5/10/2008 9:59:10 AM |
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snshl2b1
Atlanta, GA
age: 46
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i read about the 80/20 rule today. it's that when you're deciding whether or not to date someone, they should embody at least 80% of the traits you desire and don't rule them out for the 20% of the virtues they are lacking.
are you having any luck with the 80/20's out there?
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5/10/2008 10:03:04 AM |
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surfergirl82
Santa Monica, CA
age: 25
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I'm not that good in math ...sorry..
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5/10/2008 10:11:03 AM |
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metu
Mansfield, TX
age: 46
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Rules??? We don't need no steeeeenking rules! To tell you the truth, I don't really have a "trait checklist" other than the fact I'm attracted to intelligence & humor...I despise sports, neatniks, pu$$ys, wussys, geeks, freaks, Momma's boys, & Big Boy toys...but you know, I believe I have dated everyone of those traits & still had fun doing it! I understand where you're coming from...just don't think I use that as a determining factor. I know, I'm wierd!
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5/10/2008 10:19:29 AM |
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wileyguy
Wilkes Barre, PA
age: 37
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never heard of that i have a few 'musts' and the rest ain't all that important.
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5/10/2008 10:20:22 AM |
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scottt39
Ocean View, HI
age: 45 online now!
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I agree where do all the rules come from. Who makes them, who believes them, who follows them, who reads them and where can I get a copy. The only rules I have are in my heart, I try to learn from my mistakes and try not to repeat them too often. And have fun doing so.
[Edited 5/10/2008 10:21:09 AM]
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5/10/2008 10:22:15 AM |
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tfortexas
Big Sandy, TX
age: 56
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Its hard enough to a 50/50 whos going to find a 80/20
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5/10/2008 10:24:58 AM |
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cortneyjoy
Chickasha, OK
age: 23 online now!
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WOW this is the first ive heard of that!!
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5/10/2008 10:32:26 AM |
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infogal
Lancaster, PA
age: 40
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Never heard of it myself,
I generaly don't like drug addicts alcoholics
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5/10/2008 10:44:19 AM |
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cheeryposh
Spartanburg, SC
age: 33
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I've never heard of the 80/20 rule. Yes, there does need to be some kind of connection between two individuals, but sharing the majority of interests takes a lot of the fun out of discovering what excites your significant other. Be a risk taker who is ready to try new things. Your willingness to experience and show interest in activities enjoyed by your significant other speaks volumes.
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5/10/2008 10:47:01 AM |
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debsthegirl
Lemoore, CA
age: 35
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I go by how I feel about who the person is and how he treats me not by some stupid rule.
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5/10/2008 11:11:59 AM |
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thebestman
Alpharetta, GA
age: 34 online now!
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I try not to turn dating into mathematics.
I keep it simple. Either I find her attractive, we have chemistry, and she wants to see me, or or none of the above. If all 3 is not there, NEXT.
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5/10/2008 4:44:02 PM |
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rocket000
Murrayville, GA
age: 50
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I've heard about the 80/20 rule. It makes sense. However, I have a friend who explained the A, B, C list of dating a potential long- term partner. These will vary for each person.
A's: These are your non-negotiables, ie: attractive to you, moral, non smoker, charitable, able to communicate, loves animals, faithful, etc. These are the MOST IMPORTANT.
B's: These are negotiables and not deal breakers. Say you like going to Broadway musical and he/she doesn't. Well, you can go with a friend.
C's: Are just icing on the cake. He has thick, wavy hair, is a good dancer, is handy around the house. These are just an extra bonus if they happen to exist.
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5/10/2008 4:48:19 PM |
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metu
Mansfield, TX
age: 46
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Damn! What ever happened to leaving a note that said "I like you", ringing the door-bell & running away?
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5/10/2008 4:53:40 PM |
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justdancin
Tomball, TX
age: 51
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Rules? Sounds like going to a fast food place for a burger, to find they're out of pickles ... Do you want it anyways?
I don't think it's possible to 'have it your way' in a mutually, satisfying relationship.
As we are all individuals, compromise is imperative ... is it not? What happened to, "...walk beside me and be my friend"?
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5/10/2008 4:54:00 PM |
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pwin_here_n_now
Annapolis, MD
age: 38
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New to me.... but I have to say ~ Looking for the whole package.... so No 80/20 here only 100 percent.....
tough - Yeah - But okay... we are all looking for that special person. And that is different for everyone.
Peace!
P.Win
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