| 5/4/2008 11:25:30 AM |
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im_vika
Brooklyn, NY
age: 32 online now!
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Too me, love is more like an onion...There are a lot of layers there. Sometimes, just like and onion, it will make you cry....And sometimes, when it's "cooked" just right, it is very sweet...I have heard before of those chemical changes. I think that's what I would call "lust"...
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| 5/4/2008 11:27:15 AM |
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ms_luksi5273
Amarillo, TX
age: 56 online now!
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Speaking from experience, yes, love can last a lifetime. It just depends on how long you consider a lifetime. Our lifetime was 33 yrs (2yrs long distance dating & 31 yrs married), but then God decided that our lifetime needed to end. Even though he's gone, I'll always keep loving him, but there is room for someone else. That's what he wanted for me before he had to go.
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| 5/4/2008 11:29:11 AM |
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sumbeach777
Red Springs, NC
age: 44
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Yes It can, Learning to love,and being in love does take work. Its up to the person to see that its last. And not look for something else when things dont go your way all the time.
JMO....Beach
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| 5/4/2008 3:15:30 PM |
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filmcriti
Feeding Hills, MA
age: 47
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I've been reading a past lives regression book and it says your soul knows the truth of how many lives you have lived now imagine your soul would also know how many times you loved for real and how many times you didn't...... so the term soulmate must come from that feeling that you know a certain someone, you loved a life time, some people will never get it right and keep returning as different beings and some never find their true soulmate but some probably will discover their true soulmate and fait steps in and throws your life a curve they die, there married or whatever and then theres the lucky few that have found soulmate tried and true......now what happens when you do?
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| 5/4/2008 3:18:30 PM |
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snowbird1961
Los Lunas, NM
age: 46 online now!
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I believe love can last a lifetime but you gotta create your own medicine.
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| 5/4/2008 4:43:12 PM |
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princesstimber
Fayetteville, AR
age: 40
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Yes... I would take the medication... Love is blind... Ignorance is bliss, they say... At least in love... ~DJ
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| 5/4/2008 5:04:52 PM |
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tazzper23
Texarkana, TX
age: 45 online now!
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yes i've seen it first hand
love was meant to last a lifetime . only when we try to love for reason other then love . like looks ,money,sex thing like that love wont last . cause those thing fade away in the long run . when we are dead and gone love will still be here cause god is love and he put love within us but we are why love fades . i want to spend the rust of my life singel then fall in love cause of how someone look are how much money they have are even cause of sex . its what inside i want and i mean all of whats inside .
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| 5/4/2008 5:09:55 PM |
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soulcrazy
San Clemente, CA
age: 38
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I believe it will... failure for us is NOT an option!
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| 5/4/2008 5:38:51 PM |
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gonesailingbabe
Des Moines, IA
age: 44
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well, I have heard there are drugs available to alter your mood, control your hormones, extend your staying power, and momentum and increase your vigor. There are also drugs and medications for bringing you down and bringing you up.
I've never taken any.
Nor has anyone in my family.
Even my child who was diagnosed at a young age with autism and ADHD has never taken any medications to enhance or alter his neurological functions.
I simply do not believe in them nor advocate their use.
(I know all you Dr's etc., out there go ahead and smack me - whatever! This is what I think!)
But now to romantically extend the feel good?
1. I think that yes there are endorphins which chemically control our body and our emotions and our impulses while sexually and romantically "engaged" in the mating rituals. This includes all aspects and not just intercourse.
2. If you could pharmaceutically recreate those and by digesting a pill continue to feel them always would you want to?
Sadly doesn't that imply that you would be content to allow your relationship to be so shallow, and unreal as to not be able to endure all the normal up's and down's of relating?
Doesn't that imply that you would prefer to take the easy road, pop a pill and be happy than to learn how to be an adult and ride the roller coaster together?
Me, I'm a roller coaster girl.
I don't pick the merry-go-round when I go to the amusement park.
I seek the peaks and thrills and hold on tight and grip your thighs ride of the scariest roller coaster out there....
Why pay the price to get in, if you want to just go around in circles?
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| 5/4/2008 5:42:43 PM |
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sweetiepie1977
Jacksonville, FL
age: 30
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I am hoping that when I find it and it finds me, that it will last until the end of our days....I know this will sound kinda "Notebook" movie-ish...but I want THAT kind of forever love and devotion!
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| 5/4/2008 6:13:07 PM |
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paullove3
Warren, OR
age: 43
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i believe love is a very true emotion, that will allways be a part of your life. Everyone you meet, and everyone you talk to and everone who meets you, will become a part of your life through love. Love of some kind! ,,,,that choice is allways yours to deside what kind of love you have for another person.
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