| 2/18/2011 10:09:51 PM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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jerseyjon
Mount Holly, NJ
age: 41
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| 1. Do you ignore their flirting? |
| 2. Do you slip them your number? |
| 3. Do you tell your date you like their friend? |
| 4. Do you try to take them both home? |
| 5. Do you just call the whole thing off? |
| 6. Do you try to get alone with their friend. |
It's your first date and your date has brought an unexpected friend along.You find them very attractive and they are flirting with you .Your date acts rather bored an uninterested in you.What do you do? vote above
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| 2/18/2011 10:45:42 PM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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1mantis
Louisville, KY
age: 44
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If they brought an unexpected friend on date, that would be their date, not me.
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| 2/18/2011 10:46:42 PM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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sazyy
Victoria
Australia
age: 44
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tell them both to go home ... lol
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| 2/18/2011 10:48:24 PM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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gator59
Las Vegas, NV
age: 51
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If they brought an unexpected friend on date, that would be their date, not me.
I agree mantis
Are you serious with this thread? 
I would leave them both forget it
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| 2/18/2011 10:55:27 PM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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custislong
Riddle, OR
age: 52
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The last time that happened to me was in 1989. I spent a year living in a small town about 100 miles from my present location. There was a very attractive girl working on my shift and one night I asked her for a date. She said yes. We were to meet at an upscale local restaurant the next night.
I had just gotten to the restaurant and got a table when she walked in with a girlfriend. Curious and a bit amused, I sat there and made small talk with them and waited for an explanation. When she got to saying that she was afraid to go on a date alone with someone she did not know, I quietly and politely wished them goodnight and walked out. No high school crap for this boy.
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| 2/18/2011 11:00:54 PM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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bigbazborn
Buellton, CA
age: 46 online now!
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Unzip my fly and announce the BJ contest has begun.
Bry 
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| 2/18/2011 11:09:59 PM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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ink_me
Belfast, ME
age: 21
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I've been the expected friend and I felt akward, my daddy always told me to hang with the ugly chicks and sadly thats how it happaned so I really don't go anywhere with my friends unless it's to do my laundry lol cause then I look like hell too lol
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| 2/18/2011 11:34:33 PM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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das74
Santa Maria, CA
age: 36
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Honestly? Then it is not technically a date but more of a gathering and if you wanted this you could have gotten together with your friends at a bar and gained the same effect..Not a situation for anyone to put someone else in...and if you agree? Then "Good enough for you"
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| 2/18/2011 11:44:12 PM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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littlebree
Albuquerque, NM
age: 47
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what the f--- chuck get off me.....
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| 2/18/2011 11:45:26 PM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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shaneladd
Bakersfield, CA
age: 57
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It has happened to me several times, and in my case, the girl brought a male friend along. Turned out I only thought it was a date. Silly me.
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| 2/18/2011 11:51:40 PM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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mercsman
Oakhurst, CA
age: 41
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I can easily understand a woman brining a friend along and could overlook that with no problem, but her friend hitting on me.... nope would call them both out on that one.
Especially if the other was looking bored etc. I would likely say... you could have said no rather than trying to bring someone else to get my attention.... would than say good night to both.
Luckily I have never really been hit on so have never had this particular problem LOL
ETA: Oops a fib, I did have this one lady grab my hair (in a nice way) and say, I love your hair... I was in line at the gas station and found out after she left that her husband was in the car out front waiting for her! The attendant at the gas station was laughing his butt off as he knew her from the area etc and so he told me about that... So I was hit on once that I know of. 
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| 2/18/2011 11:51:45 PM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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wordsmith4000
Detroit, MI
age: 56
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The whole thing sounds wrong and weird. so what if you're attracted to the date's friend. If you're the, how do i say this, kind of tough, confident type, and there's some SEX to be had, go for it!
But if you're somebody who cant or doesnt want to, handle the possible drama that goes along with this situation, GET THE HELL OUT OF THERE!!!!!!!!!!!
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| 2/18/2011 11:52:39 PM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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wordsmith4000
Detroit, MI
age: 56
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tell them both to go home ... lol
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| 2/18/2011 11:52:47 PM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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ladyog
The Dalles, OR
age: 55
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Anybody that brings a friend on a date..male or female is a dipshit.....and needs to grow up...if you need that much moral support and can't go it alone..maybe you shouldn't be dating at all...
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| 2/18/2011 11:53:18 PM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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wordsmith4000
Detroit, MI
age: 56
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Unzip my fly and announce the BJ contest has begun.
Bry
HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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| 2/18/2011 11:54:13 PM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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earthygirl68
Atlanta, GA
age: 42
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Anybody that brings a friend on a date..male or female is a dipshit.....and needs to grow up...if you need that much moral support and can't go it alone..maybe you shouldn't be dating at all...
This one!
Morning (Evening) Ms Og! 
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| 2/18/2011 11:57:39 PM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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ladyog
The Dalles, OR
age: 55
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Mornin to you Earthy...night to me....
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| 2/19/2011 12:36:44 AM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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pwin_here_n_now
Annapolis, MD
age: 41
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Sorry but any person that goes to meet someone for the first time, and can't show up by themselves is not EQ mature enough to be on the dating scene...
And anyone who agrees to accompany... just as bad!
If I have doubts... I call a friend and set up a time to "Call In".... all the convo needs to be is, I am fine all is well. If you don't hear from by such and such time again later... then take action if you can't contact me on my cell.
Peace
P.Win
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| 2/19/2011 12:41:58 AM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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th6231
Point Pleasant Beach, NJ
age: 63
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Do the honorable Jersey thing--slip him a note--wink and say that you would like a call. Three on a first date is silly---but why be miserable if you can salvage it by dating the other person later on.
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| 2/19/2011 12:47:00 AM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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2wheelpilot
Blackshear, GA
age: 42 online now!
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Unzip my fly and announce the BJ contest has begun.
Bry
 
-chip
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| 2/19/2011 1:43:52 AM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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youdontnomeyet
Henderson, NV
age: 50
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ignore the flirting.
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| 2/19/2011 1:48:53 AM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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lovethelake17
Henderson, NV
age: 52
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I would think that he wasn't all that interested anymore, and brought the friend along in the hopes that his date and his friend would hit it off.
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| 2/19/2011 6:27:26 AM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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_settee
Flower Mound, TX
age: 57
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Stick around for 30 minutes, have a drink, then tell them both, I'm off to wash my truck...gotta go..
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| 2/19/2011 6:37:27 AM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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becky_2010
Sevierville, TN
age: 42 online now!
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It's your first date and your date has brought an unexpected friend along.You find them very attractive and they are flirting with you .Your date acts rather bored an uninterested in you.What do you do? vote above
Well, if it's a first date and the guy brings someone unexpectedly, that would be a little disrespectful as far as I'm concerned. Why respect someone that doesn't respect you? If I hit it off better with the other person then so be it. I'd give him my number.
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| 2/19/2011 6:39:53 AM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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libertine666
West Springfield, MA
age: 45
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I would try for a threesome.  be seeing you.
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| 2/19/2011 6:59:47 AM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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jerseyjon
Mount Holly, NJ
age: 41
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Pepper we know youd put a gay twist in there.lol
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| 2/19/2011 7:13:54 AM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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libertine666
West Springfield, MA
age: 45
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@ jon. A MFF threesome. be seeing you.
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| 2/19/2011 7:27:07 AM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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imjustavg
Colorado Springs, CO
age: 60 online now!
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That has only happened once to me. I wished them both a good night and left. Don't need that drama in my life.
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| 2/19/2011 7:42:18 AM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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yajusneverkno
Oxford, AL
age: 43
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I went with #4 both times well that was their intentions anyway lol 
God I miss those days 
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| 2/19/2011 8:31:02 AM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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icuddle
Salem, OR
age: 58
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Either neither of them has any interest in you, so nothing you do will help...or they came there planning a threesome, so you are a shoe in with both of them...if you have balls enough to try for it. Make a decision, and run with it.
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| 2/19/2011 8:32:46 AM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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kaybaymarine
Denver, CO
age: 49
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duh
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| 2/19/2011 9:53:20 AM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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jerseyjon
Mount Holly, NJ
age: 41
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Im going to go with the one that saw me first but Im going for the friend after immediate rejection.
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| 2/19/2011 9:56:01 AM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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loriedgier
Henderson, NV
age: 49
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It has happened to me several times, and in my case, the girl brought a male friend along. Turned out I only thought it was a date. Silly me.
Hard to believe that stuff really happens
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| 2/19/2011 10:08:12 AM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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mbpa
Philadelphia, PA
age: 36
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I would just call it off
First of all why are they bringing a friend on a date anyway what are we 17
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| 2/19/2011 10:08:51 AM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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klassy_klown
Bakersfield, CA
age: 42
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What good is a fantasy if you never realize it?
Come on boys. Have I got plans for you! LOL
Kidding.
Kind of.
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| 2/19/2011 11:02:58 AM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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walkaholic
Kent, WA
age: 43
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If it weren't set up before hand that there would be more than the 2 of us, and she brought someone, I'd walk away, and she'd never see me again. It's called respect for ohters, and she clearly doesn't have it for me if she were to do that.
But nothing in the world surprises me any more!!!
When I was youunger and this would happen, I would try to get the friends # and "hook up" with her, just to piss the so called date off!!! They need a middle finger smiley!!!!
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| 2/19/2011 11:07:17 AM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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lanabritt
Northridge, CA
age: 32
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FIRST date and they show up with a company?
HA HA I leave without even thinking twice! 
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| 2/19/2011 11:20:42 AM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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walkaholic
Kent, WA
age: 43
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FIRST date and they show up with a company?
HA HA I leave without even thinking twice!
Lana......First date? I laugh and walk away!!!!
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| 2/19/2011 11:27:36 AM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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lanabritt
Northridge, CA
age: 32
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Lana......First date? I laugh and walk away!!!!
Damn right! 
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| 2/19/2011 2:19:54 PM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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shandikiss
Lynnwood, WA
age: 44
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also i would tell the 'friend' look, i am here to meet your friend and your behavior is jeapordizing your 'friendship'. . .. . so lay the f off!!! blunt but it should work.
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| 2/19/2011 3:09:31 PM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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jerseyjon
Mount Holly, NJ
age: 41
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interesting nobody would tell their date.
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| 2/19/2011 3:37:53 PM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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onlinesometimes
Knoxville, TN
age: 42
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what the f--- chuck get off me.....
lmao
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| 2/19/2011 3:42:51 PM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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onlinesometimes
Knoxville, TN
age: 42
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Actually, I'd find, or create, an opportunity to advise the date of what's going on and ask her what her thoughts are. A date is a date so I'd keep my word about having her as my date but make sure she understands the dynamics of that particular situation. Hey, give her a chance to be part of the solution by keeping it real and honest with her.
I think that's the most critical part of this whole scenario. I don't think it'd be about me or the flirty friend but about the lady I agreed to have the date with that night.
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| 2/19/2011 3:47:11 PM |
Your date brings a friend and they are flirting... Do you? |
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mistymay77
Newnan, GA
age: 33
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Anybody that brings a friend on a date..male or female is a dipshit.....and needs to grow up...if you need that much moral support and can't go it alone..maybe you shouldn't be dating at all...
I took my sis with me the last time I met a guy off the internet, guess I am a dip shit.
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