
goochie137
Kalamazoo, MI
age: 39
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I agree with some that have posted that each situation is unique. In my case, I'm a single mom of a 4 1/2 year old, been at my job for 22 years, and the only income and benefits provider for us. It would be difficult for me to move away from the security that I have, knowing that I'm totally responsible for the welfare of my son.
Onlytruth, I think it is noble for you to move that far away to be with the woman you love. I don't have it in my profile that I won't move far way, maybe I should go add that or change it. But by no means that it doesn't mean I'm not looking for love.
I wish you all the happiness, just my 2 cents worth.
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happyrunnr1
Mechanicsburg, PA
age: 26
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Yeah absolutely cant click your heels and your love will appear. I will go to the ends of the earth to find what im looking for but I think its a two way street
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trinagirl
Riverdale, NJ
age: 47
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onlytruth you write great posts!!! so much passion and drive.
but from what am reading, even if want to follow your heart, real life and situations can make it almost impossible. so why go that way and even think of meeting someone real far.
it only works if someone can move. how do you have a relationship if its once every few weeks or months??!!
for me i dont have kids but my dad is up in years and has homecare. only other family is my brother who lives in holland. my dad lives 2 hours away but if i moved across the country it would be really difficult to be there soon if needed. couldnt leave my only close relative especially if he has no other around.
sometimes i wonder if true love is out there but maybe real far away but for now i dont take that chance since i cant up and leave.
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redhead36
Seagoville, TX
age: 37
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I am a romantic at heart, so I say go for it..
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bloodyroots23
Acworth, GA
age: 25
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I think people rush love and try too hard to find it, that's why people look in there town or 10-25 miles of there homes. Try'n to find thats easy love or some to control.
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serviceman2
Miami, FL
age: 31
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What the hell is LOVE?
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53lady
Jacksonville, FL
age: 53
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Onlytruth...I wish you the best of luck! Just curious..how long have you known your lady? I started out thinking the same way about being able to move across country, but a weird things happened. Three different guys who lived quite far from me 2 turned out to be crude and one guy, very desperate! I guess they think that because they are far away they can start IM me with all this sex stuff! I don't even know them. I ended up blocking them. It's not funny...so if some of you guys are comtemplating that...please don't. Anyway...I started thinking about my mom who is 76, and if something happened and I wasn't around. I already live about 80 miles from her now. Anyway, I live in a big city, and if I can't find one person from 100 miles radius away at most, then something's seriously wrong. I just can't justify a big move at this time. If and when things change...then I would be free to travel at will.
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