| 3/31/2008 9:06:51 PM |
how do i get over the love of my life??? |
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single_mom2
Bluffton, IN
age: 20
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how do i get over the love of my life and the father of my baby???? my lover and best friend has just recently left me and i'm heart broken and i don't know if i can ever get that close to a guy again. he is out having a good time with his new girl and her baby while i sit at home missing him. i don't wanna love him anymore i want to move on with my life but its just soo hard.
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| 3/31/2008 10:36:50 PM |
how do i get over the love of my life??? |
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memphis89
Courtenay, BC
age: 19
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I'm sorry to hear that, but any guy who would leave you or his child is an idiot.Things will definitely be hard for the next little while, but you have to move on and remember that you have a beautiful child now, and with the guy leaving its for the better in a way because you and your child deserve better then that,so you'll just have to take things one day at a time and sooner or later you'll find the guy that your destin to be with and who will treat you and your child the way you should be.but i wish you best of luck!
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| 3/31/2008 10:45:23 PM |
how do i get over the love of my life??? |
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yarnball
Edmonton, AB
age: 30
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Well, I know what worked for me when I lost one of my most important loves. I balled my eyes out for two weeks, Found out that singing helps a lot provided you don't sing lovey songs, hated her for about two years, now we are friends. That pain never really goes away, you just learn to live with it. You might snap out of it if you meet someone else, but take it slow.
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| 4/1/2008 6:11:21 PM |
how do i get over the love of my life??? |
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impressivetoys
Wells, MN
age: 27
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Hey Honey, join the club! The tables are just turned. But mine rarely lets me see my daughter, she just passes her off on who ever takes her, but me. Im still not right about it, and dont let ANYONE get close to me.
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| 4/1/2008 6:21:23 PM |
how do i get over the love of my life??? |
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missing_out
Farmersville, TX
age: 27
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If he was really a lover and best friend, he wouldnt of walked away from you and the child. Keep your head up! Find things to do that make YOU happy, dont sit around thinking about him and making yourself miserable. Don't be so quick to jump into a new relationship, its only a rebound to make you think you are happy, when deep down you are just down right miserable. Time heals everything! Hang in there.
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| 4/2/2008 1:35:15 PM |
how do i get over the love of my life??? |
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wolf_lover_ak
Seward, AK
age: 23
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you can talk to me I'll treat you right I'm a singel 23 year old guy look for a kindhearted girl to talk to  and I hope you well be wanting to get to get to know me single_mom2
[Edited 4/2/2008 1:36:10 PM]
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| 4/2/2008 6:45:01 PM |
how do i get over the love of my life??? |
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aaron79
Pierpont, OH
age: 29
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You dont "get" over it ever you just learn to accept it as something you cant change , So maybe focusing on things you can do to try to move on. hope this doesn't sound meaan. 
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| 4/3/2008 9:45:16 AM |
how do i get over the love of my life??? |
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qban_papi
Los Angeles, CA
age: 29
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Get with me and you will forget your ex..........())>~~~~~~~~
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| 4/3/2008 10:13:50 AM |
how do i get over the love of my life??? |
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chevylover89
Medford, OR
age: 18
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hey single, im there with you, except i dont have a child though. The love of my life i had to let go, all because of him bringing another girl into the relationship. Well then shes gone, and things were never the same. Do what im doing, stand strong, and tell yourself that you are way better than sitting around crying, and get up and get through the day. IT was months that i cryed over my ex, and now the thing is me and him are friends, but he still wants me. I have no choice but to tell him no, since my bestfriend hates him and wants him dead. I know that you can get up, and march on. I know its hard when everything reminds you of your ex, especially your beautiful child. But there is someone that is out there, for you, but dont rush into a relationship, for your not ready to, and if you do meet someone, then that guy needs to understand that you are taking it slow...Hope things go your way, and best of luck to you!
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| 4/3/2008 10:50:10 PM |
how do i get over the love of my life??? |
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sasha_forever
Austin, TX
age: 19
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I just got out of a relationship of over three years.
It takes time really but I think the first step is reconising
that you no longer want or need to be in love with this person.
Also if you really want to get over this person
make sure you don't see them again. This means no visits of any kind
and to throw away any photographs of them you may have.
Be sure and reienforce that this relationship is over both physically and emotionaly and that it has no relavance to your present life....
Honestly there is no easy way to get over heartache. The best advice
I can give is to take things one day at a time.
Any progress is progress.
take a deep breath.
If your able to do that.
It means you're alive.
If you're alive.
it means that you are stronger than this
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| 4/4/2008 8:46:22 AM |
how do i get over the love of my life??? |
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alex04200677
Nevada, TX
age: 20
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best way to get over it is go have sex with someone else for a few times but dont get to attached then you should be over it thats what i did
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| 4/4/2008 6:50:37 PM |
how do i get over the love of my life??? |
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qwestsoblessed
Springfield, MA
age: 25
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U might not get over him but wut u could do is start doing things to get ur mind away from him. U learn from ur mistakes so u might want to chill for a bit and find someone who will appreciate u and ur baby. Another thing is give ur problems to God he will releash ur past and make u forget about all that happened. Well God Bless
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| 6/11/2008 7:23:02 PM |
how do i get over the love of my life??? |
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liferator
Statesville, NC
age: 27
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one day at a time is the only way to get over someone
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| 6/11/2008 7:53:12 PM |
how do i get over the love of my life??? |
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impressivetoys
Wells, MN
age: 27
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Lifers' right. It just takes time, and can be painful. I actually juat had a long talk with my ex. Actually jumped her ass about the way shes livin. Which, normally dont bother me, but when your 3 yr old daughter asks "why dont mommy come home at night, dont she want to be with me?", then I will stick my head into her life. But it just takes time. My relationship with her was 5 years. For rhe most part, I was single for 3. Tried the dating thing off and on, but I knew I just wasnt ready and had to end em. Only you yourself will know whne the timings right. Youre still young, and plenty of guys will through themselves your way. Choose wisely and let this be a lesson for you.
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| 6/16/2008 3:01:31 PM |
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bamk07
Philadelphia, PA
age: 22
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If he was really a lover and best friend, he wouldnt of walked away from you and the child. Keep your head up! Find things to do that make YOU happy, dont sit around thinking about him and making yourself miserable. Don't be so quick to jump into a new relationship, its only a rebound to make you think you are happy, when deep down you are just down right miserable. Time heals everything! Hang in there.
She's got the right idea. What you need to do is find things that make you happy again and find things you can do with your child. That's what your world is about now, taking care of your child and bonding with your child. As women we can do whatever we put our minds to. You don't need a man to be happy, just remember that! I've been there, I was in a relationship for 6 years and we were engaged. It was so hard at first to get over him but what I focused on was myself, my family, and god. I did jump into a relationship with someone else because I thought I needed to be with someone to be happy, but what I've come to realize is that I didn't...If I am not happy with myself, no one else will be either. No that I've spent some time working on myself I'm so happy and I love living my life and doning the things I want to do and I'm ready to start dating again, for the right reasons! Now I'm ready to find someone special to spend my time with. I know that everything happens for a reason, there's a reason things ended because there is someone out there that's a way better match and I'm excited to search for that person. Time does heal everything and you'll see that. You're still so young...just have fun living you life, eventually you'll find that right guy when the time is right. Hang in there sweetheart!
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