| 4/6/2008 1:53:38 AM |
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babygirl63
Holden, MO
age: 44
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all men are not an animal. there is a world full of gentlemen out there. don't let one man give you the wrong impression about all men, because all men are different.
don't be afraid to open your heart again,cause a broken heart is just part of life.
just brush it off and don't let it get ya down or scared to date again. good luck.
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| 4/6/2008 2:00:38 AM |
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gabisanic
Pleasant Hill, CA
age: 51
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Suzi,
We all have been there at one time or another. We all have trusted and have been betrayed. We all have loved and lost. We all have had our hearts broken and yet we continue to hope for better and grander relationships.
I have said this many times before and it applies here also... I take every relationship individually. I refuse to lump everyone into one sweeping category and I will NOT let my past experiences cloud or dictate what my heart truly desires. The risk is great, true... but so is the reward!
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| 4/6/2008 2:07:32 AM |
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babygirl63
Holden, MO
age: 44
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well said gab. 
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| 4/6/2008 5:08:53 AM |
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maniacmassager
Lawrence, MA
age: 42 online now!
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I dont think theres a man on this planet that doesnt want to sleep with numerous women, even if hes married with kids. its just you need to control the animal instinct. some can, some cant. 
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| 4/6/2008 5:17:17 AM |
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earl45
Corsicana, TX
age: 45
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I know i can ,did it 21 years.And i know there are still some good people out there.
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| 4/6/2008 5:41:06 AM |
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oneadvntursgrl
Boca Raton, FL
age: 47
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Once again, Gab said it just right....
So when are you heading to MO Gab...think you and Babygirl63 have some experimenting to do....you two have been flirting a long while now....what's up?
Throw caution to the wind, and go for it!!! 
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| 4/6/2008 9:11:08 AM |
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brendaj
Savannah, GA
age: 44
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zewitch, Hang in there, you're not alone. Someday, we'll all find our happy ever after!!!!!
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| 4/6/2008 9:48:20 AM |
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bry11ca
Wappingers Falls, NY
age: 43
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I am happy with my woman . . .
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| 4/6/2008 9:49:49 AM |
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bones75
Saegertown, PA
age: 50
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WELL !!! Ladies dont sweat, it happens on both sides of the fence...But just smile and look on the other side of the fence....the grass might be greener....................
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| 4/6/2008 12:04:44 PM |
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lipsticklilac
Turlock, CA
age: 57
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Met this guy online 2 years ago. He saw me several times . But was far in-between. So i kinda just went on my way .Then in Jan. 2007 he wrote me and said " I almost died ..been in hospital over a month. All i could do is think of you" . He says " I love you and want to be with you. He wanted me to delete my site .So i did (for a while) I saw him in his apartment. I saw him in Motels .I saw him in his new home he bought. But i NEVER got to spend nights with him (i am married but no loving or sex in many years ) Soon i found he WAS still on the site .Looking for more ladies .He didn't know i was on there .He made contact with me very quickly and gave me his phone number. So was not dumb..But he kept telling me he wanted me to move in with him in MAY of this year (2008) I go to his home and find a used condom. next time i walk in on him on another woman's site. Then third strike i saw another woman's picture on his dresser .I saw it but then he noticed it and tried hiding it. I told him I already saw it,. But of course he lied about it. So i backed off him. Did see him however once a month. well March 11, 2008 i get a Dear John Letter. Said ' found " i found a single lady to be with .I can't see u anymore . Don't contact me anymore. Heart Breaking ?? Yeah !! He has cancer pretty bad .And has not responded well to treatment. So i knew he needed someone there with him. Anyway. He writes me on the other site that he did not think i knew it was him. To meet him . Had even asked me to come up Friday night and spending it with him. I didn't .But then he wants to meet on Tuesday. So i went. Well he text me that day and said "honey ! she reads my mail .please text me on his new pay as he go phone. And I love you " WOW ! His new g/f that Friday ! wrote to me. She asked lots of questions. So i answered and copy and pasted where he had talked to me. She shocked me with what she said ! This guy was engaged to be married Last Sept. And that i could not have been with him. The lady died in June 2007 OMG ! can u believe it ! He was engaged and seeing me too ? No wonder he wanted a married lady huh ? Then this new one he has asked her to marry him. WOW ! So guess he thought i was going to be his Mistress .CHEATER ! Liar ! WOW ! so u may be well off without that guy of yours . It hurts YES ! But go on.. there will be another love in your future.
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| 4/6/2008 2:03:10 PM |
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carnag3king
Fort Worth, TX
age: 20 online now!
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I have alwayas been happy with just one women. i would not dream of cheating on a female. I love women and would do nothing to harm them. until they do me wrong, then I am forced by my gender to hate them. No physical violence though, I cant do that. i just purposlly say the wrong thing so they hate me and dont come back to hurt me again.
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| 4/7/2008 5:08:22 AM |
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roket
Casa Grande, AZ
age: 51
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I dated my last wife for a 2 months and was seeing a couple of other women. We were dating. She said she is starting to develop feelings and that if we keep dating romantically she wanted it to be exclusive. Or we just be non-romantic friends. I basically said fair enough. So I agreed to a committed relationship. I was never unfaithful. After 2 and a half years while I was away at a month long job she says while I was gone she had a 2 week affair but it was over. So I forgive but not without some "intense" discussion. After 3 years totally of committed dating we marry. In 2001. I was never unfaithful. In early 2007 she kicks me out then moves in with a man she had been seeing for the last 3 months. Did I mention that I was never unfaithful during the whole time since I had said that I would honor an exclusive committed relationship?
Hint: Try too keep things in perspective. You only knew him a month. So in many way you didn't know him. Your emotional investment wasn't long enough to be great. It stung I am sure. But only stung. Be glad he pulled that early and you can relatively easily go on and find another. Define what you want to yourself and be honest. Define what you are willing to give and be honest. Get out there and find it! Keep looking you will find a like soul. They are out there. They are in here. Just give it time and all things will come. (OMG that almost sounds Zen so I better shaddup now before I start blathering on about for all things there is a season or some such meta-physical/philosophical stuff).
Lemme try that again. You sound like a nice person kiddo so hang in there and that nice guy will be knocking on yer life!
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| 4/7/2008 5:14:44 AM |
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liteguy
Scranton, PA
age: 50
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Well It goes both ways. My ex left me for another after 7 1/2 yrs. so woman can be the same way. if i belived all women were that way i wouldn't be here. so it is a few giving all the bad name.
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| 4/7/2008 6:07:31 AM |
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lonesomeloser
Louisville, KY
age: 49
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Variety is the spice of life...
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| 4/7/2008 8:01:35 AM |
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fortiesnlovit
Weehawken, NJ
age: 42
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Simple Sweetie men LOVE THE CHASE
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