chooseyme
Mohawk, NY
age: 64
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I have to wonder if there is a time....as there is for other things, you know the credit card bill is coming like once every 30 days....what I do think there is....is your openess and willingness....it is never easy to open oneself to a new beginning....we tend to make it sound so very, very easy....but it really isn't....more than the time between loves, I think we have to look at us between loves.....and while time will be part of that, it won't be the solution that we are.....
Huron....just a timy thought....from an old lady....what she was or was not, who she is or is not, why she did and did not....is not important....I know that can be an arguementive set of statements....but having been thru it I can say that I learned it had to be all about me...not the other person....I had to know in myheart of hearts that i had done it as right as I could....and then when I did I felt truly sorry for him....he had given up, for HIS reason the best thing in his life....we talk about forgiving, and I do think that is important and healing....I think sympathy for the other person really fits better....they have lost it all, and in the process have given you the chance to have the life you deserve.....so for her feel sympathy at her loss....and feel grateful for what she has given you....your life....to fufill as you want and deserve....
just the thought of this old lady...
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