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onlytruth
Saint Paul, MN
age: 33
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missmatch,
I know where you are commin from.I think if a real man came to you , he would be willing to make it work in anyway he could.
Giveing up is not an option.you of all people know this.
Taking your time is the major thing in a move.Make sure your both on the same page.I never said JUMP IN.
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| 7/17/2007 6:42:43 PM |
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ladybug59
Yuba City, CA
age: 48
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onlytruth,
I send you best wishes on your new journey in life. I have read several forums on this site, sence I've joined. I think that most people (in general) in life fear the unknown and, that tends to hold them back from the dreams they seek(LOVE). Family,children and friends will always be that. No matter where you are. I applaude your opinion and views on life and love. enjoy
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| 7/17/2007 6:49:21 PM |
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naptowndave
Indianapolis, IN
age: 23
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1800 miles for a woman???
dude thats a long walk home.
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| 7/17/2007 6:52:35 PM |
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reggiefoxxe
Phoenix, AZ
age: 46
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I'm a little late here, but sadhotel posted my odometer reading...
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| 7/17/2007 7:02:24 PM |
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chinatown_girl
Oyster Bay, NY
age: 19
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i thinks its like the age thing, it depends on the people involved and the situation. some ppl have jobs that will send them to different branches, some ppl have jobs where they have to stay put. some ppl have the kind of skills that are popular and they can get jobs anywhere. some guys have child support to pay and better keep their job. some people have kids and/or parents that they r responsible for while others r free birds who can fly with the wind. for instance if someone has kid who's a high school junior or senior getting ready for a prom and their mom took them across the country for a man most likely they'd hate him. love is special and worth fighting for but its also worth planning for.
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| 7/17/2007 7:02:30 PM |
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raghav1080
Dublin, OH
age: 27
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naptowndave:
Dont worry buddy. Chris' driving home...lol....
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| 7/17/2007 9:38:23 PM |
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peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 40
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Anything worth having is hard work, time and patience..I'd like to think someday some hot guy is just gonna look at me and say I'm here for you but, as much as that dream is just a dream, i"m not gonna go looking for "love" if it finds me and punches me in the jaw so b it lol. for now, just learning to live and E date o.o
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| 7/18/2007 6:12:11 AM |
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missmatch
Cleveland, TN
age: 51
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onlytruth: giving up is not an option...yeah, you're so right...i admire that about you and others on here who do not give up...btw, i haven't given up either, lol...i'm no quitter!!!!!!  keep us posted on how things go with you!!!!!!!!!!!
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| 7/18/2007 7:31:45 AM |
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truman44114
Cleveland, OH
age: 31
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Individual people have individual circumstances,
some far more and others, less complicated than others.
There are no pat answers. Each person has to look
deep inside themselves to make a decision.
I know that my daughter is young. Could I ever move 500
miles away from her? I may be cheaper to pay to move
the other person to my home or to attempt a long-distance
romance for a few months.
My uncle and aunt had a long-distance romance for 2 years
and finally got married. The distance was 160 miles and
the Internet did not make the world such a small place.
I am telling you. If I had the fortune to meet a good woman
from California, Hawaii or Toronto and she was for it, I'd get
her a job here and provide housing and financial support for her.
If you want to complicate this, suppose she has a parent she
must take care of. Weigh options to move closer to her. I just
don't understand what all the debate is about. Are there
any real problems that careful thought or planning will not
help resolve?
I've done dumber things in the name of love.
People will do a lot more in the name of lust.
I've seen that, too! Haven't done it yet, but I'm still young.
I am a romantic and believe that love conquers all.
Distance, whether it be 6 miles or 6,000 miles should not
make too much of a problem if physical needs are not the
highest priority. Cell phones, right?
Expense, right?
So what?
As I said, analyze your personal situation; there are NO pat answers.
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| 7/18/2007 7:35:39 AM |
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chinatown_girl
Oyster Bay, NY
age: 19
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i think u said it better than me, trueman. welcome to the forums!
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| 7/18/2007 7:58:20 AM |
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truman44114
Cleveland, OH
age: 31
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Thanks, CG, for both the compliment and the welcome
It doesn't cost much to hear my two cents
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| 7/18/2007 8:21:42 AM |
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lunawoman
Whittier, CA
age: 46
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Me, I am here looking for a companion, or just someone to hang out with to go down to the beach at night and watch the stars. You have to admit, most men here want Pamela anderson, men are very visual, I would love to have Brad Pitt, take me out but this is real life. and there are alot of people on the internet who are not whom they say they are, It makes it kinda scary to put yourself outhere without some doubt. I put myself out here on DH, and hope to correspond with someone who actually wants to hook up, DH seems to match me up with men that have not even bothered to send me one email Will It stop me from being here? Hell no!! I can see the men who have viewed my profile maybe I wasn't their cup of tea. Reading is knowledge, you can sometimes get a pretty good idea whom you are corresponding with. See what Im doing is TUTMT in typer terms. I am taking up to much time, LOL
But I also have met some cool friends whom I correspond with. Dont get me wrong, there are so many nice people whom I have emailed and whom have emailed back, These forums are also a cool place to meet people, I actually look forward to reading the threads when I get home from work in the morning, helps me to unwind, and even though I have only been on them for a week, and have fun reading others people views
on life. If it wasn't for these forums I would not be writing you today. My advice to everyone, be selective but be hosnest with yourself. Lunawoman
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| 7/18/2007 9:44:17 AM |
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peaches73036
El Reno, OK
age: 40
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lol, i'm here cause my bro took it upon himself to sign me up! I'm sick of others trying to "hook" me up tho..who knows what u want better then urself right? so, i took over and i'm not even looking just chillin and havin some fun with spam xD
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| 7/18/2007 10:12:39 AM |
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angelkissedu
Martinsburg, WV
age: 48
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Onlytruth.......you are so right, I've had it all, but was not complete along the way somewhere, I don't want or need for anything except that special person....I think you said it very well
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| 7/18/2007 11:20:30 AM |
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onlytruth
Saint Paul, MN
age: 33
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angel ,
I have been through alot and from all I have seen , I believe one thing......
If we don't follow our hearts and stop listening to others and their fears , we will all spend the rest of our lives wondering "What if".
No matter what we have in our life it will never be enough to make us happy.you'll never beable to beat the feeling of someone looking you in the eye and saying "I love you with all my heart" and you know it to be true without even a slight wonder in your mind.
Take my car , give me love.Take my house , give me a real love/Take all I have but I will still be a better man with that love.Nothing in my life can make me stronger then a good woman to love me and I can love in return with all our hearts.
Every choice we make from day to day has an impact on our future.I can find a job anywhere.I can rebuilt all I have at anytime in my life.I can start over 100 times.
but love is one thing that money can't buy , you cannot rebuild love.I say go for it and let GOD sort it out.FOLLOW YOUR HEART!!!!!!!Too hell with all the small things.
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