| 9/5/2011 11:40:23 AM |
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wolfsberry
Mobile, AL
age: 44
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ok yall I've never dated anyone from a site such as this before so how soon is too soon to meet said person in person and have a real date?
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| 9/5/2011 11:41:14 AM |
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bananahammock76
Wiltshire
United Kingdom
age: 35
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 no real answer
when you both want to i guess.
I would suggest meting in public to start with though.
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| 9/5/2011 11:42:22 AM |
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kayleigh01
Louisville, KY
age: 27
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When your both comfortable. Watch for red flags up till the day you meet.
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| 9/5/2011 11:43:06 AM |
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claudius5
Petaluma, CA
age: 61
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The sooner the better, but use common sense.
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| 9/5/2011 11:43:47 AM |
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matureblkmann
Atlanta, GA
age: 57
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yesterday
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| 9/5/2011 11:45:58 AM |
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alvarezrd20sc
Waverly, NE
age: 39
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As soon as you're comfortable! You can meet them the first day you start trading messages if you want, I don't see what the harm would be. You just might want to choose a location that'd be comfortable for meeting someone who you're not overly familiar with.
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| 9/5/2011 12:03:47 PM |
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veniteadoremus
Baker, LA
age: 26
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Why does it matter?
Everyone moves at a different pace.
If you are ready & so is he, go for it..
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| 9/5/2011 12:05:41 PM |
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spanky250
Port Charlotte, FL
age: 90
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ok yall I've never dated anyone from a site such as this before so how soon is too soon to meet said person in person and have a real date?
When you feel comfortable with it.
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| 9/5/2011 12:08:32 PM |
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mirr0rmirr0r
Bowling Green, KY
age: 34
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ok yall I've never dated anyone from a site such as this before so how soon is too soon to meet said person in person and have a real date?
 That is for you to decide. Also,everyone is different so it is best to approach it on a case-by-case basis.
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| 9/5/2011 12:15:56 PM |
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shaneladd
Bakersfield, CA
age: 58
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| 9/5/2011 12:25:03 PM |
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kayleigh01
Louisville, KY
age: 27
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As soon as you're comfortable! You can meet them the first day you start trading messages if you want, I don't see what the harm would be. You just might want to choose a location that'd be comfortable for meeting someone who you're not overly familiar with.
So room 104 at the Motel 6 isnt a good idea?
Damnit 
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| 9/5/2011 12:30:09 PM |
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wolfsberry
Mobile, AL
age: 44
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ok thanks. now all I have to do is meet someone...lol
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| 9/5/2011 12:31:33 PM |
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60freebird
Atlanta, GA
age: 60
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Any time you're comfortable with it. Be sure you use all the precautions such as meeting in a public place, knowing at least, name, phone # and some other identifying information. Leave that information along with the place you are meeting and the time you expect to return with a close friend or family member. Remember there are many who are talented enough to make you feel comfortable or who give you false information that is hard to verify, so use your head. Good luck!
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| 9/5/2011 12:34:57 PM |
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wnnadance
Belle Plaine, KS
age: 66
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no real answer
when you both want to i guess.
I would suggest meting in public to start with though.
good advice. watch for the red flag warnings, meet during the day make it for coffee the first time or lunch if you feel more confident about it. drive your self there. don't go to a second location unless you drive yourself there also. and bring enough money to pay for your own coffee or meal. and if it just feel wrong do not stop in just keep going. your gut will tell you if it is good or not if you listen to it.
carol
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| 9/5/2011 12:35:47 PM |
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alvarezrd20sc
Waverly, NE
age: 39
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So room 104 at the Motel 6 isnt a good idea?
Damnit
Ummm... I actually met a girl from this site for the first time in room 304 at the Holiday Inn Express once... 200 miles from home.
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| 9/5/2011 12:37:10 PM |
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lakersrock
Springville, UT
age: 44
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if you feel comfortable, its never to soon.
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| 9/5/2011 12:53:00 PM |
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joecool1962
Philadelphia, PA
age: 49
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I see alot of people on this site who suggest no ,ore than 2 weeks after first contact. Personally I don't think 2 weeks is nearly long enough to really get a sense of who someone is and whether or not you feel comfortable enough to meet them. Especially for women.
For us guys there isn't much worry about a woman we meet here being a sexual predator who is going to take us to some secluded spot tie us up rape us slit our throats or put a bullet in our head and dump our half nude body in the woods somewhere and leave us to die so it's I guess a little easier for us to trust that a woman is safe alot quicker than it is for a woman to trust a guy is safe.
All I can say is trust your gut reaction and use common sense. If something just doesn't feel right or the person just seems too god to be true just give it a little more time until either you have confirmation that you can't trust their intentions or you feel that they are who they claim they are and you feel safe enough to take a risk.
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