| 4/8/2008 8:01:58 PM |
had sex with a married man and ... im in trouble with his wife |
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delcojoe
Philadelphia, PA
age: 34
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Dont run from her, thats not going to solve anything. You spread your legs like a woman, now face the situation like a woman and be honest with the wife and let her know you didnt know he was married!
Although you are not the only one to blame, the husband should have kept his d*ck in his pants or divorced his wife if he is not happy with the marriage. He to should be a man and step up to the plate and deal with what he has coming to him, and face up to the wife by telling her that he lied to you the whole time he was f*cking you.
If you were f*cking him for a year and your now 18, the hubby better start praying that Chris Hansen don't come knocking on his door! 
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| 4/8/2008 8:18:26 PM |
had sex with a married man and ... im in trouble with his wife |
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coppermare
Grady, AL
age: 48
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 delcojoe
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| 4/8/2008 8:20:59 PM |
had sex with a married man and ... im in trouble with his wife |
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justme68
Cleveland, OH
age: 42
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Daymmmm....... Gezzzz.. you've even got the nerve to admit to it! Run lady!! Run fast and don't stop.
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| 4/8/2008 8:42:17 PM |
had sex with a married man and ... im in trouble with his wife |
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guitarguy5305
Hemingway, SC
age: 21
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Like many others, I too have trouble believing that you knew him for years and didn't know he was married. However, I still don't know the whole story. We all make mistakes. We have to take responsibility for our actions and suffer the consequences. This will have a huge affect on that family. His wife was done wrong, and she is lashing out. Her world has been turned upside down by this. Their children will also suffer because of what has happened. However, It takes two. This is not all your fault, but your actions have affected this family in a negative way. I advise you to apologize to her for the pain you help cause her. Be honest and understanding. If she decides to divorce him, offer to help her. Your testimony of what happened would help her get full custody of her children. Even though you are still young, there is no excuse for what you did. If you are a religious person, I would suggest talking too a minister. You must do everything in your power to help the situation. Once you get everything smoothed over to best your ability, you need to work on making peace with yourself. This could have a negative affect on your self-worth and self-esteem. Try your best to learn from your mistakes and not let this ruin your entire life. You are young and you have many years ahead of you. You are more than welcome to message me if you need someone to talk too. I wish you the best and you will be in my prayers.
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| 4/8/2008 8:49:24 PM |
had sex with a married man and ... im in trouble with his wife |
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dwalk68
Adel, GA
age: 39
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Come on baby ! You knew that man was married . You wanted to do it anyways . His wife needs to be after him instead of you . Tell her to check her damn man ! She might want to sleep with you . lol....
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| 4/8/2008 8:55:00 PM |
had sex with a married man and ... im in trouble with his wife |
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irparis39
New York, NY
age: 48
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Gosh, you guys...give her a break.
She did say she slept with him 2 weeks ago and knew the guy for a year, not slept with him for a year. He's the schmuck who cheated on his wife and kids.
I'm looking at it from her 18 yr old viewpoint...I'm sure he raised the bar to get her where she was comfortable enough to get her to believe anything. He's got 2 kids, he's definitely older and/or knows how to talk the talk. Honestly, we know when we can manipulate someone by seducing them with pretty words. As I said before, guys know women...we women don't know men, and certainly not when we're that young.
I hope you made sure he wore condoms...oops babies you don't want to find from this jerk. I know how easy it is to be 18 and not know how to ask the hard questions, but feel elated that someone IS paying attention to you. I hope you've learned that sex never sells anything but heartache when you don't become informed about who or what the guy is, which is probably why God left it for marriage as we humans don't know what the hell we're doing with it or with whom we're doing it for.
Talk to this wife, I'm sure its not the first time she's had to deal with this, again another woman who is not so empowered. But you can empower yourself to face her, tell her the truth, ask for forgiveness and let her handle her stupid husband on her own. And then move on, learn the lesson given, but move on and don't beat yourself up for it. There's a lesson for you to learn here and i hope you've learned it. So forgive yourself as we all have done really stupid, moronic mistakes in our lifetime.
P
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| 4/8/2008 9:00:50 PM |
had sex with a married man and ... im in trouble with his wife |
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pleasurepirate
Shreveport, LA
age: 47
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You probably are worrying too much. Odds are this isn't his first rodeo that she found out about. Go forth and be wiser.
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| 4/8/2008 9:03:01 PM |
had sex with a married man and ... im in trouble with his wife |
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heartquest8
Decatur, AL
age: 58
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maybe you could all go on the jerry springer show...
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| 4/8/2008 9:05:22 PM |
had sex with a married man and ... im in trouble with his wife |
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flowergirl62
South Australia
Australia
age: 46
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Maybe heartquest you could write something nice on a thread just once.................
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| 4/8/2008 9:07:47 PM |
had sex with a married man and ... im in trouble with his wife |
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gabisanic
Pleasant Hill, CA
age: 51
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Witness Protection Program might work... bulletproof vest... growing eyes in the back of your head... 
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| 4/8/2008 9:10:14 PM |
had sex with a married man and ... im in trouble with his wife |
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your_sweetie
Yuba City, CA
age: 49
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ohhh I think I hear the doorbell now...lol
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| 4/8/2008 9:13:24 PM |
had sex with a married man and ... im in trouble with his wife |
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heartquest8
Decatur, AL
age: 58
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well i did not mean everyone..only the kid that slept with the married man, his wife....let the audience decide...and the show would probably pay for the trip...kind of a vacation...for the parties involved...
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| 4/8/2008 9:15:48 PM |
had sex with a married man and ... im in trouble with his wife |
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krupa1
Abilene, TX
age: 39
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Are you kidding?
If you are looking for sympathy or pity....you are shit out of luck.
It takes two to tango.
Are you suprized his wife is pissed at BOTH of you?
He is an asshole. You ain't any better.
When you hook up with a man and he f*cks some other bird...see how you feel.
I f*cking swear, the shallow end of the gene pool just never seems to amaze me.
Do you honestly expect people to side with you on this subject?
If I was her.....I would hope you would feel guilty enough to consider suicide.
Just my opinion.
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| 4/8/2008 9:27:31 PM |
had sex with a married man and ... im in trouble with his wife |
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syndrome2480
Winston Salem, NC
age: 27
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I don't expect an 18 year old to realize this, but it has become sort of the new trend that married people don't normally wear rings anymore. I've known alot of people who are happily married but do not wear rings.
And I agree with krupa, this ain't no pity party. If his wife is smart, she should take your ass to court for alienation of affection. She better divorce the SOB too and sue him, then you and him can be together, although he won't even have a pot to piss in.
[Edited 4/8/2008 9:34:05 PM]
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| 4/8/2008 10:41:42 PM |
had sex with a married man and ... im in trouble with his wife |
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ladyvirtue52
Redding, CA
age: 52
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Just bend over and let her kick your butt and get it over with...LOL..No, really, I think you need to talk to her and let her know what happend. It goes both ways ya know. You didnt rape him, did you? Be honest and up front, truth is the best policy..good luck hun
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