| 3/12/2008 2:48:25 PM |
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proudmamma
Fort Collins, CO
age: 20
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Ok I have dated this guy on and off for 2 years I try and forget about him i
just cant get him out of my head and now i'm not sure where he is should
i try and find him or just forget about him and if i should look for him
how do i do that?
Anyones advice welcome men or women  :
 
CAN ANYONE HELP
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| 3/12/2008 3:08:29 PM |
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proudmamma
Fort Collins, CO
age: 20
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ANYONE?
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| 3/12/2008 3:11:58 PM |
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jasmom
Quincy, IL
age: 35
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It depends on why you broke up and whether you think it would work this time. Sometimes with me I have forgotten the bad stuff and only remembered the good especially if I was feeling lonely. If you think it could work go for it!! You can find anyone on line these days! try peoplefinders.com.
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| 3/12/2008 3:14:09 PM |
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wizeguy1984
Brandon, FL
age: 23
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try dating someone else and see how it feels
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| 3/12/2008 3:14:52 PM |
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proudmamma
Fort Collins, CO
age: 20
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Well this is what happen we broke up this last time because he was staying in mississippi
and i was in colorado and we just were not the same well than he came back to colrado
and now i wish i would have just stuck it out but i didnt i have tried to go find him on line and no luck of him i dont know how to find him now I think it would be well worth it and the time but how do i do it
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| 3/12/2008 3:15:34 PM |
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proudmamma
Fort Collins, CO
age: 20
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I have done that and all they end up wanting just sex and thats not for me
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| 3/12/2008 3:18:02 PM |
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familyguy58103
Fargo, ND
age: 49
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Well.....then I'm out
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| 3/12/2008 3:21:17 PM |
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surelyugest
Nanaimo, BC
age: 49
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I'm sorry.. why is it on and off? If it's not going anywhere why look?
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| 3/12/2008 3:26:14 PM |
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bluemermaid
Long Beach, CA
age: 38
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These days it takes two people WORKING at a relationship for it to be successful. Think about why it didn't work before. Do you think he has changed? Have you changed?
There has been a study on human behaivor that showed that a person's basic personality is formed by the time they are 6 or 7 years old. After that it is entirely up to the individual's effort and conscious thoughts to make a personality change permanent.
If he loves you where is he? Is he looking for you? Can he easily contact you? If he can then where is he?
Answer: He is not with you, he is with someone else.
Move on girlfriend. Do Not Settle for less than you deserve and you deserve to be loved and cherished.
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| 3/12/2008 3:28:29 PM |
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wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 37
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i agree with the mermaid  it's obvious that he doesn't feel the same.
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| 3/12/2008 5:37:08 PM |
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chopperbabe
Selah, WA
age: 47
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The past is the past and that is where it belongs. Looking for lost love isn't worth it for they've probably got someone else so why bother??? If it was meant to be then you'd still be with them and obvious it wasn't meant to be. Time to move on to greener pastures.
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| 3/13/2008 1:30:02 AM |
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robert194761
Ione, WA
age: 61
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Chopperbabe has it right. and like a freind told me once ROBERT!!! you should fall in love many times.
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| 3/13/2008 1:39:42 AM |
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chicagoiceman
Mountain Home, AR
age: 47
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If he hasn't tried to find you, and its on again off again, He is not serious or committed. If thats what your looking for, serious and committed, I doubt this is the one for you. JMO Good Luck and Happiness I wish for you!
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| 3/13/2008 9:42:01 AM |
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proudmamma
Fort Collins, CO
age: 20
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even though i'm the one that ended it is it still not worth going and looking for it i mean i was the one that eneded it and he did want me back for a while
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| 3/13/2008 4:10:09 PM |
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lamb1926chop
Nashville, TN
age: 50
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This may sound "out there," but do you dream about him? What are the dreams like? Many of us who don't realize it are gifted with the ability to communicate in unconventional ways. If your unconscious mind is telling you something about this man, listen. Whether it be leave him be or find him. I have had many experiences where my dreams told me to contact people or gave me information that was currently happening in that person's life.
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