winesong
Bend, OR
age: 60
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You might find some new thinking or how you handle current situations with some
new material to think about. Give it a thought...or a first hand experience..
do you currently partake in this 30 day program?
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These are the notes from Jack Canfield's SUCCESS PRINCIPALS
SEMINAR
You can sign up for a 30 day personal mentoring program with Jack at
www.jackcanfield. com It's FREE.. I'm doing it!!
ACT AS IF...you are already doing these principals. Visualize yourself
doing them.
1. Take 100% responsibility for your life and your results.
Everything we are we've either created it, promoted it, or allowed it
to happen. We need to give up ALL:
blaming, complaining, defending, justifying and excuse making.
If we want to be happier, healthier and wealthier, get 8 hours of
sleep per night and listen to motivational cd's during sleep. Between
6 1/2 - 8 hours of sleep, our brain stores things into our long term
memory when HGH kicks in.
Always ask for feedback. Ask, "On a scale of 1-10 how would you rate
this.... (insert whatever)" Anything less than a 10, ask, "What would
it take to make it a 10?" (Good to do with our teams)
Be grateful for feedback. Jack and his wife ask each other every
Sunday night, "Honey, how would you rate me as a husband/wife this
past week on a scale of 1-10?" and What could I do differently to make
it a 10?"
Focus on what you DO want instead of what you DON"T want. What you
focus on is what you get.
Its important how you talk to yourself. Stop listening to doomsdayers.
Stop watching the news, just the names change. Instead, write, read
and uplifting book, meditate, pray, do something positive. Do what is
uplifting, positive. The power is in the feeling the actions create.
You have a responsibility of where you put your attention. Where your
attention goes is what you will attract to yourself.
Recommended reading: "A Complaint Free World" by Will Rowen
Stop complaining. It takes 28 dyas to create a new habit, for the
brain to create a new neurological pathway, 28 dyas of uninterrupted
focus.
Read your motivational books over and over, making notes and
highlighting the important parts. Try not to complain for 28 days, one
day at a time.
E + R = O
Event + Response = Outcome
If your husband forgets your birthday you choose how to respond. For
example, you can say to yourself:
1. He doesn't love me ... or
2. He forgot, I hope he's OK.
If someone is upset with you, it's not about you, it's about them.
Jack Canfield's book, "Chicken Soup for the Soul" was rejected 144
times before it was published. Instead of giving up, or deciding it
was no good, Jack chose to say to himself, "The person that will love
your book does not live at this address." To deal with rejection,
stay in the game, say positive things to yourself, and don't get
depressed.
Law of Probabilities. The more things you try the more likely one of
them will work.
If you are not getting the outcome you want, change the RESPONSE, not
the EVENT.
You have to give up all your excuses and find a way.
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