it takes time and honestly i dont think a woman ever gets over the love of her life she just has to pick the peices up to her shattered broken heart and move on.. (still in love with my first) but not in that way
the best way, is just time..time will heal your heart..keep your head occupied...I talked to a guy about this as well..he says the best way he gets over someone is to go out with new people to get your mind away..which in all honesty it makes sense..good luck!
| 6/16/2008 3:19:45 PM |
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misbhavin08
Big Rapids, MI
age: 26
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how do i get over the love of my life and the father of my baby???? my lover and best friend has just recently left me and i'm heart broken and i don't know if i can ever get that close to a guy again. he is out having a good time with his new girl and her baby while i sit at home missing him. i don't wanna love him anymore i want to move on with my life but its just soo hard.
it takes time and honestly i dont think a woman ever gets over the love of her life she just has to pick the peices up to her shattered broken heart and move on.. (still in love with my first) but not in that way
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| 6/16/2008 3:43:25 PM |
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missing_out
Farmersville, TX
age: 27
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 Depending on the relationship you had, and the relationship he has with his child, you may or may not get over him. If he has a relationship with the child you will forever hold a spot for him in your heart, because he helped give you the greatest gift ever possible, that child.
From personal experience tho, the sperms donors of my kids, have no place in my heart. I was married to 1, and he walked out on me and our child, never seen or heard from him again. A real man isnt going to do that to his own child. For a long time I had a lot of hate for them, but as time passed it healed. Cant say as tho I like them, or even care for them for that matter. I can only carry on in life and take care of whats important in my life, myself and my kids.
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| 6/16/2008 5:40:51 PM |
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recklessredhead
Grady, AL
age: 22
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Ok..
First of all, this is hard BUT, if you TRULY loved him then you will never stop loving him.That's just the way it is. I'm sure everyone will tell you that time will heal all wounds but it doesn't, time will make them fade but they're still there and they still hurt every once in a while. Only thing is you will live,whether you think you will or not you'll get through it eventually and find someone else. You may get hurt again, but that's life and it happens to all of us, you just have to come away from it without bitterness and not blame everything on the next guy. But in time you will find a guy that you can get close to, as long as you don't go into it with the mindset that he will do to you what the other guy did. It's really a gamble, with the most important things you own on the line but would you rather sit and watch everyone else gamble and lose a few times or get in on the game? Remember you have to eventually win. That being said, There is nothing anyone can tell you right now to make you really truly feel better about this and you know it. You are going to have to make yourself feel better, take some time, go out with friends to get your mind off of it. Don't dwell on the past, it's only there to make you who you are today, Just make sure who you are isn't someone that is jaded, and bitter.
Chin Up girl!
I was in the exact same situation except the "other girl" didn't have a baby, but she was younger and could still go out and party.
[Edited 6/16/2008 5:43:33 PM]
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| 6/16/2008 6:15:43 PM |
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odaydreamero
Boca Raton, FL
age: 20
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I don't have an answer for you so I am sorry, but I do just want to say (in a totally straight girl way lol) you are really pretty and your daughter is beautiful. The right person to love you will come around and you will be ready to give them your heart.
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| 6/16/2008 7:30:25 PM |
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bdh711
Cary, NC
age: 26
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quote]how do i get over the love of my life and the father of my baby???? my lover and best friend has just recently left me and i'm heart broken and i don't know if i can ever get that close to a guy again. he is out having a good time with his new girl and her baby while i sit at home missing him. i don't wanna love him anymore i want to move on with my life but its just soo hard. |
| 6/16/2008 11:40:10 PM |
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sweetangel89
Kennesaw, GA
age: 19
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This is for u single_mom2 i no how it feels for the man u really love to brake up with u for some one els i no it has to be really hard to race ur baby on ur on what im trying to say is u have to let him go i no its hard cuz i had to get over the guy i really loved and it was really hard i cryed for days but all i can say for u is to pray about it i no u can do it i may not no u but what i do no is that i belave in u and i no that u can do it just pray god will help u just have to be strong
Thx sweetangel89 
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| 6/16/2008 11:44:13 PM |
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frankiee323
Pico Rivera, CA
age: 19
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come with me!!!!!!!!!!!!
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| 7/2/2008 5:57:37 PM |
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dead12
Hesperia, CA
age: 21
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i dont know. i had the same thing but now im looking for a woman to speen the rest of my life with.
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| 7/2/2008 6:32:07 PM |
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jnz123
Kokomo, IN
age: 21
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go nd have some rebound sex, thtll get ur mind off it
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| 7/2/2008 9:05:28 PM |
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defensorfortis
Staatsburg, NY
age: 22
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Alot of time and pain. Been there, done that. I've finally gotten over it completely after 2 1/2 years. Dating for almost 3yrs almost asked her to marry me and she left me for a drug addict than left him for someone old enough to be her father who is ALSO a drug addict so at least i know where her priority's were.
Was hard for me, id cry now and them when a song we both liked came on the radio so i stopped listing to it and than other things would set me off to but im fine now. Guess the only difference is i didn't have a kid with her, i played it smart and wraped the tool for 2yrs.. but that's another story to. Keep your head up and pour your love into your daughter and help her grow up to be strong like her mother is.
"Time makes everything heal eventually even the heart, it's the pain endured from the time of healing that hurts and not the heart break itself" - Me
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| 7/3/2008 9:31:20 AM |
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caley8s
Underwood, IA
age: 21
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You won't completely.
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| 7/3/2008 10:11:29 AM |
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station389
Conroe, TX
age: 22
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I know exactley what you mean!! I dont have a kid but im just recently Divorced and I still think of my ex alot but I know I shouldnt because she was the cause of the divorce. She is now dating the man that help caused it and im at home. I try not to let it get to me but after being with her for awhile its something you cant help but do...I know how you feel....
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| 7/3/2008 10:49:55 AM |
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danny121
Fountain, CO
age: 19
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I was always told 1 thing there are more fish in the sea. Your beautiful, smart, and nice you don't need him. There is someone out there that is made for you. Not saying u should forgot but i'm just saying there is someone better then him.
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| 7/3/2008 11:42:11 AM |
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gadget6608
Duncan, OK
age: 25
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It's hard...Let me tell you coming out of the same situation...Its extremely hard but you have to find your strength in his happiness... if you love him,then be happy for him and move on yourself once you can do that you will find what you need. Don't just sit around,take action and honey if its meant to be and you finally let go and he comes back...well thats your decision to take him back or not.. I didn't! took ALOT of thought and cry process but realized I was better off and so was he! We had already been hurt too much..would of only been resentments and thats NO way to go! deborah
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