing woman on the face of this earth since I have not had this problem since high school. My dating experience has been the totally opposite. I often have wondered if and when they were finally going to get the nerve up to kiss me.
The last time I had a relationship, I am the one that finally reached out and laid a lip lock on him.. Gee whiz
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2/24/2008 2:31:58 PM |
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gonesailingbabe
Des Moines, IA
age: 44
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If this is truly a situation with someone I am likely to be dating in real life and the conversation becomes sexual in a manner unwelcome or unwanted then I exit the relationship - immediately. No question. And in real life - I do not condone nor support sex on a first date - ever.
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2/24/2008 2:37:25 PM |
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bonsaijoe
Vero Beach, FL
age: 40
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i believe you should wait to a degree there are different levels of a relationship with this internet thing
you could be in a pretty serious relationship with email phone and cam and never really meet so it all depends on the level of the relationship
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2/24/2008 2:39:26 PM |
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marc2b4
Michigan, ND
age: 46 online now!
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R, you should feel fortunate that you live so far away, cuz I'd follow you around like a lovesick little puppy. That's my story, and I'm sticking too it. Yeah BayBee, but I've told you that before
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