| 3/1/2008 2:43:16 PM |
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cherry007
Marblehead, MA
age: 44
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 ive been talking with this guy , we met , had a great time , he calls me about 3 times a day , then out of nowhere , skips off the radar. usually on the weekends , or sat through mon. nite. he does a bit of traveling for his job , i cant help but wonder if im being scammed by a real smooth talking , gentlemanly acting , great guy with all the kind shit words a girl wants to hear , but he"s going M.I.A. because he really has a life going on at home , 1 state away from me , and i dont mean a guy who enjoys living , i mean a guy who enjoys cheating....... im not possesive , but its starting to piss me off. i need some help with this one. cherry... i dont have time to waste on users , but how do i tell??? i sound like a desprate jerk , i know . but damn, whens a good girl get a good break ,,, some honesty is not a lot to ask.........once again, hit without asking for it .......cherry
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| 3/1/2008 2:46:37 PM |
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57rickie
Sioux Falls, SD
age: 57
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Personally I'd say the Dude is MARRIED  
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| 3/1/2008 2:49:38 PM |
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cherry007
Marblehead, MA
age: 44
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hi ricky, said hes divorced 3 years......... oh shit, i just want to learn how not to hang my head over this type of shit
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| 3/1/2008 2:51:26 PM |
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newinil
Carlock, IL
age: 36
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Have you done any kind of background check into the guy?
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| 3/1/2008 2:53:02 PM |
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57rickie
Sioux Falls, SD
age: 57
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Hes a Good Time Guy, thats what I see. You need to not answer when he calls, emails, texts, whatever....If he can't give you his Full Attention then hes not worth playing with, at all.
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| 3/1/2008 2:56:21 PM |
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castertroy
Howell, NJ
age: 38
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Everyone needs some time off.
Either from the internet , from other people or from life itself.
Sometimes i just put on my Video Colection and disappear from the world.
Phone is off , computer is off...I believe a lot of guys that have been single for a long time tend to do that.
It's not an attempt to piss off anyone , just some time to clear the mind.
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| 3/1/2008 2:58:22 PM |
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lin37
Comstock Park, MI
age: 37
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i vote married too. i always tell people i talk to in an effort to meet that if they want to test me for being married to call me at 2am and see if a guy answers the phone. if a guy avoids the phone on certain times or days, it's a good sign that he can't answer it of won't because of the wife.
even if he's not married, he's showing his true colors by avoiding you sometimes. someone who genuinely cares for you wouldn't do that.
and another thing...i found it easy to search the public records at the county in which they live and find their vesting deed to their house and mortgage and see if a wife's name shows up? do you have a home phone numnber to do a reverse search to get an address? if you do, search the records with that. if not just use his last name to do the search with the county register of deeds.
email me if you need help. i did this for a living for 12 years. i'm good.
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| 3/1/2008 2:58:24 PM |
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hotdoggy13
Nazareth, PA
age: 49
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dump him hon youre way too goo for that. he's probably got someone on the side if he travles alot for work you know whats happining you just dont want to think about it. like I said youre too good for that. 
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| 3/1/2008 3:00:25 PM |
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jaime78
Tiffin, OH
age: 29
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hey girl..always trust your first instinct!they are good guys out there and you will find it..just give it time!wishing you the best!
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| 3/1/2008 3:08:43 PM |
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cmjanew
Sayre, PA
age: 48
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I'd say you two are off to a good start.
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| 3/1/2008 3:11:50 PM |
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sweetblueeyes1
Orlando, FL
age: 37
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Married or has a girlfriend. Find some way to try and get over him. He's not worth it.
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| 3/1/2008 3:15:37 PM |
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cherry007
Marblehead, MA
age: 44
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lets say he is attached , what happened to letting a girl know what shes getting into??? i could of said no if that was the case, or something more ...... i need to get thicker skin..........cherry ...and thanx all for the attention it took to care .... im taking it all in
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| 3/1/2008 3:24:08 PM |
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sunlady520a
Venice, FL
age: 55
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Some guys are just like that. You are not the first to ask these questions. lol I was asking them my self a few months back. Some men are just jerks.
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| 3/1/2008 3:30:05 PM |
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a_friend_4_u
Titusville, FL
age: 47
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i've learned there's always three sides of the story. yours, his, and the truth. maybe he's married (possibly), maybe you said something he didn't want to hear (without realizing it). sooner or later you'll find out. i gotta give him the benefit without hearing his side though. be patient or forget him.
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| 3/1/2008 3:34:26 PM |
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lin37
Comstock Park, MI
age: 37
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lets say he is attached , what happened to letting a girl know what shes getting into??? i could of said no if that was the case, or something more ...... i need to get thicker skin..........cherry ...and thanx all for the attention it took to care .... im taking it all in
this is NOT your responsibility. she won't listen to you anyway. she'll have to find out he's an A ** on her own.
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