| 3/18/2008 12:24:46 PM |
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writerb13
Jackson, TN
age: 53
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My wife has a very stressful job and she says the stress and her age (40's) has made her loose the desire for sex. Those of you women who have lots of stress does it diminish your sex drive? Are maybe I am just being made a fool of..
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| 3/18/2008 12:27:13 PM |
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kgearly1021
Valdosta, GA
age: 48
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Maybe you are making a fool of her. You are a married man on a dating site, telling your wife's personal business. Does she know you are on here?
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| 3/18/2008 12:33:59 PM |
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oldeschoolcharm
San Diego, CA
age: 46
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Er, why is he making a fool of her? It seems like this is the perfect place to ask that kind of question. Of course, I haven't checked the poster's profile to see if he's "looking", but, behind a user name, he, and his wife are rather anonymous.
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| 3/18/2008 12:37:23 PM |
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kgearly1021
Valdosta, GA
age: 48
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I think he needs to be talking to his wife about this, or maybe to a marriage counselor who has a degree. Like I asked before, does she know he is on here? I somehow doubt.
His profile says he is looking for a woman ages 23 to 56.
[Edited 3/18/2008 12:38:44 PM]
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| 3/18/2008 12:42:07 PM |
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oldeschoolcharm
San Diego, CA
age: 46
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Perhaps, but it does not strike me as unreasonable to poll people about sex on a sex and dating site as well.
If his profile (which I haven't read) indicates that he is here for the fora, and, perhaps, to try and spice up his marriage, I see no reason why he has to disclose that to his wife.
I would, but that's me. I believe in not only not having a conflict of interest but also avoiding the appearance of one.
Post history here is rather easy to review, and any suspicions she might have can be put to rest if his interest is, indeed, innocent. But, it speaks volumes if she does not trust his fidelity.
On edit: Well, if he's looking, that changes everything.
[Edited 3/18/2008 12:43:13 PM]
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| 3/18/2008 12:44:37 PM |
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vegasstylist
Las Vegas, NV
age: 42
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When I was married I never wwanted to have sex I thought something was wrong with me once I kicked my husband out I want to have sex all the time I realized I just didn't like him, maybe she feels like that sorry
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| 3/18/2008 12:47:29 PM |
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kgearly1021
Valdosta, GA
age: 48
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I have no problem with him on here if indeed his wife knows he is here, (as we say in the South) putting all her business in the street. But I would be willing to bet she has no clue. And 23? That is 30 years younger than he is.
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| 3/18/2008 12:54:30 PM |
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oldeschoolcharm
San Diego, CA
age: 46
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I have no problem with him on here if indeed his wife knows he is here, (as we say in the South) putting all her business in the street. But I would be willing to bet she has no clue. And 23? That is 30 years younger than he is.
Aside from the problem of his "looking", he is not putting his wife's business in the street. Can you identify her? No. She is anonymous.
But, to answer his question, if he is on a dating site, and looking for women half his age, whether his wife is aware of it or not, there are probably other issues in their marriage that cause her to withhold sex from him.
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| 3/18/2008 1:01:25 PM |
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me4aminute_1
Rutland, IA
age: 35
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oldschoolcharm..........I'm sorry sweety, but with the comments you made about it being alright for his wife not to know he is here is probably a good indication of why your single. If you need medical questions answered why come to a site with a bunch of strangers that can not give you a medical answer?
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| 3/18/2008 1:03:42 PM |
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nevadacityrose
Grass Valley, CA
age: 49
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Having been there done that, the only reason I did not want to have sex with my other is because something was wrong with the relationship, it is a warning signal!
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| 3/18/2008 1:04:32 PM |
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bucktail
Poynette, WI
age: 46
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its one of the signs-both sides
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| 3/18/2008 1:04:38 PM |
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wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 37 online now!
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if he put married for his status it would be ok....or not looking.....or somthing to that effect. 
maybe she don't want sex because of things you do
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| 3/18/2008 1:05:07 PM |
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wonderjell
Cumberland, KY
age: 30
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if she says she isnt interested she isnt try spicing up the marriage a little it may help try role playing or sexy undies or a nice dinner and a bottle of wine sometimes women get bored in the bedroom just like a man would
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| 3/18/2008 1:14:22 PM |
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oldeschoolcharm
San Diego, CA
age: 46
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oldschoolcharm..........I'm sorry sweety, but with the comments you made about it being alright for his wife not to know he is here is probably a good indication of why your single. If you need medical questions answered why come to a site with a bunch of strangers that can not give you a medical answer?
I am not currently single. I found a girlfriend here (rather quickly!), and am sticking around for the fora. My profile text makes that clear (though I suppose if there's a "not looking" option in the drop down attributes, I should select that, instead of an age range). I make that clear to any woman that does email me, if her note suggests more than a professional or friendly tone.
If he were not actively "looking", it is perfectly reasonable to ask a question with which others may have had experience. Similar to "group therapy". Sometimes the best answers come from those that have similar experiences, instead of "experts". One has to weigh all the information at one's disposal. I think if he were not actively looking for another partner, or leaving that as a posibility, it is perfectly reasonable to conduct research without informing his wife.
At some point, they should communicate about the problem, but asking an innocent question does not a cheater make.
As I noted, I would not be on a dating site, in any capacity, without my partner's knowledge, but I can understand circumstances where it would be perfectly acceptable. You seem to insinuate that my relationship status is somehow related to my lack of forcing my personal beliefs down other people's throats.
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| 3/18/2008 2:00:44 PM |
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aboomer
Little Rock, AR
age: 45
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oldschoolcharm. Don`t let these old bitter nags get to you. They wouldn`t be satisfied if they had a stable full of studs willing to cut off their d*cks for them. I agree with your premise, although I personally think the guy ought to get CHEATERS to spy on her and find out who his wife is SCREWING when she goes to her high stress job. Could be that job is so high stress because she`s screwing someone at work. BTW, there is a new device out that emits a certain wavelength ultraviolet light that will show any semen stains in her panties. I suggest taht the guy go get one and find out for sure. Yeah, I know all the nags will now cry foul because they`ll now have to leave home with a change of panties and a box of napkins, but technology waits on no tramp, no matter how much she makes. Just ask KRISTEN and ELLIOT SPITZER.
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