| 4/10/2011 1:00:04 AM |
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onecurious
Charlotte, NC
40, joined Apr. 2011
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New to the site/boards. It seems everyone here is looking for a relationship. I'm married and looking for a discreet NSA/FWB relationship. Is this site the wrong place to be looking for a friends with benefits or NSA relationship here? I don't need negative posts as I'm just being honest while most "hide" their "other".
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| 4/10/2011 1:47:22 AM |
Friends with Benefits/NSA |
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ethansdad0813
Fayetteville, NC
35, joined Apr. 2011
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Hey to be honest, your gonna get some negative remarks bud. Yeah this site prolly isn't where you are looking for.
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| 4/10/2011 8:05:02 AM |
Friends with Benefits/NSA |
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justme5270
Garner, NC
45, joined Feb. 2011
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I beg to differ with this being the wrong site.
I have met 5 men from this site and 4 turned out to be married.
So, I suppose this is where the married men hang.
I do not approve of adultery, but appreciate your honesty.
Maybe it will save another girl from letting her heart feel for a man she thinks is single.
I feel for your wife...
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| 4/10/2011 10:46:05 AM |
Friends with Benefits/NSA |
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beachguy_nj_nc
Wilmington, NC
60, joined Apr. 2010
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New to the site/boards. It seems everyone here is looking for a relationship. I'm married and looking for a discreet NSA/FWB relationship. Is this site the wrong place to be looking for a friends with benefits or NSA relationship here? I don't need negative posts as I'm just being honest while most "hide" their "other".
Do you have any respect for your wife or yourself? 
If you don't want to be married, be a man and get unmarried. Regardless of what your marriage is like you should be treating your wife better than this. 
Do you have any character? 
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| 4/10/2011 1:41:44 PM |
Friends with Benefits/NSA |
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moosette920
Merritt, NC
61, joined Jul. 2010
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OP...you are only 35 ! There should be no problems in your marriage to cause u to be hunting for sex. If you want some spark in your life ask your wife for a date and bring back the spark in your relationship. If there is something missing ....YOU, make it happen.
Help bring back the excitement...don't look for love somewhere else. She deserves your love
and affection.
I appreciate your honesty, but divorced women and widows don't appreciate your lifestyle.
Debbie
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| 4/10/2011 2:10:48 PM |
Friends with Benefits/NSA |
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dan_i_the_white
Dallas, NC
34, joined Apr. 2011
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hello all im new and looking for friends or maby more
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| 4/10/2011 7:17:31 PM |
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justme5270
Garner, NC
45, joined Feb. 2011
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Thank you Beachguy and Seagate for showing me taht there are gentlemen out there.
I hope you each find what youa re looking for.
Both will be lucky ladies!
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| 4/11/2011 9:19:26 AM |
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untoldlegendd
Fayetteville, NC
48, joined Jul. 2008
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friends with benifits...hmmm is that as in blue cross and blue shield or dental? sex comes easy so thats not considered as a benny 
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| 4/11/2011 2:18:39 PM |
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triad_cowboy
Belews Creek, NC
52, joined Mar. 2011
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I'm sure you will fine what you looking for but........
if there not enough love, respect trust in your relationship to keep it in your pants
what the heck are you still doing marry??? to scare to get out?
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| 4/11/2011 9:19:37 PM |
Friends with Benefits/NSA |
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ragestreet
Goldsboro, NC
25, joined Sep. 2008
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I've got no issue with what you're doing as long as your wife is okay with it. The "discreet" part has me a bit worried though but apart from that good luck. It looks like you're going to need it.
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| 5/15/2011 6:56:40 PM |
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robtest
Norcross, GA
55, joined Sep. 2008
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adultfriendfinder or ashley madison would probably be a more suitable place...
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| 5/15/2011 10:35:41 PM |
Friends with Benefits/NSA |
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tadpole923
Raleigh, NC
63, joined Mar. 2011
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SATIN i'm about like TOMMY go ahead with ya bad self as for this site along with DEBBIE and the rest of us didn't realize this was a cheater site as i for one done very well here and i appreciate each and everyone of you
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| 5/15/2011 10:55:59 PM |
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moosette920
Merritt, NC
61, joined Jul. 2010
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I believe if ya married...u have no business being here. If ya need a friend with benefits start with ya spouse AND ASK THEM OUT ON A DATE. SPICE UP YA LIFE !!
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| 5/16/2011 4:40:17 PM |
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abc873
Burlington, NC
69, joined Nov. 2010
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I agree with Seagate...Well said Debbie. As for NSA..which I guess means no strings attached..there is no such thing as NSA..when you become involved with people in any way there are always strings left behind weather you want to believe it or not.
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| 5/18/2011 6:06:17 PM |
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hereforfriends
Ashton, IL
64, joined Feb. 2009
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wow ABC you are soo right, NSA no such thing, other sites if you want that, I think most people look at this site as a hookup not dating too bad.I have alot of friends and have dated a few, stay for friends....
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| 5/19/2011 6:08:49 AM |
Friends with Benefits/NSA |
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shelybean
Goldsboro, NC
47, joined Feb. 2010
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The OP mentions being honest and that most hide their other... does that mean your wife knows you are looking for more women? You wouldn't want to be dishonest and hide your other, right?
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| 5/19/2011 12:17:18 PM |
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abc873
Burlington, NC
69, joined Nov. 2010
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Thank you Hereforfriends. I am on here to meet new friends too. As for NSA, everyone we meet no matter the context of the relationship leaves a string behind...some good..some not so good. I think these posts are called "Threads". What is a "Thread" if not a string.
Have a great day!!!
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| 5/19/2011 12:40:55 PM |
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nefertitijc
Yadkinville, NC
51, joined Apr. 2011
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i'm looking for the same. hit my email [email protected] with a pic
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| 5/31/2011 8:19:16 PM |
Friends with Benefits/NSA |
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ang2942
Edmond, OK
41, joined Oct. 2010
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If you are Married no FWB that is just straight out cheating I have a FWB who I have been messing around with for over 17 months and I now know there is no such thing for me because I realized last week that I fell in love with him and can never tell him
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| 5/31/2011 10:18:59 PM |
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2shacks
Concord, NC
53, joined Jun. 2010
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Sadly, there's a lot of people who want same as you. I hope you post it in your profile so those who do not want it will not waste their time.
It frutrates me when I find out that's all they want.
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| 6/2/2011 10:11:25 AM |
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ang2942
Edmond, OK
41, joined Oct. 2010
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Ang, why can't you tell him?
I can't tell him because love is not what we signed up for lol..I do know it's time to walk away from our little arrangement tho....
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| 6/2/2011 5:22:43 PM |
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ravin10
Carolina Beach, NC
68, joined Mar. 2011
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Yepp never works my girl that I dated and planned to marry told me she wanted that kind of relationship and in least then a week we broke up. I'm not that type of guy and had been engaged for over 2 yrs. so I don't see where that kind of relationship helps it just ruins everything. Now i'm lonely and down hearted because , I really want and need someone to Love me no matter what , but it was her loss. Now I hope that theres a chance for me to love again  
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| 6/2/2011 9:09:04 PM |
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tadpole923
Raleigh, NC
63, joined Mar. 2011
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TOMMY thank you for that statement as GOD does give us the desire for the taste of food and the desire for the opposite sex FOR NO MAN WAS INTENT TO BE BY HIMSELF
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| 6/2/2011 9:46:38 PM |
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wanting26
Charlotte, NC
32, joined Mar. 2010
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nefertitijc why no men?
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| 6/3/2011 9:04:07 PM |
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ang2942
Edmond, OK
41, joined Oct. 2010
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ang,
I think you are a brave girl to come on a site like this to tell your story. It also takes a big girl to admit she has made a mistake BUT your testimony just might help many others who read this to realize:
Friends with Benefits/NSA NEVER WORKS and it NEVER WILL for long term happiness !
I wish you the best in mending your broken heart as soon as possible.
Hope this does help any one who think's FWB works..Thanks for the kind words
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| 6/3/2011 9:27:41 PM |
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ang2942
Edmond, OK
41, joined Oct. 2010
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ang, I don't know how you found our NC Chat Family all the way from California but I'm glad you did because I'm sure you have helped someone to see the light.
ravin, As long as you have love within you and continue to love you will find love. God promises us this and God does not lie!
I'm a drifter lol just browsing
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| 6/5/2011 12:05:31 PM |
Friends with Benefits/NSA |
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tonythetiger72
Wilmington, NC
43, joined May. 2011
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Hi, I are not frum China and are loking for serious long term NSA relationship possibly marriage, send $19.95 for my bus fare. Not for green card, honest.
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