| 4/18/2008 5:36:35 PM |
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mindyb
Park Rapids, MN
age: 43
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Weird YES...I never said I was anything less than a dork
So how honest are we here...name your selfish ways...we all have some
I want to be told daily...if I rock him or hee thinks I am sexy beautiful whatever his wonderful observations are his favorite things about me...I want to hear it daily and often...I love aguy who puts my tender heart first and takes excellent care of it...because ...this keeps me all wrapped in him and well that is a very...
very... ...very good thing, above the the norm for him...so keeping babydoll a happy girl is beneficial for him as many times a day as he can handle it...yeah I am selfish in the area too morning noon and night...hey but I am the giver
thats gotta count for something...
I am not a materialistic girl at all but I will also add I am selfish in that I love road trips top my favorite palces so my baby should be prepared to make that happen, i love my camping what can I say
your turn.... name your selfish little ways
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| 4/18/2008 5:56:59 PM |
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hkm
Bloomington, IL
age: 36
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Hello Miss Mindy !!! GOOD TO SEE YOU !!!!
Well we both know I have my selfish ways too. (Yes, Pickle is selfish) Hard to believe I know. 
I am selfish in the way that I have to have A LOT of attention, the more the better. I guess you could say I need to be spoiled. Prove to me you love me. Bring me flowers  and DO NOT ask if that is what I want, no matter what it is. JUST DO IT !!!
I have to be told that I am the world to you. Not just once but over and over and over again. I want a man that is going to curl up behind me and hold me even though I am pissed as hell at him and I tell him to go away and leave me alone. Makes me feel he cares.
I want a man that follows through on what he says he is gonna do. Major MUST !!!!
I am sure I can think of more and will add them as the night goes on. But I think this gives the general idea.
If a man showers me with these things I will give them in return.
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| 4/18/2008 6:01:14 PM |
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mindyb
Park Rapids, MN
age: 43
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HI BABYGIRL!!...mmmm Heather my luv....you have learned when min says NO no is no but no matter how many times you give me that cute little heavy sigh...amnd it is funny as hell...dont know if you even know your doing it...lol....yeaaaaaaaaaaaah that shit doesn't work on me....lol muahhhhh...love ya b*tch
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| 4/18/2008 6:02:10 PM |
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mindyb
Park Rapids, MN
age: 43
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good point there heather my luv... dont ask, pay attention, we do!...at least I do.
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| 4/18/2008 6:04:58 PM |
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muffycakes
Chanhassen, MN
age: 26
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He doesn't need to buy me things either...I need him to lean on me everyday...I am always the caregiver and will never give that up. I need him to ask me for help and advice when he needs it and not keep things bottled up inside. If he cant do that then he isn't worthy of me.
He should be prepared to let me go out dancing with my friends...Im not going to give up my friends night out dancing at the clubs. Its all I ask...He will have to accept that. Does that make me selfish?
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| 4/18/2008 6:08:31 PM |
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hkm
Bloomington, IL
age: 36
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Exactly Mindy, you have to know me to love me !!!!! As you, so well know !!!  
I am not an easy one to figure out. Very complex !!!!
[Edited 4/18/2008 6:12:26 PM]
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| 4/18/2008 6:58:42 PM |
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hkm
Bloomington, IL
age: 36
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I guess no one else wants to admit they are selfish Mindy !!!! 
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| 4/18/2008 7:04:44 PM |
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fourbars
Alva, OK
age: 22
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mindy..hkm..ill admit that i am about the worlds biggest show off...i half to have my sterio in my vehicles..and they half to be one of the loudest in town...dose that count??
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| 4/18/2008 7:05:50 PM |
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hkm
Bloomington, IL
age: 36
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Yes Four, but really hard for me to see a good ole country boy like you bein selfish!!! What about in a relationship??
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| 4/18/2008 7:09:44 PM |
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fourbars
Alva, OK
age: 22
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i honestly cant think of anything off hand...i know there is something...but i have never been told what it is...everyone is a little selfish at times...
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| 4/18/2008 7:46:05 PM |
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forestrose
Calgary, AB
age: 55
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Fourbars: I have someone with a blasting car stereo across the street -
wakes up my grandbaby, and anybody else, old or disabled who may need their mid-day rest.
Selfish: I don't like excessive noise in my environment, in my house or from outside;
if I need to get up later than someone else, I don't want to get up with them early.
if I don't want to cook, I won't. Probably my worst: I hog the remote - no ifs, ands or buts.
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| 4/18/2008 8:27:17 PM |
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fourbars
Alva, OK
age: 22
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forestrose..i can actually agree with you...my stereo (well the subs) are turned down when i get into a neighborhood...yes i do have them..but i only "play" with my toys out in the commercial area of town...and that isnt very often seeing that i work around 12 hours a day 6 days a week...but i do go to the competitions...i have fun with them mainly because i have always been a competitive person..but im just saying that not everyone who has the stereos play them at all hours and in residential areas....
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| 4/18/2008 9:04:16 PM |
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gunbunny
Fort Smith, AR
age: 52
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My last girl friend said that I wasn't a hugger. Well not in public maybe I also have a security zone of about three feet so do I need therapy.
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| 4/19/2008 2:06:21 PM |
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mindyb
Park Rapids, MN
age: 43
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when you love someone you want to be all over them...the desire to be with them ot be near them is always there...even tho you each may have your alone time your looking forward to getting back to them...if your not onfire for them then its not love....I want to be his center I am confident andI dont need to be the center of attention ina room or feel competetive if another woman is flirting and hanging on him i can deal with that no biggy but i need to be his everything I need him to long for me each day I need him to be the kind of guy who does not wash his beard or soul patch or goatee in the morning because he wants my scent withhim all day. I want the sexy lunch time emails and the phone calls telling me just how sexy I am and in detail I want sexy little loving text messages off and on whenever i cross his mind....and when home I want his arms around me the minute he walks in the door and grindme into the kitchen counter and maybe even pull me into the pantry. I love thoughtful ways, stopping by the garden shop and bringing me something to plant maybe even jasmin trees sending me flowers stop along the country road and picking me wildflowers....I just want to be the most importan person in his life, well his kids better come first and my kids better come first but aside from our babies, child or adult babies no matter kids first...aside from that I am number ione...NOT becausei demand it but becauseI want he kind of guy who thinks I am absolutely the best thing on the planet and he adores my freindship my comapnionship my hot sexy and my deep throat...oh and my massage of course...he has to love being massaged so you see while as slefish this way as I may be he is gonna get spoiled something ferious...I just gotta be loved that big and feel safe and know it will not let me down...wy because if it does I retreat right back to square one.
so hugging in public hell yes....in a crowded bar where no one can see I have a few surprises for him under my elegant dress or swaying skirt...huggs are nothing compared to how fun I love to play.Oh i repsect the zone of others ...i am tricky about it no one will know but him well and me.
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| 5/3/2008 2:02:38 PM |
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mindyb
Park Rapids, MN
age: 43
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my selfish little ways...value me....be considerate, be attentive in such a way that you have to have a little of me every day...No cancel that alot of me...value me...kiss me like you just cant stop and count every second to see me again...and simple kind consideration on a daily bassis...i dont ask for much , just to be treasured no big deal its just love, it feels great.
I dont know about you all but i value my freinds i text them and tell them nice things to lift them up somefriends i dont get a reply but most it means the world to them...people want to know they are valued...its a formn of love and I hug and kiss my friends too men and women alike....love is love....i am a selfish little giver and want the same in return....lol
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