3/11/2008 5:32:29 PM |
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southbuster
Haughton, LA
age: 31
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Hey Winesong.......I dont have any secrets but if I did I'd reveal em RIGHT HERE...Mainly cause I dont give a )##@ thats how I role. You cant always be scary of the people around you
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3/11/2008 5:51:44 PM |
do you have any secrets that could ruin a possible relationship? |
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eyeswideopened
Huntington Beach, CA
age: 43
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My life is a flipping opened book but if ya wanna know, you have to ask....hehehhee
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3/11/2008 5:55:41 PM |
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oldeschoolcharm
San Diego, CA
age: 46
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Ooh! Can I ask first?
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3/11/2008 6:01:32 PM |
do you have any secrets that could ruin a possible relationship? |
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eyeswideopened
Huntington Beach, CA
age: 43
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Go for it hun!
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3/11/2008 6:03:50 PM |
do you have any secrets that could ruin a possible relationship? |
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crowdog3
Ponca City, OK
age: 34
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I have a secret...oldschool is actualy a player and gay
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3/11/2008 6:06:49 PM |
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oldeschoolcharm
San Diego, CA
age: 46
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How do you like to be kissed? Softly, almost innocently. Or, with unbridled passion?
(This is a trick question. There is only one answer.)
If I were asked that question, my answer would be "Often!"
I should start a poll: Is OldSchool gay?
[Edited 3/11/2008 6:08:29 PM]
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3/11/2008 6:07:57 PM |
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smilin_bob
Broadway, VA
age: 47
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I don't keep any secrets. It could harm or mislead a person from making a rational decision to be in a relationship with me. That would not be fair to them or myself.
My past is not perfect. I have also learned to not be afraid of my past.
I used to be afraid.. afraid of being ridiculed, judged and condemned. Afraid I would not 'measure up.' It cost me one potential relationship. I tried to save face.. she saw through the veil. I was secretive because of my fear. I was holding back because of my fear.
I learned through friends, church and counseling that hiding behind my fear and self doubts only hurts myself. It is very uplifting to myself to be able to share not only my triumphs, but my stumbles with those that get close to me. They see it all. They see I am human. They see I am imperfect. They discover things about me, then they have the right to either accept me or not. I take that chance. In the end, I know that I was open, honest, and showed integrity. I have at least brought honor to myself.
If they get close to me, they can look at me with a magnifying glass if they want. Just like a diamond, if they look close enough, they will see flaws. The best part of a perfect relationship is that both people look closely, see flaws, and say "You know what, you are still worth something to me."
I encourage everyone to overcome the fears of their past. It make you a stronger person, self confident, and in control.
I wish everyone the best!
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3/11/2008 6:11:52 PM |
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eyeswideopened
Huntington Beach, CA
age: 43
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I should start a poll: Is OldSchool gay?
Ohhhhhhhh myyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
And there is not just one answer (maybe for you), but I like it both ways.
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3/11/2008 6:16:53 PM |
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jasmom
Quincy, IL
age: 35
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oh yeah I have a dark side......mwahahahah!!
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3/11/2008 6:17:58 PM |
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oldeschoolcharm
San Diego, CA
age: 46
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Oldschool takes careful notes.
And eyes: the correct answer is "yes".
That didn't come out right! I meant on the "kissing" question. I am not gay! Oh woe, how will she ever believe me?
[Edited 3/11/2008 6:19:50 PM]
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3/11/2008 6:49:37 PM |
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winesong
Bend, OR
age: 60
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Hey South....please be our guest...
certainly you have something you would rather not read on a billboard,
in the middle of main street...
OH...I think so.
No one is perfect, or has led a life that is immune to imperfection...
I live with NO REGRETS. I will never post in public, what I consider to be
something I should share with my sign. other in life...he is special.
The internet is not *special*,
nor should I share my life with the world...
I am very open in person....just not foolish...
Wine
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3/11/2008 7:03:09 PM |
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eroticartist
White Plains, NY
age: 49 online now!
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I wanna know what her secrets are
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3/11/2008 7:05:42 PM |
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tlc4u46
Santa Barbara, CA
age: 47
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That's why they're called secrets, meant to be kept that way.
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3/11/2008 7:06:41 PM |
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eroticartist
White Plains, NY
age: 49 online now!
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but I can keep a secret ... really I can
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3/11/2008 7:09:41 PM |
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cdqlive
Birmingham, AL
age: 43
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yes...enough to keep it interestingdon't tell anyone!
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