| 3/1/2008 5:14:22 PM |
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grneyedluvr
Waverly, NY
age: 42 online now!
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the worst way to miss someone
is to be sitting right next to them
knowing that you cant have them...
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| 3/1/2008 6:00:02 PM |
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lin37
Comstock Park, MI
age: 37
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lonely sucks when you're in a bad marriage also. one way or the other you are lonely. you will be ok single.
get out an meet people or just get a hobby. that always lifts the spirits.
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| 3/1/2008 6:02:11 PM |
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pichick712
Brookhaven, PA
age: 49
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It will be OK. It really will. If the alternative was an unhappy marriage then this is a good thing. It takes time to get used to being single again, but it really will be OK!!!
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| 3/1/2008 11:50:08 PM |
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christy1513
Fruita, CO
age: 33
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So I know where you live sort of I live 12miles from you and I know what is in the area, everyone has great advice and I have to agree being lonely in a relationship is worse then just being alone. You are young and there are so many things to do in this area! Colorado Rocks!  
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| 3/1/2008 11:54:11 PM |
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livengood40
Mount Juliet, TN
age: 40
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is there a such a thing
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| 3/6/2008 2:05:56 AM |
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flowergirl62
South Australia
Australia
age: 45
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Sometimes I wonder how I ended up where I am. I didn't get married til later than most so I thought it would be a lifetime thing.
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| 3/6/2008 2:52:22 AM |
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aboomer
Little Rock, AR
age: 45
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Don`t have time to become lonely. Post marriage allows me to now come and go without being accused of being a wh*remaster. Even so, if being lonely would be the punishment, then thats far better than having a stranger, who causes your life to be chaos, living in the other end of your house. How do you get to that place to start with? Just seems to rear it`s ugly head and announce itself, and then it`s off to the lawyers office and long term debt. After that, it`s be rude with people who would pry and pursue those things that gives one happines and satisfaction. Also, make a daily effort at not even thinking about what has been, as by doing that you are giving the ex power over your thoughts and available energy. I now take delight at busting the broads that think they should attempt to make me feel guilty about watching shapely figures as they walk by. Just don`t talk to them if they have a wedding band on!
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| 3/6/2008 7:59:42 AM |
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butterflyfire
Akron, OH
age: 27
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try figuring out how to be living after a divorce with kids..... i was with their father 11 yrs... high school sweethearts and last year he decides he wants a divorce.... that was the proverbally slap in the face.... no sooner do the kids and i move out he moves his married girlfriend in.... before our divorce was even done.
i'm figuring it out one day at a time... it's getting easier and i know it will all work out in the end.
BTW... the married girlfriend is still married and now prego with my x's 5th child.... how's that for a cosmic b*tch... child support is a kick in the teeth.... I love it!
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| 3/6/2008 8:08:35 AM |
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okitisme
South Lyon, MI
age: 43
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take the time to rediscover you. It's tough but it worked for me. I would not change the marriage I was in, it was a learning experience that I know what I will tolerate in a relationship now. Get your self confidence back. Find out what you want and go for it.
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| 3/6/2008 9:05:20 AM |
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oldeschoolcharm
San Diego, CA
age: 46 online now!
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KEEP BUSY!
If you have kids, make them a priority.
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| 3/14/2008 3:45:57 AM |
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babygirl63
Holden, MO
age: 44
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life goes on,the best thing you can do is stay busy, don't so around beating up yourself or beating down the ex. that won't get ya know where. its all part of life and its all part of who we are. seek help if ya need it. just don't beat yourself up. its not worth it. good luck
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